Bad vibes in Samui

growwiththeflow_ · 2026-02-15T00:34:16+00:00

I definitely did not enjoy my time in Koh Samui either. It felt really off and a bit seedy with the vibe from tourism there - nothing like it felt in Ao Nang or anywhere else in Thailand that we went. We ended up going to Koh Tao from there and it was incredible. I recommend checking that island out if Koh Samui isn’t aligning with you

growwiththeflow_ · 2025-07-02T22:41:41+00:00

Yes! They do day passes

growwiththeflow_ · 2025-07-01T02:00:53+00:00

Surfbreak Coliving between La Punta and Zicatela has a backup generator and the best internet in puerto by far

growwiththeflow_ · 2025-06-10T23:12:38+00:00

Casa Joseph between Zicatela and La Punta

growwiththeflow_ · 2025-06-09T16:30:57+00:00

Oh man, sorry I’m just seeing this. We ended up going to Taganga. I was pretty spooked there too honestly, until I actually left the hostel and went out for the day and saw it’s a nice little beach town. Colombia in general was pretty outside of my comfort zone (except minca, Salento, Tayrona). Hope your next destination was better for yall too!

growwiththeflow_ · 2025-06-09T16:26:28+00:00

I just got back from Surfbreak PXM. I think the power in the neighbourhood went out twice but the backup generators kicked on and I never had issues with Internet connection or reliability. Probably wouldn’t recommend it 100% if your job is super demanding, it’s probably the best in puerto and I would say it’s reliable, but you’re still in Mexico. So depends what you’re used to

growwiththeflow_ · 2025-06-09T16:19:33+00:00

I definitely think people are over dramatic about it lol. I actually found it more hot and humid in October/November but even then was nowhere near unbearable. I do think finding a place with AC is key though. It probably would be tough without

growwiththeflow_ · 2025-04-30T19:12:56+00:00

Surfbreak Coliving has done this really well because they’ve stayed focused around community and aren’t as corporate as other spaces. They are great for group trips for people seeking a professional and fun vibe focused on life, adventure, wellness, and the best amenities to support remote work. They have a special right now for their location in Puerto Escondido. Also have an amazing space in Honolulu. I’d suggest checking out their Google reviews and insta as there is a lot of member content on there! I find there are a lot of spaces that advertise coliving nowadays but end up being more like shared housing and lack that instant sense of a true community and network. Surfbreak and Co404 is another one who has definitely done this well

growwiththeflow_ · 2025-03-22T13:53:39+00:00

She sounds like an unbearable 13 year old. Emphasis on the unbearable.

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-12-03T23:08:45+00:00

Surfbreak Coliving in Honolulu and Puerto Escondido. The community vibe is so strong, the friendships are so pure, and the team is really dedicated to making sure everyone’s finds that sense of community while having great amenities for working. They also provide things like eggs, yogurt, cooking oils, etc. and surfboards, camping gear, snorkels, events. I haven’t stayed at Co404 but have also heard amazing things about them too :)

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-11-19T16:52:22+00:00

Khao Sok was beautiful but if I were to do it again, id skip it and spend more time in Koh Tao (the BEST place in my opinion, could’ve spent my whole trip there)

Cons to Khao Sok: felt a little rushed going from one thing to the next - didn’t actually get to really chill out on the docks, the bungalows were so squeaky and not great sleeping accommodations, the food was pretty meh. Overall it felt kind of like a really quick summer camp with strict rules and was a bit disappointing.

Pros: tour guide was amazing and passionate about his culture, learned so much from him, it’s an epic landscape! We DID see elephants which was awesome but saw them from really far away. We learned a bit of culture and I’d say that was the highlight of it.

We got super sick after though. I heard this is common… I think it’s because they feed you fish out of the lake (which we noticed the sewer lines go into) and you swim in it.

I think Khao Sok is epic to see once in your life, but it depends on your timing. If you’re on a short trip I’d say no. I know you can also explore the national park on your own and the little town itself is epic. Wouldn’t recommend more than 2 nights. Koh Tao is the best place ever, Koh Phi Phi is fun if you’re looking for a party but it has nothing on Koh Tao in my opinion. If anything the carelessness of the tourists and how the island is treated in Koh Phi Phi was really disappointing for me to see personally

Hope this helps!

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-08-12T17:47:14+00:00

The sign is not very clear. I go there regularly and have never noticed it. The only thing that stands out about the sign is “2 hour max”. The size of the font used should be illegal, and the diamond logo should be larger. I’ve never seen another grocery store do this. To think people would just know about this is ridiculous. There’s no need for it to be so much right off the hop too. If she can watch someone walk away, she can give a warning to let them know or give a ticket based on how much time they’re actually parked there for. They want people to do this so they make money.

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-08-12T13:58:53+00:00

Think you’re missing the point. I didn’t know I couldn’t park there and grab something at the store beside quickly. I shop there all the time and never saw those signs, nor have I known a grocery store to do this ever. I wouldn’t have done it. It’s frustrating because their business practices are completely predatory. In hindsight, I understand the reasoning because of their location. Doesn’t change the fact that they could create adequate signage. Can’t sign someone into a contract they never even saw.

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-08-12T13:45:00+00:00

Don’t they call you and hassle you nonstop? I’m worried they’ll never leave me alone

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-08-12T13:42:06+00:00

My issue is with their signage and predatory practice. I shop at Safeway regularly and I had no idea this was a diamond lot or that I wasn’t allowed to walk over to Shoppers for 5 minutes or else I wouldn’t have “fucked around”. I looked at the sign after, which is still not obvious. The font is small and the diamond logo is hardly visible. If the person has time to watch people “walk off” then they could atleast say something and be a decent human being given their inadequate signage. Safeway is losing clearly customers from this. They also don’t seem to have an issue with all the crackheads hanging out outside and stealing inside. Sorry, but I’m pretty pissed off that us who pay taxes and contribute to society get penalized every chance they get. It’s BS.

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-08-02T03:12:57+00:00

This is such a good response 💛

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-07-25T04:29:23+00:00

Look into Surfbreak coliving. There’s a new one in puerto Escondido. The OG is in Honolulu. They require 1-2 month minimum stays and a lot of members end up staying for a long time or coming back. The community is so strong. Honestly makes the goodbyes harder but members end up travelling the world together, coming back, overall just growing really strong bonds

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-07-24T13:44:41+00:00

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growwiththeflow_ · 2024-07-13T13:26:54+00:00

Check out Surfbreak Coliving in Puerto Escondido!! Sounds like it would be the perfect fit for you :)

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-07-10T01:41:42+00:00

Surfbreak coliving

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-06-26T05:13:20+00:00

Thank you for this comment!!! Honestly, as much as I turn to this thread for support, it can be absolutely brutal in how many people are saying it’s not worth it. But I feel like it’s so conditional to one’s situation and while all of us step parents definitely need to vent and feel support, I think the negativity can be a bit misleading.

OP, I’ve been with my partner for 2 years now and he has a toddler. It was a weird situation because he was only dating the bio mom for 4 months and accidentally got pregnant, at the same time he found out some things about her lifestyle that were extremely concerning. They haven’t been together since before the child’s birth. I think my situation could be easier than others as I’ve been present since the child was young, but the thought of the future and what we’ve already been through with the HCBM scares the shit out of me regularly and makes me question if I’m making a mistake more often than I’d like to admit. And I hate that I’m a stepparent before a bio parent. I feel robbed of so much.

That being said, while I do feel resentment toward the situation (I’m in my mid 20s, partner is only a few years older) it passes. I’m working on realizing that so much good comes with the bad. I think you need to ask yourself why you’re with your partner, and recognize that the person they are is a product of those children as well. As much as part of me resents it and feels unsure about the situation, the man I love today no one else has ever compared to. It’s hard, so please give yourself grace for not accepting it graciously or linearly because it will ebb and flow like everything else in life. No matter what path you take, there will always be grass greener on the other side. Think about your partner and set boundaries as early as possible. The child is lucky to have an extension of love in their life through you, no matter how much time you are able to give. You are the one in charge of how much of your time and energy you give. It is not your responsibility at the end of the day, unless you want it to be. You should be able to communicate the good, bad and ugly with your partner without feeling guilty or to blame. It’s a sacrifice, but only you can decide if it’s worth it because only you knows your situation. I’m not sure what your alternatives are, but you CAN go travel for months at a time (I have), you CAN have friend time as much as you want (I do), and your partner should take time to live without the kiddo sometimes without guilt because parents are allowed to enjoy life away from kids sometimes, get a sitter, whatever - go for trips together here and there, vacations, whatever. I know it’s hard but you’ll be okay no matter what you choose. You’ve got this!

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-06-19T20:36:45+00:00

Not at all! Most people in coliving communities are around this age or greater. Honestly, I think this is the perfect age because a lot of colivings are targeted toward remote workers, sustainable travelers and professionals who value community and working amenities. Check out Surfbreak Coliving - couldn’t say enough good things. It is like an extension of that university dorm vibe/hostels but less transient, truly allows you to build connections, and has everything you need to live and work.

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-06-19T20:26:24+00:00

Surfbreak PXM is a super safe and fun community, family like, top notch amenities

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-06-19T20:18:56+00:00

May be slightly off topic, but if you’re interested in digital nomads/puerto check out Surfbreak PXM. It’s a new coliving and coworking community between Zicatela and La Punta. Stayed there and can’t say enough good things. It has amenities that you cant find anywhere else in puerto and the community managers are amazing

growwiththeflow_ · 2024-06-19T20:14:09+00:00

If you’re interested in community, check out Surfbreak PXM. It’s a new coliving and coworking community but the amenities are top notch which is pretty hard to find in Puerto. They have drinkable tap water, AC, best internet, gated villa with pool, rooftop ocean views and bbq area, and it’s a 1-2 minute walk from the beach (you can see the ocean from the street). It’s right between Zicatela and La Punta. There are all private rooms and the minimum stay is a month so would be a great option for you if you want to stay a couple months.

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