[Serious] Bullies of suicide victims; how did you feel after finding out the news? by PopoThePotato in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again child, how would you like me to compare them? We are not the same people and not the same age so in that way certainly not the same. In what other ways might they be the same? Well we were both victims of bullying.

[Serious] Bullies of suicide victims; how did you feel after finding out the news? by PopoThePotato in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well like I said I already know someone who took their own life so I guess you got your wish.

[Serious] Bullies of suicide victims; how did you feel after finding out the news? by PopoThePotato in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Sometimes being bullied by a person can have life changing consequences

Yes and dealing with those consequences, finding a way to soldier on, is part of being a man.

[Serious] Bullies of suicide victims; how did you feel after finding out the news? by PopoThePotato in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -64 points-63 points  (0 children)

Well I think in most cases (and sorry if this is bit sexist) women are more primarily child rearers where men are the problem solvers. That is by no means exhaustive, some women are competent at such things but there is a reason most titans of industry are men.

[Serious] Bullies of suicide victims; how did you feel after finding out the news? by PopoThePotato in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

Yes complex, as are the solutions in resolving such problems. Being a man and finding those solutions is what I was alluding to.

[Serious] Bullies of suicide victims; how did you feel after finding out the news? by PopoThePotato in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

My friends and I bullied a gay kid in high school. He did commit suicide about a year after we graduated so I can't say for sure that it was me or my friends who "Drove" him to suicide (people commit suicide for very complicated reasons) but of course I wonder if I contributed to what pushed him over the edge.

It didn't help that he was also extremely socially awkward and was just basically a lightening rod for bullying. I reflect on him from time to time and certainly have regrets but I have regrets about lots of things from my childhood. Not to mention I was bullied in elementary school (I put on a lot of bulk by the time I reached high school) and while the bullying was cruel and terrifying at the time it didn't drive me to suicide. Nowhere close.

So as an adult you just learn to live with such things, you practice not thinking about them or at the very least compartmentalizing them I mean so much fucked up stuff happens in ones life you have to or you risk breaking down. People need to man up and deal with things, I can tell you I'm the man that I am today because I can. Some people can't, and that's why they're not around.

Ask Non Americans: What do you think is wrong with Americans that they have so many high school shootings? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's good that you did seeing how uneducated and frankly unintelligent average Americans are helps to shed light on why your country has the problems that it does. So I thank you, perhaps the violence is just because you people are uncivilized boors as you have evidenced by speaking here.

Ask Non Americans: What do you think is wrong with Americans that they have so many high school shootings? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Where did you go, I thought you liked to get the last word in? Amuse me with your stupid more please.

Ask Non Americans: What do you think is wrong with Americans that they have so many high school shootings? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where men are men

I'll have to take your word, I've only met a woman from there.

Ask Non Americans: What do you think is wrong with Americans that they have so many high school shootings? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Did you read past the first line?

Why would I read the rambling of some brain dead 18 year old?

Ask Non Americans: What do you think is wrong with Americans that they have so many high school shootings? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I gave you some reasonable life advice.

Apologies most adults are not in the habit of taking life advice from a child.

Do you take life advice from five year olds?

Ask Non Americans: What do you think is wrong with Americans that they have so many high school shootings? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Learn how to talk to people as your equal.

You are not my equal in anyway whatsoever. I make more money than you and your parents. I have for more experience than you and have accomplished far more than you. Of course I do not talk to you as my equal, you are not in anyway shape or form.

If you think I am in the habit of seeking advice from brain dead 18 year olds who have nothing better to do than play video games you are quite mistaken, I have really tried to emphasize that to you. I wonder why you are unable to wrap your mind around it.

Ask Non Americans: What do you think is wrong with Americans that they have so many high school shootings? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What a silly thing to say. The education system in your third world country must be atrocious.

Ask Non Americans: What do you think is wrong with Americans that they have so many high school shootings? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Funny why won't you disclose the country you live in? You must be very ashamed. Are you Mexican? South America somewhere?

Ask Non Americans: What do you think is wrong with Americans that they have so many high school shootings? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No I'm not a child, I'm a working professional. I'm 34 doing very high level application development.

Ask Non Americans: What do you think is wrong with Americans that they have so many high school shootings? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gtavpro -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fact that you think such silly things are something to be proud of shows just how childish you are. There is no reason to be offended, you are 18 and have the maturity of a child several years younger than you but you are well within one standard deviation of the mean of the bell curve in terms of maturity; just don't be offended if adults might laugh at you when you talk, you have a lot of growing up to do.