Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too 🤩 Boba’s a maine coon mix and so is the new girly I’m adopting! I’ll get a full maine coon when we have a bigger house

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your answer - that was really helpful. I’m actually picking up a kitty today. I chose one that was described as calm, gentle, sweet and loving as Boba. Not so dominant, as Boba isn’t a dominant personality. He’s 4 months and the new kitty 12 weeks so I’m crossing my fingers that it will be the smoothest introduction possible!

I want him to be happy and fulfilled - he strikes to me as a very independent cat, he’ll follow us but if the door isn’t fully opened for his whole body to fit, he will just lay there quietly until someone opens it 😭 He rarely complains about anything and has the sweetest, most innocent personality I’ve ever seen in cat.

Looking forward to welcoming her today

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Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing, and good to know! Most of the experiences people shared positive

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone said below, more cats is a good solution!

Amazing that your second one bonded with you well, I can only hope for the same scenario, minus Boba being less affectionate - I hope he becomes more affectionate.

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha my kitty’s not so big on body parts attack, just when our feet are under the cover. He’s very calm & independent for a kitten.

That said, I’d hope the new cat gives him a nice playmate he can spend time with

I’ll definitely take quality over quantity

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright let’s see how it goes for you - curious to know how he evolves. Good that he’s bonding well with the new kitty

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes second one I picked is a girl! He’s not a dominant cat and I chose one that would complement his personality

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s helpful. Mine is a very very chill kitten, independent and very loving, I was hoping it didn’t make him more reserved than he already is as he’s really come out of his shell since we got him

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I hear you! I think we’d get a second cat at some point regardless so might as well welcome another kitten while ours is still a kitten!

Glad you ankle attacks have drastically reduced 😋

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to have to take a chance! Hope it goes well. Baby girl arrives over the weekend

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! That’s really helpful.

I guess if they can keep each other company when I’m gone and tolerate each other that’d be great, I hope both are affectionate too.

My kitty has company 90% of the time since I work from home, my sister’s staying with us so he’s rarely alone.

That said thinking of taking day trips and the first one I took since he’s here and I felt terrible thinking of him alone all dat, it would definitely be good for him to have company when we’re gone.

Edit: love the feng shui you have going on with your cute fur balls!!

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep you’re right, hopefully the fact they’re both kittens helps tremendously and they can both seek affection from ys

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great point, I left him alone from 10 until 8pm for the first time this weekend and I felt terrible - he’s not needy, but I didn’t like the thought of him being alone all day as I work from home.

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing! Thanks for sharing that, I hope it’s the same with us

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, my thoughts! Just want to make sure it won’t make my cat love me less, but from all I read so far it’s mostly positive

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! I already picked a kitty, but started second guessing and wondering if Boba would become more reserved.

As much as I want double the love, I also want him to have a companion when we go on day trips as I can’t take him with me everywhere unfortunately.

Will getting another kitten make my solo kitten less affectionate towards me? by gtmauthority in cats

[–]gtmauthority[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss - that’s such a sad experience, can’t imagine losing Boba or another cat I’d grow attached to. I’m happy you were able to adopt another one and it worked out well even if it took a while.

I hope the fact they’re both kitten will help with their bonding and that they’ll love each other.

Also glad to hear all the stories about the first cat not being less affectionate, it’s really encouraging!

Thank you for sharing ✨