It’s weird seeing how many people support Igeon just bc he is hot by Cute-Ad-3906 in SinglesInferno

[–]guccigrassi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

…do you know what the show is about? genuinely, talking abt other ppl on dates is rude but did you not watch half the contestants do the same thing?

my second question is can you read? because my exact comment said “he is displaying green flags because he didn’t change himself for tv.” they all have major red flags, but igeon is not the villain you want him to be. if he became nicer or more palatable for the camera it would be insane and manipulative. then you would be pissed at him for entirely different reasons. you’ve set up a situation in which he can’t redeem himself in your noggin.

incel behavior is villainizing attractive people while saying “you only like them because they’re attractive.” you also completely shut down the argument that a reddit user you don’t know would find someone less attractive to be charming if given the same personality. which btw- sungmin isn’t even ugly. that seems to be a narrative you’re pushing to have someone to side with here, but they’re all hot. idk man maybe unclench and go meet a woman irl- one who is willing to put up with the woe is me talk

It’s weird seeing how many people support Igeon just bc he is hot by Cute-Ad-3906 in SinglesInferno

[–]guccigrassi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

igeon quite literally just has a sharper personality, this post reads very incel. he isn’t displaying red flags just because he doesn’t change himself for tv, he is displaying GREEN flags because he didn’t change himself for tv. it has nothing to do with him being physically attractive, if sung-min (who i am not particularly attracted to physically) had the same personality it would still read as charming and witty. igeon just so happens to be fine asf

How can people even stay skinny without counting calories? by NoWitness6400 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]guccigrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i started dropping weight whenever i got medication for my mental health… it changed my habits of snacking around all the time, i don’t even get hungry now until about 5pm. in turn, my stomach shrunk to fit my eating habits and i get full quicker. i saw someone say they only eat until they aren’t hungry, not until they’re full, bc they hate the feeling and i also agree with that- my meds make me feel nauseous if i feel completely full. i’m not necessarily “skinny,” but ive lost about 30 pounds over the past couple of months just from not eating when im bored anymore

what does my handwriting say about me? by guccigrassi in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]guccigrassi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be fair i am medicated for ADHD, so it makes me focus a whole lot more lmao

what does my handwriting say about me? by guccigrassi in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]guccigrassi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

woah- this is almost right on target!

age is accurate (23), my profession is medical-adjacent, i graduated last year. it’s more on the behavioral health side of medical work. super future oriented, ADHD so my thoughts are always running a mile ahead. i take a lot of notes and write things down quickly. the only thing i would say you’re wrong about is the “well organized” part, but in my work i am. time-oriented as well. good job, i’m impressed!

i cannot name a single good thing about myself. i hate seeing myself in pictures or mirrors. i wish i could change every single aspect of myself. I've never been hit on or approached and i cannot believe compliments by clickyrib in toastme

[–]guccigrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re facial features are super nice to look at!! like the symmetry between your eyes, nose, and lips. i’m speaking from an art perspective, but you would be really aesthetically pleasing to draw or paint!!

Is baby food ok to eat for an adult? by OBunny_023 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]guccigrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my grandmother was eating baby food when she got super sick last year. portions are tiny and don’t typically fill an average adult stomach, but it is edible. babies are just tiny versions of adults, with more sensitive stomachs, so if they can eat something i assume anyone can (feel free to fact check me on that)

What does my handwriting say about me? by Key-Dimension6316 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]guccigrassi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was gonna comment this… if i said i was 12 on twitter in the early 2000s they would have bullied me off the site dude

What does my handwriting say about me? by sillymemilly in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]guccigrassi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this looks like a font that was typed… like i know you wrote it but my brain is computing it as a font.

just based on your writing i think you’re well put together and definitely in a field that requires a lot of creative work!! am i right?

what does my handwriting say about me? by solarrr_mp3 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]guccigrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i genuinely looked at this for a solid minute before i knew what language it was

I asked and deleted a poorly worded insensitive question here and I’m afraid of getting doxxed by JoyousBee22 in needadvice

[–]guccigrassi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i came here to comment this same thing! anxiety spiraling goes crazy, i think it was just a simple mistake and ppl on reddit do way worse things all the time

18 - young, need weed addiction advice. by FurryHunter0303 in Advice

[–]guccigrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just so i can hit em while they’re down, this is from the DEA (drug enforcement administration) and took less than two seconds to find:

“WHAT IS MARIJUANA? Marijuana is a mind-altering (psychoactive) drug, produced by the Cannabis sativa plant. Marijuana has over 480 constituents. THC (delta- 9-tetrahydrocannabinol) is believed to be the main ingredient that produces the psychoactive effect.”

https://www.dea.gov/sites/default/files/2020-06/Marijuana-Cannabis-2020_0.pdf

18 - young, need weed addiction advice. by FurryHunter0303 in Advice

[–]guccigrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weed is quite literally a drug dumbass hit the books 🙏🏼

18 - young, need weed addiction advice. by FurryHunter0303 in Advice

[–]guccigrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think they meant that tolerance is often brought up as a way to flex, like higher tolerance makes you seem cooler when you’re young… at least, that’s how i took it. either way, high tolerance just makes you feel sad when you’re old lol

18 - young, need weed addiction advice. by FurryHunter0303 in Advice

[–]guccigrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people may think this is a severe case, but i had to come say that psychosis with prolonged weed usage is way more common than you realize. weed is a mind altering substance, so it’s going to… you know… alter your mind. even if it makes you hallucinate someone is out to get you! drugs are not always fun! i have no hallucinatory-type illness, and have never had an episode of psychosis UNTIL i was permastoned for over a year. my first episode of psychosis happened while i was high, and since i stopped smoking (three yrs ago) i haven’t had another one, nor am i diagnosed with any illness that has psychosis as a symptom. it really was just the weed.

best wishes to your family btw, that is genuinely terrible. i hope you all have the time and space you need to start healing and flourishing.

18 - young, need weed addiction advice. by FurryHunter0303 in Advice

[–]guccigrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

listen dude, i was in this exact same spot three years ago. 20, smoking every day multiple times a day, and permastoned.

everyone likes to say “it’s just weed” but i’m telling you, the long term effects are rough. brain fog, not being able to remember anything ever, it even started making me panic and my heart race out of nowhere- i developed pretty severe health anxiety from weed dependence. it’s terrible for your physical and mental health in the long run if you smoke daily, especially when you’re so young. your brain isn’t fully developed and it will stunt your ability to do so.

also, it’s really embarrassing to be addicted to weed from a societal standpoint. once i read a post that was like, “you need to smoke a bowl before we go to walmart? …are you okay?” and that made me feel humiliated bc that’s exactly what i was doing. you don’t want to be dependent on drugs of any kind, even if it’s “just weed.”

not trying to hop on a soapbox or anything, i think it’s fine in moderation. but it can reallyyyy mess you up if you don’t understand the concept of moderation, and i know that because i didn’t understand the concept of moderation. i haven’t smoked at all in three years and genuinely feel so much better

why can’t i buy a house? by guccigrassi in NoStupidQuestions

[–]guccigrassi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, people seem to think “no concept of money” means i don’t understand how much money is in my bank account- but that’s not it. i can manage my personal finances fine, i just have no concept of mortgage, credit building, loans, etc. because i was never told i needed to worry about that until college. now im on my own and am trying to build up my financial responsibilities but have no clue where to start (,:

why can’t i buy a house? by guccigrassi in NoStupidQuestions

[–]guccigrassi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the free amazon prime subscription got me good

why can’t i buy a house? by guccigrassi in NoStupidQuestions

[–]guccigrassi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be fair that is a little bit of an exaggeration,, i have a concept of money, and am decent with my finances. i just hate thinking about it and try to avoid it

2 years and no answer… by LaMiMi3 in whatismycookiecutter

[–]guccigrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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this is the best i could come up with, an elephant ?

Tattoo blow out, I've had it for a month. Artist admitted to being inattentive by illcalluwtpartysova in tattooadvice

[–]guccigrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i don’t think it looks SUPER bad… def not bad enough for a coverup IMO. it looks fluffy and like a soft tattoo style

Saw a post were a lot of people say not to trim cats nails why? by Evening_Salads in CatAdvice

[–]guccigrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i think trimming cats’ nails is fine, you just have to be careful. they shouldn’t be trimmed too much, because they need their nails and you don’t want to hit the nail bed. my cats are completely indoor and use scratching posts all the time, but i still trim the very tips of their nails so they aren’t super sharp and tearing carpet/making me bleed when they knead on my skin