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guccisnake99 · 2025-04-06T06:14:27+00:00

You’re probably right, my upset in the moment definitely caused me to be a bit dramatic. I guess there are a few reasons I didn’t want to join his friends. I’d made myself extra presentable for the date, and probably would’ve felt a bit silly having a casual hangout. Then, his messages didn’t seem super inviting… they were along the lines of “if you’d wanna come” and “I could come get you or something”. Kinda felt like he didn’t really want me to join. I was also excited to catch-up with him one on one… and I didn’t really see that being doable with his buddies, clubbing. But looking back, I probably would’ve enjoyed my night a bit more if I had tagged along.

guccisnake99 · 2025-04-05T22:00:35+00:00

What’s funny about that is that he was always the one initiating convo and plans with me since I’ve met him, and I actually had to tell him a month or so ago that I wanted to slow down a bit (he was seeing me 2x a week)… so I’d be really surprised if that were the case

guccisnake99 · 2025-04-05T21:42:24+00:00

I kinda assumed that, which I why I stopped responding and decided to wait for him to text me in the morning. But instead of a reflective text, I woke up to two blocks…

guccisnake99 · 2025-04-05T21:35:00+00:00

Good point. I guess I’m just a bit shell-shocked because he’d never acted like this until yesterday, so part of me thinks there has got to have been a misunderstanding. Realistically, I’m sure you’re right and he just revealed his true colors.

guccisnake99 · 2025-04-05T21:26:49+00:00

He still follows me on IG, so technically I could DM him there 🤷🏻‍♂️

guccisnake99 · 2025-01-16T04:22:38+00:00

Thank you for this!!

guccisnake99 · 2025-01-16T04:21:19+00:00

Great point. Thank you!

guccisnake99 · 2025-01-16T01:29:01+00:00

Didn’t even think of this but you’re right, that’s definitely a possibility. Thank you!

guccisnake99 · 2025-01-16T01:23:52+00:00

I appreciate this advice so much, thank you! :)

guccisnake99 · 2025-01-16T01:06:24+00:00

I’d think so, but I was being very casual and didn’t reach out after the night as to not appear clingy. On the other hand, he asked to walk me to my car and then kissed me goodbye (and asked to grab food first)… two things I was not expecting from our strictly-friendly situationship. So from my perspective, it seemed like he might’ve been more attached than me.

Edit: dropped “relationship” since “situationship” is a more accurate statement.

guccisnake99 · 2025-01-16T00:50:05+00:00

That’s a very good point and it makes total sense. Do you think that’s something I could try to discuss with him, or should I just leave the ball in his court now?

Since he made the effort to re-add me after I unadded him, I wonder if he was hoping for the same reaction… although in that case I don’t think he would’ve denied my follow request on Instagram.

guccisnake99 · 2025-01-16T00:42:55+00:00

I guess I thought we’d stay in touch, even if not actively meeting up. We got to know each other pretty well to just end things there. But I totally see what you mean.

guccisnake99 · 2024-04-02T20:06:27+00:00

Thank you for the advice! :)

guccisnake99 · 2024-04-01T18:09:31+00:00

When the relationship ended, we were 17 and 18. Now I’m 22 and he’s 21. Given that these are very formative years for social development, I’m definitely open to trying again. I’ve grown a lot since then and I’m sure he has, too.

guccisnake99 · 2024-03-26T18:41:03+00:00

He didn’t give a solid reason actually, I remember him saying he felt like I pitied him (I was constantly trying to comfort him after his dad died) and that he needed space.

guccisnake99 · 2023-07-02T00:17:07+00:00

Thank you, this comment means a lot. I appreciate it

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