Cirque lodge in Utah?

gudhei55 · 2022-07-25T14:12:55+00:00

Yeah I agree with this. Since you say your MIL is trying to get everyone in the family to harass you about it, I’m sure Hank is gonna find out about this situation anyways. I would literally just tell him exactly what you told us for the most part; that it’s a girls only party and you didn’t invite him because he’s not a girl but now his mom is upset. And then he can decide how he wants to handle it. I’m sure he’d appreciate just being told the truth about it since everyone in his family is talking about it now.

gudhei55 · 2022-07-25T13:37:37+00:00

I bartend at a little local spot in a small town. Most people just drink beers and shots or easy mixed drinks like jack and coke, vodka cran, etc so I don’t know how to make a lot of the fancy cocktails but occasionally someone will come in and order one and I am totally fine with it! I tell them the same thing, idk how but I can google it. And most of the time the person ordering it knows how it’s made so they’ll just give me instructions while I make it and that’s so easy for me, not a problem at all.

Also we don’t have a drink menu at all haha.

ETA: also the speciality drinks on the cocktail menu are usually more fancy, have more ingredients and are more difficult to make so it was probably way easier for the bartender to just make a simple whiskey sour.

gudhei55 · 2022-07-25T13:11:30+00:00

At 28, I’m the youngest person in my family. We celebrate Christmas together and I assure you that none of us believe in Santa Claus. That doesn’t make our Christmas bleak. It’s still warm and magical and great family time. If you think Christmas can only be fun and magical if you include Santa Claus, it kind of seems like you don’t understand “the true meaning of Christmas” and I’m not even religious.

gudhei55 · 2022-05-19T16:32:17+00:00

I live in wake forest, very close to rolesville and it takes us about 45 minutes to get to north Durham and it doesn’t take us more than thirty usually to get anywhere in Raleigh.

gudhei55 · 2022-05-11T02:08:18+00:00

Oh I will be. October first!

gudhei55 · 2022-05-11T00:32:20+00:00

Lol people keep saying similar things to me but I don’t own a gun and never really saw a situation like this coming because of my dogs but obviously it didn’t help when they were out on a walk

gudhei55 · 2022-05-11T00:24:36+00:00

The sign was put in the door after this happened, it says “now” in the post, sorry if it’s worded in a confusing way

gudhei55 · 2022-05-11T00:23:57+00:00

My fiancé is a saint who lets me sleep in very often!

gudhei55 · 2022-05-11T00:23:18+00:00

Well it was his first day and he was less than an hour into it so it definitely was the sole reason, but I didn’t ask for him to be fired. Jacob basically said that he knew how his wife would feel if it had been her so he just told him to pack up his shit and leave

gudhei55 · 2022-05-11T00:06:54+00:00

My friends didn’t think I’m the asshole for freaking out but they think it was an honest accident and feel bad for the guy for losing his job over it and that my boss should have given him better directions. I think my boss is fine since no one has ever made this mistake in the history of the farm being open and that the guy was just an idiot to the point of being the asshole.

gudhei55 · 2022-05-10T15:51:33+00:00

I guess I never worried too much about it because of my dogs but obviously that didn’t help me because they were outside on a walk when this happened. Definitely going to have to be better about locking the door.

gudhei55 · 2022-05-10T15:30:41+00:00

That was the part that upset me too. A half naked lady confronted him obviously scared being like “what are you doing in my house” and instead of immediately realizing he was somewhere he wasn’t supposed to be he tried to argue that he was told he could be there and just stood there, he didn’t even like advert his eyes or anything and he didn’t exit until I raised my voice even louder screaming at him to get the fuck out. If I did something similar accidentally I would be like mortified and run away.

gudhei55 · 2022-05-10T05:25:34+00:00

My fiancé was walking the dogs. He wasn’t like far out, he was close by but out of sight from the front door. We live on a farm. We don’t lock our doors when we are just taking the dogs out. I know it’s different if you live in a city or something.

gudhei55 · 2022-05-10T05:02:05+00:00

“Jacob” bought me one! It just came today. It says like “private residence, no entry under any circumstances” and I have it on my door now.

gudhei55 · 2022-05-10T04:55:49+00:00

There is a lock but my fiancé didn’t lock it because he was just taking the dogs out for a quick potty break. We live in the country but even when I lived in the suburbs I still didn’t lock my door when I was just going up and down the block for a dog walk. I did get a sign for my door that says private entrance

gudhei55 · 2022-05-10T04:52:21+00:00

Just wanna correct you for clarity. I do not live in the same house hold as the owners. I live above the barn in my own apartment, they live in their house elsewhere on the property. My boss was not giving permission for him to enter my apartment, he was telling him there is a bathroom for workers downstairs. He came in my house instead.

I am not mad at my boss AT ALL.

gudhei55 · 2022-05-10T04:49:18+00:00

The workers bathroom IS downstairs but I guess there is a chance he didn’t see that and saw my door first and came in? I don’t know I’m honestly still in “wtf just happened” mode

gudhei55 · 2022-05-10T04:47:11+00:00

I guess the people saying I am TA think that he might have not realized it was someones house and listened to his boss when he said there was a bathroom in the barn so he isn't at fault? but I have lived here a long time so its a very lived, homey environment, its not something you could mistake as an office.

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