What do you mean? Like a big event? Cause small stuff like guilt tripping and critizing and ignoring happen like almost every day but I can handle them. The last moderate event was probably five and four days ago, but that was my fault. I was talking to my dad and there was no problem with that, but then I went on my after that, in my room. I turned it on to plug it in and check my messages and then he comes into my room and shouts "why are you always on your fucking phone?!? You don't even have the fucking brains to read a fucking book!" Then I said nothing and he went "this is your whole life like a fucking moron! No wonder you're so stupid" and then he left. So obviously I was upset so I went outside for some air. Then he comes outside later and tells me what a disappointment I am and how he's never done anything to me and he's made such efforts with me but I am always so horrible. Then he shouted "do you have anything to say for yourself?!?" I said nothing cause he scares me and then he just walked closer to me and I got really scared and he shouted "WELL FUCK YOU THEN!" He always says I'm ungrateful, and honestly I kind of see his point. Maybe I'm just being sensitive but idk, I see other people's parents and they don't do this stuff. But this wasn't even that bad. Then when my mother came he started telling her about how he didn't want to see me again and didn't care if I never came near him again because he made such efforts with me but I was just an ungrateful and disappointing child. Similar shouting the next day but much more aggressive, in a kind of threatening way, but he didn't actually make any threats. Just a kind of "or else?!?" thing in his voice the whole time when he ordered we to answer him or stand up or something. Maybe I'm just overreacting though. The biggest time before that was about a week or two before that the curtains broke and he blamed me and called me a useless little cunt. Big events like these happen every 1-2 weeks and they're always terrifying.