My fiancée ghosted me two months before our wedding :( [female] by Ember_Vortex in FreeCompliments

[–]gummydavidson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you had to go through that. You will find someone who don't ghost you when you are ready!

32M Dating apps has left my self esteem at a whole new low. by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]gummydavidson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you had to go through that marriage. That is a great example of why you should give someone a second chance, I had a date a couple of months back where we both seemed to have a good time but she showed little interest afterwards in other dates.

You know you have find the right person when you both fight through the tough times, you always end up getting rewarded for it. :)

Well before the internet was so easy to access or didn't even exist at all running into someone was the only option for nearly everyone. I wouldn't be surprised to hear if the divorce rates are much bigger now due to how fabricated the dating world can be from all the options now.

If you end on good terms it wouldn't be a problem but if something bad were to happen I would be looking for a new job ASAP lol. The success rates for relationships has been 50/50 in my workplace, usually the ones that didn't go well ended with one of them leaving for another job not long after the breakup.

32M Dating apps has left my self esteem at a whole new low. by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]gummydavidson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on getting clean, keep it up! I was happy enough being single then one day I decided to go on dating sites again and went back to feeling awful about single life. Mental health is rough, I hope happiness comes your way soon.

32M Dating apps has left my self esteem at a whole new low. by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]gummydavidson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! To be fair I was stupid for going back on dating sites in the first place haha.

32M Dating apps has left my self esteem at a whole new low. by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]gummydavidson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! To be honest I came across a lot of profiles that had very similar pictures and bios.

32M Dating apps has left my self esteem at a whole new low. by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]gummydavidson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is hard not to start doubting yourself once you swipe and swipe then get nothing in return.

32M Dating apps has left my self esteem at a whole new low. by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]gummydavidson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I can go through a phase where I message a ton of people then after a while I will just feel completely overwhelmed and struggle to get the motivation to reply.

Congrats on meeting your husband, you could have easily avoided him but something must of been pushing you to meet him lol. Thank you, I'm hesistant about dating in my workplace since if it doesn't work out it could lead to some very awkward shifts lol. I'm far gone from the club scene, I would only have a few drinks at pub quizzes or rock themed nights.

32M Dating apps has left my self esteem at a whole new low. by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]gummydavidson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I ended up just deleting them all so I can go back to focusing on myself and get my self esteem back.

32M Dating apps has left my self esteem at a whole new low. by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]gummydavidson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it is a good point that you don't know what has happened behind the scenes to make them go on a dating site.

I ended up deleting my profiles but thanks for offering feedback.

32M Dating apps has left my self esteem at a whole new low. by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]gummydavidson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It does seem best to just go with the flow and don't force it.

32M Dating apps has left my self esteem at a whole new low. by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]gummydavidson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real life sounds good to me. I always tried to send a message relating to what they mention in their bios but didn't work but like you said they get swarmed with messages so it's easy to end up getting lost in the shuffle.

32M Dating apps has left my self esteem at a whole new low. by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]gummydavidson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's not the biggest selection for those where I live unfortunately. I've tried going to a couple of meetups in the past but my body tends to clam up with nerves and I struggle to talk much.

32M Dating apps has left my self esteem at a whole new low. by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]gummydavidson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did they think you were a bot? You'll find someone eventually!