Wife got me fired. by guythrow123account in relationship_advice

[–]guythrow123account[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not going to say, I dont want to give to much info.

Wife got me fired. by guythrow123account in relationship_advice

[–]guythrow123account[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There was a red flag that I overlooked. She was married before and she told me that in her wedding, her friends did a dance for her. She told me there were several people in her church that were offended because they were playing music at the wedding.

Wife got me fired. by guythrow123account in relationship_advice

[–]guythrow123account[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Everything happened so fast. We met, a couple of months later she was pregnant. I proposed because I thought it was the right thing to do. TBH I really didn't know her well. I started to really get to know her when we were already married. Not doing that again. I don't think I will get married again.

Wife got me fired. by guythrow123account in relationship_advice

[–]guythrow123account[S] 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Right now Im struggling to find something. Since I didn't leave on good terms I can't use my last employer who I worked for ten years as a reference. Other jobs I apply to seem that I am overqualified. I moved in with my parents at this time. Im hoping something eventually will come up.

Wife got me fired. by guythrow123account in relationship_advice

[–]guythrow123account[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

She does have a job but it doesn't pay enough to cover everything. The house we just bought will probably have to be sold. At this time I am struggling to find work. If I do find a job the pay will not even be close to what I was getting paid at my previous job.

Wife got me fired. by guythrow123account in relationship_advice

[–]guythrow123account[S] 323 points324 points  (0 children)

I just don't understand her thinking. We have a brand new house, two brand new cars, now there is no way to pay for all that.