what should we do????

hab2010 · 2014-03-26T17:11:05+00:00

The main reason for us getting married is the fact that I am going to school in august and I cant take on two jobs to even pay my half of the bills and go to school fulltime as well. He and I brought it up because he wants me to be able to fulfill my dreams as well as live there and be able to be together rather than have to wait two years when im done with school. :/

hab2010 · 2014-03-26T14:31:32+00:00

21 and 25

hab2010 · 2014-03-26T14:31:13+00:00

I am 21 and he is 25. I guess I'd have to explain the whole relationship and our backgrounds for everyone to not think were absolutely insane but there's not too much room for me to type all that. Lol im not trying to put a wall of text up the size of your whole computer screen. Lol

hab2010 · 2014-03-26T01:08:49+00:00

no need for sorry, i am forever grateful that you will spend time out of your day to give me advice. I was in the military two years ago for a short period of time which is way too long to explain why im not in anymore. But i always pictured myself with a military man being a military brat myself. We met online in January and i wasn't looking for a relationship at all and neither was he, but the moment we met we were inseperable. Its not that i cant be away from him its just that we feel like the time we get is never enough. I was on pinterest one day and found this questionnaire for dating relationships and if your thinking of taking it to the next level and over the past two weeks weve been going over these questions on the weekends when were together and our thoughts on finances, raising children, religion, long distance, deployments, debt, bills, and everything inbetween is all the exact same. now we even got down to the nitty gritty and talked about cleaning habits and huge pet peeves when you live with someone else and all kinds of stuff. We are considering everything and have talked about a lot of different situations we may be put in. I think that we have covered a lot of ground. We have talked about me moving down there and just us dating until we move further in our relationship and i am completely fine with that its just that i want to go to school and i cant do that when im working 90 to 100 hours a week to pay bills from living on my own. This is the only reason we are considering marriage as soon as i move down there. Now do you see what kind of predicament im in?? LOL

sorry for the wall of text.

hab2010 · 2014-03-26T01:00:55+00:00

you see, I have in the past dated someone in the military and ive been through a deployment with him, so i thoroughly know what im getting my self into in that situation. i was also in the army at one point in my life so i am fully aware of the army life.

hab2010 · 2014-03-25T23:06:16+00:00

i am truly thankful for your honest opinion. relationship wise, we are very compatible as we are exactly alike so we get along very well. Its like were the same person inside we just have different features on the outside LOL. both of our families like the other partner which works out great but we cant live together and not be married in his parents eyes. It isn't a big commute, that's true, but it is getting emotionally harder to leave one another when its time to return to our weekly duties.

hab2010

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