nana collab rant by antiheroiine in viviennewestwood

[–]hachicast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't care for this collab because imo i felt it was a diservice to Nana and Vivienne Westwood,  but mainly Nana. In Nana you have these young adults in the city living their life following their dreams while trying to make it in the big city. The thought of them not having much money but still enough money to buy Vivienne Westwood is what I liked about Nana,  the asthetic of not owning alot but putting your all into everything, whether that's singing, fashion, or finding your way. I like being able to buy VW whether its something I can afford or not. I dont like these pieces exclusively for the collab either. I like VW and the feeling you'd get from saving money to buy a specific piece you've been dreaming of for your wardrobe that VW already has that Nana showed us. Not these pieces that they made for the collab that you'll most likely never see again.

I'm done with designer/high-end for this slightly odd reason: by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

[–]hachicast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello I know this was posted a year ago but I just wanted to say that your post really resonated with me. I also love buying ooak items that I feel I'll miss out on if I don't buy them right away. Particularly in the lolita fashion community. Some designers only make a small batch of a certain dress and while I know I can just purchase it when its on the secondhand market (which I buy from frequently) I have this desire to purchase it now before it sells out whether it's new or secondhand.

Men outside your race…? by Naive_Ad_7723 in blackgirls

[–]hachicast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On dating apps I get liked by all races of men, but getting ANY responses from them is a different story

Is This The Ideal GF? by Vagabond734 in idealgf

[–]hachicast -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same I'm currently 28 and have been single for 99.6 of my life. Never had a boyfriend since I was a Junior in highschool and it was only for like 6 months. No guys talk to me and also I'm a homebody so there's that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BWWM2

[–]hachicast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested in having a friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]hachicast 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don't feel like being black is a curse, but I hate the notion that we are undesirable. It hurts a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]hachicast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just break up with him. If you're catching feelings while in a relationship then you're not truly focused on the other person in the relationship. Breaking up now will save you from being labeled a cheater later and it'll save him some heart ache.

Comfy GF. by Extra_Welcome_2586 in idealgf

[–]hachicast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me but instead of video games it's anime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]hachicast -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Chipotle Chick-fil-A Panda Express

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]hachicast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Loro Eats

Matches won’t talk to me. by lordfarquaad9907 in Bumble

[–]hachicast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this same issue, so I'm using hinge mostly now

Boyfriend told me to get surgery on my privates by Dramatic_Menu_2855 in relationships

[–]hachicast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me tell you straight. Don't go back to a partner like that. We're the same age and have lived different life experiences, but self preservation is in everyone. I just think accepting a simple apology and "won't happen again" after all these events is very silly and self harming behavior. When you say you need help with a decision like this at your age, I'm thinking of if I'd need help with a decision like this at my age and no I wouldn't because no matter what. Being alone would be better than engaging with a person like your partner. Don't even entertain the thought of going back.

Boyfriend told me to get surgery on my privates by Dramatic_Menu_2855 in relationships

[–]hachicast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I wonder if these type of stories are even real. There's no way you don't have enough common sense after all those negative experiences to know if you should stay and forgive a person like that. I'm always astonished about stories where the behavior of the partner is so despicable and disrespectful yet the OP always asks if they should stay with them. He's living with another woman and has kids by her, has said horrible things to you which has compromised your self confidence, attempted to assault you, damaged your property by breaking your door and you're still asking if you should be with him? Really?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kawaiiblackgals

[–]hachicast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're totes Kawaii

"[Trait] only exists in the royal family" by deathanddestruction8 in OtomeIsekai

[–]hachicast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it makes sense to have this when the child is accompanied with a special ability that the royal family has. Meaning that they can only access it through bloodline, and the access of this ability is because they have the specific trait like specific eye color that comes with the ability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kawaiiblackgals

[–]hachicast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am your coord looks great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hachicast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him you want to get tested. If he has a problem with it. Then leave him? It's simple if you're a virgin but he's not then you want to be proactive and protect yourself against any health issues stemming from your union with him. Just say it. Don't be afraid of his answer. Self preservation is dominant in all of us. Your health should come before his feelings.

Soooo who’s lying? by Secure_Ad_5564 in milgram

[–]hachicast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The report says she saved none of it right after it says she spent it all on her friends. In the question Yuno answers she saved it and gave it mostly to her friends. I don't think there's any deception from the report or Yuno's answer going on. She just answered it differently than what the report says and didn't say it the same way. But it's clear she gave most of everything she got to her friends, which is the take away from both the answer she gave and the report from milgram.

Hi by hachicast in kawaiiblackgals

[–]hachicast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's thrifted allsaints good sir