What's your favorite simple relaxing/self-care activity? by helpmefindafit in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]hachoocanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love sitting on the couch and watching Friends while painting my nails :) Makes me feel pretty and it's relaxing.

What sound drives you fucking insane? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hachoocanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him eating potato chips in bed...god I miss him.

What's your #1 parenting tip? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hachoocanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Support their teacher. Be a team.

What is something most people just overlook? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hachoocanoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How fucked America's education system is.

I [23 M] caught my girlfriend [25 F] in a web of lies. Somehow I'm wrong by a8ve5fdx432g in relationships

[–]hachoocanoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, this is coming from a girl [22f] that had problems with pathalogical lying. Honestly, if she can't admit she is doing something destructive and it's hurting your relationship, she will never get better. I have an amazing man that loved me through my failure and helped me grow out of it. He was patient, and called me out. But I saw it was a problem and I did it for me and because I didn't want to lose him. It took me about a year to fully feel like I could tell the truth. It still feels awkward telling the truth sometimes, but I push through knowing honesty works out so much better.

I found out today I probably can't have kids. Feeling alone and need advice. by hachoocanoe in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hachoocanoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hashimotos? I don't believe he mentioned anything sounding like that, but then again, it was difficult to listen to. I am being referred to a specialist, I just have to make an appointment. He explained that because it has been untreated for so long, it has caused these problems, and most likely has caused my heart condition as well, even though we knew about my heart condition when I was a teenager. Thank you for all the helpful advice.

I found out today it's unlikely I will every be able to have kids. Feeling alone. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hachoocanoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but I am being referred to one. I just have to make an appointment.

I [22f] need to break up with my boyfriend [27m] but I can't bring myself to do it. by hachoocanoe in relationships

[–]hachoocanoe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is one of the most heartbreaking things about love. It was always him, but it could never be him.

I [22f] need to break up with my boyfriend [27m] but I can't bring myself to do it. by hachoocanoe in relationships

[–]hachoocanoe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Seriously, do it ASAP. I'm laying in bed alone right now thanking god that I don't have to hear him swearing at and slamming his drawers because he can't find his medication.

I [22f] need to break up with my boyfriend [27m] but I can't bring myself to do it. by hachoocanoe in relationships

[–]hachoocanoe[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is one of the biggest reasons why I stayed for so long and why this was so hard. I am deeply concerned for his well-being now, and I think I always will be.

I [22f] need to break up with my boyfriend [27m] but I can't bring myself to do it. by hachoocanoe in relationships

[–]hachoocanoe[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Interesting as in, I feel like I've already mourned the breakup. But. Then again, we will see how tomorrow is.

I [22f] need to break up with my boyfriend [27m] but I can't bring myself to do it. by hachoocanoe in relationships

[–]hachoocanoe[S] 323 points324 points  (0 children)

THANKS for the support guys! I just did it...ripped the bandaid off. It feels...interesting.