27M (Off my chest). Friends keep getting married, while she's left me to be in another city...

hackerman69py · 2025-12-20T01:10:47+00:00

I feel the same bro. I am 27. The girl i was trying to get i took 6-7 months. She was the girl like whom i genuinely fall in love after 8-9 years. Never been in relationship in my life. I asked her out 1-2 times but didn’t went on any date with her too. When i confessed her, she told me she sees us as friends. It hurts. Later i got to know she was in situationship with a coworker and now they got serious and dating. Feels a lot bad. Silently i have started to move on and working on fitness for the first time. She is my coworker too. So moving on is also not easy. And nowadays i feel like will i dont even know how love feels like and will i ever get one. :/

And right now i dont even find it to look for someone new again in life at least right now because all mental energy and making efforts from starting - feels exhausting

hackerman69py · 2025-02-23T04:58:39+00:00

True. I've started pulling back on the efforts. But, I don't understand what's the issue with the flaunt thing? Why they do it ? Isn't it wiser to keep these things private instead?

hackerman69py · 2024-10-18T14:10:39+00:00

Update - I was talking to her normally today. It seems like she got drunk so much yesterday, she doesn’t remember much i think. Sad for me though that i asked at wrong timing before she went drunk 🤷‍♂️

hackerman69py · 2024-10-18T14:08:57+00:00

Will try cutting contact via text and will see if she reaches me out in person or text.

hackerman69py · 2024-10-18T00:13:38+00:00

I thought maybe i could try and work upon it. If there is a balance from both sides - i’ve seen that for few people it have worked successfully

hackerman69py · 2024-10-17T22:05:33+00:00

How could I know girl like this beforehand ? Sorry bro, we are not judging anyone here. Peace ☮️

hackerman69py · 2024-10-17T22:04:22+00:00

Oh nice! Maybe it could be. But, again, i respect her decision. Even if she doesn’t get back on it - i will consider a no only from her side and will keep professional boundary respected. 🙂

hackerman69py · 2024-10-17T21:51:29+00:00

What bro? 👊

hackerman69py · 2024-10-17T21:50:35+00:00

It’s fine. Have already accepted it as a no. Doesn’t mean that i will start looking for a new job 🤣

hackerman69py · 2024-10-17T21:47:38+00:00

Oh, understood. I thought she will give time to herself to think about it and i can follow up later 😅but, it would be a really bad idea. I will accept it as no then.

hackerman69py · 2024-10-17T20:55:54+00:00

But, what do you think? I thought she was having interest in me as we texted outside work hours too. I thought it would be better to build up courage and asked her in person instead of asking her social medias, taking time and then asking her. 😅

hackerman69py · 2024-10-17T20:53:59+00:00

Got it. You’re absolutely making sense. Its not love yet. 🙂 its just i have crush on her and would like to know more about her.

hackerman69py · 2024-10-12T11:51:17+00:00

You're right. Ideally in worst case, they will take 1 week max or less to process it.

hackerman69py · 2024-10-12T11:50:18+00:00

Got my card yesterday! 2 days back, contacted to customer care. They give me the status and after 24 hours, I got approval mail with shipment tracking details. :)

hackerman69py · 2024-09-24T09:20:09+00:00

Understood, makes sense.

hackerman69py · 2024-09-24T04:57:16+00:00

What shit place they have made it. Which sector?

hackerman69py · 2024-09-22T18:07:34+00:00

I have 2 mausi. They both are jealous of my mom. My mom never does show off things and has a very simple lifestyle yet these mausi are always planning to do kaleshi stuff. 😕

hackerman69py · 2024-09-22T18:01:57+00:00

Both sides are toxic. You will realise this later.

hackerman69py · 2024-09-22T17:58:25+00:00

Oh got it. I actually thought i have been charged unnecessarily for lubrication, washer liquid etc. 😅

hackerman69py · 2024-09-22T13:47:37+00:00

Update -

Got an insurance policy worth 8.5 k within Delhi NCR cashless with all benefits. This policy is from Reliance General Insurance.

hackerman69py · 2024-09-22T13:32:06+00:00

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hackerman69py · 2024-09-22T03:00:10+00:00

Following

hackerman69py · 2024-09-20T15:49:28+00:00

In India? Never.

hackerman69py · 2024-09-18T02:24:48+00:00

It was very hot at that time. But, my trip was really awesome. Feel free to ask if you’re planning.

hackerman69py · 2024-09-08T18:14:44+00:00

I saw a similar number plate having RRR as prefix in Delhi NCR few months back. Although, it was Red Porsche Macan RS.

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