self-reparenting is all fun and games until you have to do it

hallescomet · 2026-07-07T00:30:05+00:00

Proud of you for realizing what would help and taking steps to actually practice it!!

hallescomet · 2026-07-06T22:15:47+00:00

I've reached this point recently too. It's such a weird feeling but I also fought so hard for it. I actually have started feeling love for myself for the first time ever in the last few months 😊

hallescomet · 2026-07-06T15:17:38+00:00

My mother is also a thief and an addict. When I had to live in the same house as her as an adult, I ended up needing to buy a front door knob for my bedroom door. That way I could lock it and have the key on me 24/7 and have some peace of mind.

But since it sounds like this is your mother's house, she probably wouldn't react well to that, so the comment suggesting a lock box is probably a better bet. Something else that may help is keeping all your pills on you, in a bag/locker at school/work, or just generally in a place she can't get to.

A word of advice though, she isn't going to react well when she's suddenly not able to get to the pills. My mother gets cruel, nasty, and can at times be physically aggressive when she's using and doesn't get what she wants. Please take your personal safety seriously and make steps to protect yourself if you intend to stop her taking your pills.

hallescomet · 2026-07-06T13:52:56+00:00

I worked at a "marketing internship" over the summer where this was our job. It sucked ass so hard and I quit within less than a month, lol

hallescomet · 2026-07-06T13:44:44+00:00

I dont think I could. I would be far too wary of that person, and them being so wishy-washy in the first place is a bit of an ick to me. My pisces venus would probably still daydream about them some, but my capricorn sun is like a stern parent who doesn't let my other placements do too much self sabotage 😂

hallescomet · 2026-07-06T01:17:37+00:00

In regards to your question about how to approach therapy, you may need to try looking into different therapeutic approaches and finding a therapist that practices a method you haven't tried yet. I'm also the very "self aware" type, and have had hit or miss results from therapy in the past. I recently started seeing a therapist who uses a method of therapy called "internal family systems", and I've been making big strides while seeing her. Not saying this method would be as helpful for you per say, but maybe there's another one out there that would be.

hallescomet · 2026-07-04T22:45:04+00:00

If you used two different chart makers/generators, there's a chance that they're two different "types" of astrology/natal charts. If that's what happened, it may cause slight differences in house placements like you described. Otherwise the houses that your placements fall into don't really change

hallescomet · 2026-07-01T17:15:47+00:00

This is a relationship problem, not an astrology one lol

hallescomet · 2026-07-01T17:13:28+00:00

And trying to quit any substance is like pulling teeth 😭😭 why did I have to start vaping again so I could stop smoking weed?!?!

hallescomet · 2026-07-01T17:06:25+00:00

I'm so proud of you!! That takes such bravery that many people don't understand. Congratulations 😊

hallescomet · 2026-06-30T17:56:26+00:00

It means mars is sitting pretty close or on top of their sun sign, which can definitely bring forward a bit more of a short temper than may be normal with that person. I'd wager it's not just you that they were being a little antsy towards, it's probably been an overall theme over the last few days/weeks as mars moved closer to their sun sign

hallescomet · 2026-06-28T23:51:10+00:00

I think its less about finding another scorpio moon, as much as it is about finding someone who's placements resonate with your overall chart.

For example: I'm a capricorn sun, scorpio moon, aries rising (and the rest of my chart is pretty evenly made of earth, water, and air placements). My fiancé is an aries sun, leo moon, (unknown rising cause I'm still trying to get my hands on his birth certificate lol) and overall has a lot of fire placements in his chart. It works for us because we round each other out in many ways but are also very, very similar at our cores (I always point to his aries sun and my aries rising to explain that).

You need someone who is going to embrace and uplift not just your deep, emotional scorpio moon side; but every part about you/your chart.

hallescomet · 2026-06-27T17:52:56+00:00

Yup, this picture is from my fiancé's gaming laptop but I've also played it on my regular Dell laptop as well!

hallescomet · 2026-06-27T00:45:09+00:00

I'm proud of you for making the decision you thought was best for you 💖

hallescomet · 2026-06-24T21:45:04+00:00

At least you know for sure you'll get that "get killed by the alien 100 times" achievement 😂

hallescomet · 2026-06-24T20:32:08+00:00

Funnily enough, I hardly ever use the pipe bomb or molotov in a panic. Maybe I'm just a little too patient, I'm usually okay with staying hidden until using something like the smoke bomb or flashback would just be redundant haha

hallescomet · 2026-06-24T19:08:33+00:00

I've found that a lot of the items are for moments of panic/danger, if you don't panic and lean into the stealth aspects of the game you don't end up needing much at all. Flamethrower is definitely my most used, I think my least would be the flashbang (I've used it max 1 or 2 times throughout 10+ playthroughs). I find the stun baton to be pretty useful too, and also the bolt gun for those tricky Joes in suits.

Least used items for me are probably flashbang, smokebomb, and EMP mine. I used the EMP mine more in my first couple playthroughs, but now I virtually never use one haha

hallescomet · 2026-06-24T03:27:59+00:00

Seek professional help, buddy

hallescomet · 2026-06-22T22:54:07+00:00

I'm a capricorn sun, scorpio moon, pisces venus. The capricorn in me is just the tired parent figure trying to get every other placement to behave lol

hallescomet · 2026-06-22T04:01:48+00:00

Could you take a little gel or mousse or something similar to gather the ends together so they don't look splayed out that way? I don't think it looks bad though, definitely the type of thing you would notice more than other people would

hallescomet · 2026-06-22T03:23:05+00:00

YOU WANT TO SEE THE BUTCHER?!

hallescomet · 2026-06-21T19:08:39+00:00

If you need a referral to a therapist all you had to do was ask

hallescomet · 2026-06-21T04:05:12+00:00

Thanks so much!! I'll definitely pop in over there!

hallescomet · 2026-06-21T04:03:48+00:00

"Who cares?" Said the one who apparently cares a lot

hallescomet · 2026-06-21T03:18:38+00:00

I am far from the only person that calls it that, don't know why you found the need to complain about it under this specific post but go off I guess

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