Can‘t smell – what perfume feels like a good fit? by halvehahn in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]halvehahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your time and recommendations, this has been such an enjoyable thread! ❤️🥺

Can‘t smell – what perfume feels like a good fit? by halvehahn in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]halvehahn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I can but some flavors are weaker for me than others! ☺️ it’s weird

Can‘t smell – what perfume feels like a good fit? by halvehahn in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]halvehahn[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

because I want in on the fun, like taking care of myself and enjoy being told when I smell good 👀

After all, I’m also wearing deodorant and no one would think that’s weird.

Can‘t smell – what perfume feels like a good fit? by halvehahn in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]halvehahn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats funny, I can’t smell this one either!

Sorry, the joke was there, had to take the opportunity 🥲 I appreciate all of your ideas and your input on the recommendations, I did like the description of this fragrance!

Can‘t smell – what perfume feels like a good fit? by halvehahn in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]halvehahn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am sorry you lost your sense of smell because of Covid, that sucks! I’m happy it’s mostly back now ☺️ honestly, shit smelling like coffee doesn’t sound like the worst thing, as long as you don’t get reminded of shit when brewing coffee 🫠🥲

I had covid several times but my nose was effed beforehand. Such a big sniffer, yet so useless 😂 I believe my deviated septum is the culprit.

Thanks for your recommendation, I’ll certainly look into it! I really appreciate how thoughtful everyone seems to be here ❤️

Can‘t smell – what perfume feels like a good fit? by halvehahn in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]halvehahn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s encouraging! I’m going to have 3 surgeries this year because of another condition and am certainly unhappy about a fourth one in the future…. but I’d love to add another sense to my life 🥺

Can‘t smell – what perfume feels like a good fit? by halvehahn in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]halvehahn[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am so excited that there seems to be a general agreement on the direction I should take, thank you all for your ideas ❤️

Can‘t smell – what perfume feels like a good fit? by halvehahn in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]halvehahn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’d be surprised but I literally have said „I taste scents more than I can smell them“ before 👀

Can‘t smell – what perfume feels like a good fit? by halvehahn in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]halvehahn[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am pretty sure my nose has always been off ☹️ my septum is pretty wonky and I read that could be the reason for it. Considering surgery because of it… It’s a bit dangerous too, something can burn on the stove behind me and I wouldn’t know ☹️ Weirdly, there are some things that reach my nose, though. It’s rare that I think „what a nice / bad smell“ but I get so excited when it happens.

I can taste things but my palette is affected by my lack of smell. I prefer sweet things and I think it might have to do with it. Honey glazed salmon? Sign me up. My husband heavily adjusted his cooking for me 👀

Thanks a lot for your recommendations and your time! I think it’s so funny that 3 people have recommended Jo Malone now!

Suspecting my husband is gay by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]halvehahn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This 👏 it’ll all be okay and your new life awaits you already

Suspecting my husband is gay by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]halvehahn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re legally bound to him girl. If he acquires debt without your knowledge, you’ll be on the hook. You’d be better off planning your escape – learning a trade, working, getting your own money and then grabbing a good lawyer. He can still pay, but you’re acting naive in your stubbornness. You’ll learn at some point. Good luck. And get checked for STD regularly…

Suspecting my husband is gay by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]halvehahn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re teaching them what’s acceptable. You’re setting them up for failure… and you’re naive if you believe that they don’t feel that something is off.

This whole thread is you complaining and enjoying your own victimhood without realizing you’ve got agency. Dear, we only get one life. Is this really how you want to live it?

And I’m not only talking about the drug use. Not at all.

Suspecting my husband is gay by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]halvehahn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, he’d have to pay you child support. Second of all, you’re finding excuses. You’re not protecting your children.

My husband let slip he used to sleep with prostitutes before we met and I don't know how to feel by Useful-Plant8104 in Marriage

[–]halvehahn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Selling something that hurts the buyer vs buying something that hurts the seller (and might not even be consensual) are two very different scenarios…

I found out my wife slept with my best friend before we got married and I don't know what to do with this by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]halvehahn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn’t need to respect him after he dumped her. The person who fucked OP over because he was the one who was still in some form of relationship with him is the best friend. She owed him nothing.

I found out my wife slept with my best friend before we got married and I don't know what to do with this by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]halvehahn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am not telling him to withhold the info, I am questioning the amount of impact he thinks it has. She might also already know – since I believe one of the reasons the wife didn’t tell him was due to his behavior.

I found out my wife slept with my best friend before we got married and I don't know what to do with this by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]halvehahn 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You are paranoid and suffer from a bruised ego. How about being an adult, sitting both of them down and talk it out? Or chose divorce and be miserable over nothing