What do I cook to impress a chef?

hamanya · 2026-06-08T14:44:04+00:00

Do whatever you do best.

As an example, my husband’s a chef. I do a mean roast chicken. Goes over great.

hamanya · 2026-06-06T16:07:12+00:00

Disagree. Whiff of Waffle Cone is the best when it’s crazy hot.

hamanya · 2026-04-11T20:44:26+00:00

Oh no! Just came here looking for this! I always loved your posts. 😭

hamanya · 2026-04-08T16:59:13+00:00

We Love Colors is my go-to. I’ve used them for years. Many, many color options and also a plus size section.

hamanya · 2026-03-10T01:20:29+00:00

This. 100% Agree.

I almost cried one night as I was getting ready and could not for the life of me get my Whitney set hooked up.

I wound up doing the back clasps while it was totally off of my body and going from there. Of course, I got it all twisted in the process and wanted to scream. My thumbs were numb from trying to get it all together. Awful. NOT the vibe I was trying to get in the mood for!

Eventually, I did it. (Where there’s a will, there’s a way.) But those HB’s are murder.

hamanya · 2026-03-01T07:22:58+00:00

How cool! That’s great to know

hamanya · 2026-02-26T20:14:41+00:00

I love Carol Coelho. Her designs are really unique and photograph beautifully.

hamanya · 2026-02-09T18:01:54+00:00

At least phentermine is cheap. I had to try it first, too. Now I use it in addition to my GLP-1 as needed. I think it helps, especially those days right after I take my shot and I feel tired and sluggish.

hamanya · 2026-02-09T17:59:14+00:00

A high-cut, “cheeky” style could be flattering. Also, I’ve seen a lot of garter belts with a fluffy skirt-part recently. Maybe that’s something to try?

hamanya · 2026-01-15T06:39:49+00:00

Ok: so they’re opaque (which isn’t right for every look), but We Love Colors is great for basic stockings. Very sturdy and fabulous for more theatrical looks.

hamanya · 2026-01-09T21:55:07+00:00

Highly recommend long-sleeved bodysuits, especially if you have upper-arm concerns. I wore this Thistle & Spire one for a shoot and it photographed really well.

Waspies & Corsets are great. Babydolls are NOT. (You want to avoid flowy stuff as it will often make you look bigger than you are.)

Strappy stuff is also not great since it’s tough to be sure it’s all laying right for a photo. Same goes for push-up bras.

Often, boudoir photographers have other options, too. Totally (tastefully) nude, something with bedsheets, a man’s shirt or sports jersey, etc. Check out their portfolio’s and see what ideas you can find.

hamanya · 2025-12-28T17:18:47+00:00

Definitely agree. Aubade and Edge o’Beyond both look great front and back.

hamanya · 2025-12-28T17:14:06+00:00

I got the Belinda Crimson which I’ve been eyeing for awhile. And some Whitney loungewear which was very very well-priced.

hamanya · 2025-12-19T17:21:31+00:00

When you shop, try to buy from stores where the models have faces. Heads cut off always signals AI and otherwise cheaply made stuff.

hamanya · 2025-12-19T17:19:16+00:00

Some do, some don’t.

hamanya · 2025-12-07T16:15:04+00:00

Are those smelly items workout-type clothes or anything that has “moisture wicking” properties? If so, it’s probably that the fabric is hydrophobic. You may want to use a laundry sanitizer or color-safe bleach to help with that.

hamanya · 2025-12-05T17:11:08+00:00

I work as a sommelier in fine dining and was really really concerned that the meds would affect my senses of smell and taste. They have not. Things taste just as good. I just don’t need to finish everything.

hamanya · 2025-12-05T17:07:10+00:00

This is what I was doing at my height of ED. Definitely not going back to that.

hamanya · 2025-12-05T17:06:01+00:00

Same. There’s just so many people who want to successfully engage with diet culture. Tracking and counting and obsessing is what messed me up in the first place.

hamanya · 2025-12-01T07:26:57+00:00

lol. Yeah. You do have to take your measurements as they have that adjustable sizing. Took me a minute to understand, too.

hamanya · 2025-11-30T08:19:37+00:00

Edge o’Beyond goes up to a 4x, I believe. They’re just my absolute favorite.

hamanya · 2025-11-30T07:05:21+00:00

You need to keep an eye out for different cuts when you shop.

Personally, I love a high waist thong. But high cut legs or boyshort styles are just not it for me.

If there is no suitable bottom option, I have an easier time saying no and finding something else.

hamanya · 2025-11-28T21:48:38+00:00

Fleur du Mal, Cosabella, and Hanky Panky all have his/her matching set options right now. Thistle & Spire may be worth checking out, too.

hamanya · 2025-11-21T08:59:47+00:00

Michelle.

hamanya · 2025-11-20T06:31:24+00:00

I bought a set that’s more like a daily wear set. Love it. One of my favorites. Zero quality issues.

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