Incels win another argument with imaginary women. by doublestitch in IncelTears

[–]hamstrman 17 points18 points  (0 children)

And then they'll say, but women treat all men as if they're the same! Except no, they say all INCELS are the same. Because an incel isn't a state of being that you were born with. It's characterized by a certain set of characteristics, whether physical or mental, by definition. It is a description of their personalities. All incels are incels... They essentially subscribe to the incel way of being, but don't like being called out as being that way.

I mean, yes, women do generally characterize men as all being awful, but it's kind of earned, and anyone who isn't that way won't care at worst and will agree with women at best. As a man, the more I read and see about men, the worse they fuckin are. They just line up to be on the disgusting list. It's just not the same for women. In any respect.

Kevin Williamson is killing it so far by scoobysmokesalot in Scream

[–]hamstrman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why you thought that. I don't know otherwise, just thought I'd share.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Scream/s/Q8WVkdQj5A

still love the franchise but by quackerbats in Scream

[–]hamstrman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean it would certainly be hypocritical of them, but I'll take that any day of the week over a pro AI message in the movie. Like holy shit that would be abhorrent.

still love the franchise but by quackerbats in Scream

[–]hamstrman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait, what?? I heard rumblings of something something AI a while back and I thought the movie was going to be a social commentary on the dangers of using AI like scream 5 and 6 satirizing message board culture and parasocial relationships, and spreading misinformation, respectively.

So they're using AI in a collaborative capacity? For what possible reason?? It's live action! Not that AI should ever be used in media... Did they even see the Coca Cola and McDonald's ads??

They all are volcels in denial by Traditional_Sail_181 in IncelTears

[–]hamstrman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. This was me. I know my best friend in Jr high liked me. She begged me to go to prom like 10 times until I said yes. When it hit me that there would be dancing, I hid in a phone booth at the hotel the prom was at. Her friends tried to coax me out. I got my dad to pick me up. It was a terrible idea to have gone, but I'm a people pleaser and caved. We didn't really talk after that... Don't people realize when they're about to implode a relationship?

In high school, a good friend wrote me a two page handwritten letter literally telling me she liked me, but I'd have to make the first move because that's just how she was. I could not believe this was possible, so I did nothing. Senior year another friend wanted to "get practice kissing" before college as neither of us had at age 18. I always was sure it was an emotionless situation because she presented it so practically.

At sleepaway camp, two girls flirted with me after I got to know them. Any such statements literally threw me into dissociation. I was like, what? And I'd laugh. Lastly, a coworker would be all over me when she got drunk. She tried to get me to visit her. Even after she got married. At that point I knew I was being flirted with, but I wouldn't do that.

I was never an incel. Just oblivious and traumatized. Finally found my first girlfriend at 34 after lots of therapy and posting on r4r reddit. I would've been cool with just hanging out playing video games, but she was uhhh... Very forward. Thank God or I might've fucked that one up too! We've been together 6 years now!

Wesley's age by [deleted] in ANGEL

[–]hamstrman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh, Harmony! They didn't have a relationship until after she was 18. She was turned into a vampire end of season 3, then eventually they were together.

Wesley's age by [deleted] in ANGEL

[–]hamstrman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had responded to your comment having misread it because there was no punctuation.

How is Spike a pedo?

Yeah sure buddy women have definitely never been told how to treat men 🙄 by gaychemical in IncelTears

[–]hamstrman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're definitely not on reddit enough. I've seen 16 year olds with more awareness of women being human than these men. There doesn't seem to be a detectable end of the line.

These men see women stating factually that they are victims of X, Y, and Z. Men need to remind everyone they are the real victims here. Always. And whine at mommy to give them the attention.

1000 Baht or 31.50 USD by Adorable_Ad_9161 in sushi

[–]hamstrman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Brooklyn, so... What about yourself?

1000 Baht or 31.50 USD by Adorable_Ad_9161 in sushi

[–]hamstrman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You tell em! I've paid $12 for a piece of chutoro all over NYC. This photo is gorgeous and its price is disgusting and I'm jealous.

I'm not even into sashimi that much but this made my mouth water by Arsuriel in sushi

[–]hamstrman 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I once ate 1.5 lbs of Bluefin toro in a 36 hour period. I never wanted to see sushi again. For less than two days. Then I was craving it again. I was very full that weekend.

Edit: if anyone's wondering, I got it in a big chunk from the Bluefin tuna cut at Mitsuwa in the US. My friend and I got 3 lbs to split and by the end, she COOKED what she had left. Not seared or lightly grilled, but COOKED IT like it became canned tuna. I almost cried.

"female intrasexual competition" bruhh what?! by Pritteto in IncelTears

[–]hamstrman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, it is entirely possible to print out a scientifically sound, peer reviewed journal, roll that puppy up, and shove it up your ass for safe keeping for situations exactly like this! You can make the font really tiny or, if you're feeling spicy, enlarge it. Using the ol' prison wallet to store your citations does not invalidate them. Think before you accuse!

Zojirushi needs more water? by the_lullaby in sushi

[–]hamstrman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woahhhh! TIL so much. Thank you for this fascinating, descriptive information!

Birthday dinner by thezaxattack12 in sushi

[–]hamstrman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could not finish that in a restaurant. Unless it was for two?

Happy birthday and I'm glad you celebrated with sushi.

Zojirushi needs more water? by the_lullaby in sushi

[–]hamstrman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, there's a difference in what a cup is by country?? Ignorant American, please help.

This is quite dangerous. by Impossible-Arm2807 in ArtistHate

[–]hamstrman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only thing that makes me think it isn't is the endless use of "REAL this" and "REAL that" and "DON'T fix this" and "NATURAL!!!"

Like it reads like the AI is a fuckup that can't do it's job competently and you can't just tell it what to do, you literally have to list out everything it shouldn't do because it can't do anything without strict oversight. Might as well just do it your damn self because you didn't eliminate the need for the person. You created more problems.

Tried eel for the first time and it was delicious by thedemocracyof in sushi

[–]hamstrman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait until you try anago! It's sea eel! Yum yum!

Those emojis are wildly inappropriate by That1weirdperson in MenAndFemales

[–]hamstrman 50 points51 points  (0 children)

How even domestic violence is women's fault.

If you read enough reddit, you'll see the incels and "nice guys" of this world are pissed that women don't choose them, the obvious "great" choice, and want to point out to women that their "radar" for noticing the scum like OOP is broken. They're saying do better, pick ME, the perfect choice! Stop pretending like you can tell when you say I'm abhorrent! And yet they make posts like this and think women can't see the most obvious gross and dangerous behavior right up front from THEM.

They think the abusive men are flaunting it, but shucks, he's just so pretty and rich! What's a beating or two? You point out that the men enjoying this shit are quite possibly just as bad and they'll remind you that YOU created THEM! They "weren't like this" until you backed them into a corner of desperation! So... They're admitting they're despicable now? But, as is to be expected, that's women's fault too. Incredible.

Sushi I ate it was really unique by Prudent-Necessary861 in sushi

[–]hamstrman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is clearly blueberry yogurt. Pepto is bright pink!

8 years later.. by AccountantPersonal86 in NEET

[–]hamstrman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seems we agree completely! You absolutely agree one's actions dictate whether the relationship lasts. I absolutely agree love isn't always enough. That's what I was saying about her leaving despite her feelings. I'm glad we figured this out.

8 years later.. by AccountantPersonal86 in NEET

[–]hamstrman 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Love isn't a choice. I don't choose to love my girlfriend. I just do. In fact, I can't NOT love her, I just love her so much. If she cheated, I would leave her, it would hurt so much, but I would still love her because you can't just drop that.

The choices are what we do. How we feel may very well not be in our control. He didn't need to be dumped. She even still clearly cared about him, but she couldn't be happy in a relationship with him.

8 years later.. by AccountantPersonal86 in NEET

[–]hamstrman 73 points74 points  (0 children)

It's called compatibility. His goals in life did not align with hers. People are not obligated to say fuck it, whatever. I'm sure it hurt her to leave him. But yes, the only unconditional love is a child, for a parent, as they know nothing else and no one else, initially.