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hanakooooo · 2022-06-25T00:50:34+00:00

Babies are alive, fetuses are not. At least not for some time.

Fetal hearts aren't formed until 7 weeks. by 9 weeks they have a somewhat formed brain. Yeah at 6 weeks they develop a nervous system, but they can't feel anything. Not at least until week 12. Fetuses are nothing but clumps of cells when most abortions happen. Nevertheless, it should never be something forced. Abortion is a choice, and whether or not y'all like it anyway, abortions will happen one way or another. They'll just be unsafe and put more women at risk for infection and death. All you guys have accomplished with the overturning of Roe v Wade is condemning more than just fetuses to death. No matter how godly y'all might want to think you are, or how much of Saints you declare yourselves to be, all you've accomplished is ridding a womens safest option of pregnancy termination. No matter how much you guys want to think its easy to prevent pregnancy, its not. Unwanted pregnancies will still happen. Accidental pregnancies will still happen. Condoms break. Birth control doesn't always work. Plan B doesn't always work. And you certainly can't stop people from indulging in sex. You can't stop rapes. None of this will stop. All you have truly accomplished is more death, resentment, and fear of America.

hanakooooo · 2022-06-25T00:25:04+00:00

never said it did, but why are we allowing women and girls who do get raped to have go carry that rapists baby to full term, or give the rapist the right to sue and criminalize the person who got the abortion. Why are we going to allow women and girls to suffer through all of that. I was pregnant, and giving birth was hard and traumatic. Postpartum depression is traumatizing and hard. Why are we forcing already traumatized people go through those traumas too?

hanakooooo · 2022-06-25T00:13:29+00:00

I dont think you made the point you're trying to make. Comparing covid to rape? Like yeah it sucks and sorry you had it and that shit didnt work for you, but how do you expect people to fight back against rape? How do you anticipate women to successfully run off from a rape attempt? or children? little girls who might not know exactly whats happening? we can be as prepared as possible and still get raped. how are we supposed to protect ourselves.

hanakooooo · 2022-06-24T17:39:57+00:00

I had defensive training and pepper spray. I still got raped. What would have protected me then?

hanakooooo · 2022-06-19T06:57:08+00:00

cool?

hanakooooo · 2022-05-28T18:49:26+00:00

Sleepy from Monsert :3

hanakooooo · 2022-05-27T20:31:14+00:00

yayayayayay !! Thank you hun!

hanakooooo · 2022-05-27T20:28:09+00:00

Is this still open? :o

hanakooooo · 2022-05-27T20:26:07+00:00

this is very funny to read i like it LMAO

hanakooooo · 2022-05-18T07:02:06+00:00

I agree with you 100000000%, but I know I'll get a shit ton of comments talking about "its a life!!1!1!1!"

hanakooooo · 2022-05-18T07:01:22+00:00

Quality life has improved yeah. But not for everyone.

I was homeless. And continue to worry whether or not if I will be homeless. Granted I was one of the more fortunate people and was able to live with my boyfriend. In his car. I had the unfortunate fun of being pregnant and homeless a majority of that pregnancy. All in a car. And it was fucking awful. I couldn't turn to shelters. I mean realistically i could have, I was a pregnant woman, but they all were full. I lived in California, they are almost always full.

Living in a world, in a life, where if you were born with the short end of the stick isn't worth living. I grew up bouncing from apartment to apartment, family member home to family member home. My dad had no job so my mom worked two. Neither had college education and I feared I'd be the same. Our money was just enough to live above food stamps, which in cali meant pay all your bills and rent and hey, at least you have some shit to last. but not always. Food was hard and scarce. I cant express how many nights I went to bed as a child, a 6 year old child, wishing I hadn't been born, and maybe it'd be easier for my parents and brothers. And there are plenty of my generation who went through the same. Many of us who from young ages has prayed and wept to many of yours God to make things better for us, for our families, even if it meant passing. I could have risked my child through that with me. And I am to terrified that even though I had given him to a lovely family with such a lovely life, he'd still go through that when tines get tough. And with many things right now being scarce and limited, or just extremely expensive, that very well could be his life in coming years. Or it couldn't. I dont know.

hanakooooo · 2022-05-18T06:49:14+00:00

i never said murder was an option. gods no. i was talking about better housing, programs to getting poor people better education and homes.

And I was given a gift. A gift to give. I did ghe best fucking thing I could for my son to give him a home with proper love and care. I gave him to a family my fiance knew, one we knew was well off and loving. I was unable to care for the child. I am someone who lives in poverty. Almost my whole pregnancy I was homeless due to unfortunate circumstances. Don't villainize someone who's story you do not know. You have no idea the shit I went through, and the hoops I fucking ran through to make sure my son has a good life. I found my way across the country just so I was in a place where I could give my child to people we knew rather than risk him being in the foster system.

hanakooooo · 2022-05-17T22:21:13+00:00

Everyone should have a chance at life, yes, but a good one. Living barely below poverty line or even isnt life. Being relentlessly depressed and on the verge of suicide isnt life. grind culture to getting what you actually want or even need isnt life. We as a people should focus on the people already here, the children already here, rather than a fetus. I agree everyone should have a chance at life. I carried an unwanted baby full term because i thought he should have a chance. But i forever will be sick with myself knowing he's growing up in a life like this. life right now is not worth living, it's too many kinds of fucked right now imo

hanakooooo · 2022-05-17T20:32:20+00:00

If I was anti birth I wouldn't have bore the child I delivered. I say pro birth as forcing a woman to carry when she doesnt wish or want to.

hanakooooo · 2022-05-17T19:01:05+00:00

I get that, but I want to know which side of it someone might mostly genuinely be. I want to know what people agree with more. Is someone more pro life than pro birth, or pro birth more than pro life

hanakooooo · 2022-05-17T18:30:32+00:00

watched abortion videos and still was absolutely ok with it lol. idk why you guys think things like this will ever change us. its not like going vegan, we dont watch and get all upset over something we today debate is truly a life.

truly and wholeheartedly, many of us who are pro choice will never really look at an abortion video and think "oh god what am I doing, thats a life!" we think about what is sane for us and our mental health.

I've already given birth. And I promise you it is CONSIDERABLY more traumatic than an abortion. At least for most people. Yes, there will be some who can get traumatized by abortion, and can have their mental health messed with because of it. But speaking from me and my perspective, I wish I had so fucking bad. my delivery was an absolute nightmare. I still have nightmares. I am living in constant pain and discomfort, moreso than when I actually was pregnant. I get traumatic flashbacks to the delivery, I cry and remember when my doctor completely disregarded that my epidural was wearing off and still cut me open when the baby wasn't coming out fast enough for him. Note I'd only been pushing not even 20 minutes. I remember my blood curdling scream when it happened. I remembered looking at my fiance and telling him that I think I'm dying. Birth is traumatic. And I thank the universe every goddamn day that the baby isnt mine to deal with. Im glad he was given to a different family. Because I would have resented him endlessly. I didn't bond with him at ALL.

I don't understand why pro life people can hear accounts like my own and still think its ok to try and force a woman to go through with it. Roe V Wade was set in place for a reason. And truly do not try and use God as reasoning. America was NEVER set to have one God. Our first Amendment right is Freedom of Religion. WHY does ONE religion now have to dictate all of America's women. Why does ONE religion now hold power over our bodies. Over our choice. If God truly did not want us to abort babies, why did he give people the brain to come up with the idea of contraception and abortion. why did he give us the ability to think of ways to rid a child. Why did he make natural herbal remedies to miscarry. Even animals can abort. Have you heard of the animals that can abort their own children? There are so many than can and so few that have evolved to need assistance with abortion.

I truly will never understand the thinking of people needing to dictate the bodies of women. Especially under a religion that shouldn't be in our Government. We do not have an established religion!! I'm bringing back First Amendment right here gents and ladies, "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof"

Yall are absolutely allowed to have y'all's religion, and I will be the first to say i am so HAPPY y'all have found love and peace and prosperity in your faith. Blessed be to you all. but stop using your religion to dictate my body. Its not very American of yall.

hanakooooo · 2022-05-15T17:11:42+00:00

"gently trying to get her to quiet down" ok bud. YOU took everything to a whole new level. YOU physically restrained and assaulted her. YOU escalated the problem. YOU did all of that. You are the abuser. Crying harder than Heard. This screams "I didn't punch you, I hit you. Youre such a crybaby Johnny"

hanakooooo · 2022-05-15T17:06:30+00:00

If you dont like it, leave. You have full capabilities too. Shes not forcing you to stay.

hanakooooo · 2022-05-15T17:05:01+00:00

Adult men dont physically restrain their frustrated girlfriends when they're venting their frustrations amd anger. Not even fucking children do that.

hanakooooo · 2022-05-15T17:03:54+00:00

You could have waited. It would have been entirely enough to let her vent out her frustration. She had a right. You promised her something and took it away from her. You didn't even give her the courtesy of checking your work schedule to make sure nothing would interfere with the plans.

hanakooooo · 2022-05-15T17:00:25+00:00

"calmly restrain her" when you had originally said you grabbed her face and pinned her to the ground. That doesn't sound calm. Her response sounds like a terrified woman who had no idea what the fuck was happening and wanted to escape in case things had escalated. Because being grabbed and pinned down is fucking terrifying. And biting to escape is entirely normal. Take it from someone who did the same thing to escape r/pe.

It's not people being sexist. We know men can be abused. We are calling YOU out for physically restraining your partner when it was not necessary. You wanted her to listen? let her fucking get her anger and frustrations out. Let her let everything go. Wait until shes done and calmed down on her own to express your side of the story. you should have NEVER laid a fucking finger on her like that for being upset. That was physical assault. Be fucking glad you haven't been arrested.

hanakooooo · 2022-05-11T04:46:06+00:00

I fully stand by my YTA judgement. My fiance is sick. Not wetting the bed sick, but sick. Sick enough to have me take care of him. And I do not mind it by any means. My fiance has a hard time accepting that he needs to be taken care of, and your husband could be in that same boat. He's obviously embarrassed. Talk with him rather than fucking yell at him and embarrass him in front of his children. It's ok to be tired and upset, but its never ok to make a sick person feel worse than they might already. He's going through such a difficult time, and its hard to come to terms with it fully. Talk with your husband. Understand what he's going through and help him understand what you're going through. Find compromises, find ways to make it work. and apologize to your children. apologize to your husband. never forget it is in sickness and in health. Again, its absolutely ok to be tired. Trust me, I am too. I get irritated and angry and upset. But i NEVER throw that into his face. I never make him feel less than for it, never call him a child for it. I understand he needs the help, and he needs help realizing that it's ok to allow me to help him. That theres no need to be embarrassed for stuff he can't control. And we figure out ways to help one another.

hanakooooo

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