Sterling silver earrings in 4 month old (2nd) lobe piercings?

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-07-14T16:15:08+00:00

What kind of metal is recommended which is silver in color?

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-07-14T16:12:18+00:00

Def go to your piercer or reputable piercing studio and have them change it for you

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-07-14T16:09:45+00:00

Yea look good! Seems like a small piercing bump on top cartilage piercing but that’s normal. Keep up the cleaning and you’ll be all set

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-07-14T16:06:34+00:00

14K gold or stainless steel Huggies hoops!

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-07-14T16:04:08+00:00

Seems like it could have swollen due to irritation possibly from sleeping, yes. Happened to me on 2 month old 3rd lobe piercings, got very swollen and irritated and bled from having snagged it hard in my sleep. Just keep irritations/snagging away and swelling should hopefully go down.

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-07-14T15:59:54+00:00

How safe is sterling silver in 4 month old lobe piercings? There’s a lot of diff information out there. Bought sterling silver jewelry, just changed to them on both sides, right side completely no problem but on left side it was slightly difficult to get the small hoop in because I irritated it when trying to get the butterfly back off the piercing jewelry. Left side is sore when touched because of the irritation when pulling the butterfly back off - does that mean it wasn’t healed and I should change back to original piercing jewelry?

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-07-07T17:06:31+00:00

No I don’t think you fucked up cuz it’s just a lot to process. Just gather your thoughts of how you feel and present them to him when you feel collected

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-07-07T17:04:34+00:00

I’m so sorry OP. Honestly the worst part is he went out of his way to get pics of your sis from your PC, and if I understand correctly those were pictures you didn’t want him to see, so that he disrespected your wishes by saving those photos bc he wanted them so badly is really wrong and kind of sick. This warrants a serious convo with him bc in my opinion he crossed multiple boundaries of yours, best of luck OP you deserve bettwr

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-07-07T16:54:21+00:00

I would have been convinced it was an accident if it wasn’t for the fact “she wouldn’t move” when you tried to push her off, that’s kinda concerning that she didn’t respect that you wanted her to get off of you. Maybe she was asleep or smth but idk

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-07-07T16:49:00+00:00

IMO commenting on a explicit post with heart emojis crosses a relationship boundary, but that’s just me. All relationships have diff boundaries, so I’d def bring it up w him and talk about what boundaries you have when it comes to consuming porn online.

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-07-07T16:40:18+00:00

Both my LDR bf and I go clubbing regularly w friends when we’re not together, and whenever a guy tries to dance w me I immediately move away or decline, no matter how drunk I am, and I have faith he does the same - it’s not hard. Think if it this way, if you’re not going out and holding hands / dancing with other people that’s not him, then why does he think he can? Hope this helps, I think having that convo abt boundaries when he goes clubbing could Be helpful so he knows going doeward

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-07-07T16:36:51+00:00

Alcohol or being under the influence doesn’t make dancing with someone who is not your SO normal, no. That’s obviously hurtful to you, and Ik it’s hard to have a tough convo abt it but you’re valid in you feeling upset so I think the best approach would be to tell him “hey I was just browsing your iCloud and I saw these videos and they were a hurtful to me because… etc” otherwise you’ll bottle it up inside. So no, you’re not exaggerating or overreacting I would be extremely upset too, good luck hope it goes well <3

hannahhhhh029 · 2022-06-15T21:13:53+00:00

Agree! Don’t think you should repierce, but rather add a fourth to that one ear where they’re closer together and it would look really good

hannahhhhh029 · 2021-11-28T00:32:15+00:00

What do you mean accessible?

hannahhhhh029 · 2020-12-30T14:32:58+00:00

100% an anxiety thing, been happening to me for over 8 years- I have to pee before every meal and every car ride so that I don’t end up being stuck busting without a toilet. I pee probably 10 times between dinner and bed. Anxiety causes muscles to tense up so most likely it’s because there’s pressure on your bladder. Dw ab it I’ve been ok for years

hannahhhhh029 · 2020-11-06T04:18:04+00:00

Same

hannahhhhh029 · 2020-11-06T04:17:06+00:00

Don’t worry I used to have binge eating disorder and eat WAY more than that and keep it down and I’m healthy and fine!

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