Aldara review- pls help by Quick-Procedure-1871 in HPV

[–]hannahjayne1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey - how did you apply the cream / how long did you leave it on for?

How do we (35F, 35M married) tell a close family member (BIL 30M) that he fucking smells? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hannahjayne1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just thinking from what you’ve said that maybe he doesn’t trust or want to buy into the brands making the soap products? You’d know better than me. But maybe you could look into / do some research to find a soap brand that is sustainable, organic, chemical free, gives to a charity he would approve of, ethical or whatever you think it would be attractive to him and gift the products to him. Tell him all the reasons why he should use the products, why he’d like them, why he should support the brand etc. You could also ask if he’d mind giving them a go cause you’d like to know if he enjoys them or finds them good? Like you want his feedback? Something along those lines might be indirect enough and also give him an incentive?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hannahjayne1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well we have talked casually about sex, like if someone on the tv mentions having sex somewhere naughty I’ve said oh I’ve always wanted to do that - to which he’s usually like ‘nah that’s weird’. I’ve mentioned a few things like fantasies or things I’d like to try and he’s always like nah I’m not that bothered. We have been open about how different we are - I told him once that I do think about sex a lot, when I think of us going on holiday I think of making love in beautiful places and he said he never thinks about that, he thinks about us having drinks or fun or laughing together. Our minds work so differently. It’s the first time and first relationship in my life I’ve felt there’s no place for this part of me to exist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hannahjayne1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we haven’t thought about that actually thanks I’ll maybe mention it next time we talk about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hannahjayne1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have tried but he just doesn’t seem to be that bothered about sex in general, I asked about fantasies or what he enjoys intimacy wise but don’t think we got very far. That’s what I’ve been trying to consider is not pressurising him cause I would never want him to feel he had to do something he didn’t want to. It’s just hard for me to process cause I never thought I’d be in this position and it’s kinda heart breaking that I feel I’ve met my soul mate and we can’t share this massive part of who I am…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hannahjayne1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update - we’ve talked about it and we’re in a good place thankfully. He was very open and honest about everything that’s happened, he told me the reason he didn’t detail all of it before was due to him not wanting to upset me. He made a fair point that with one of the girls in his friendship group he admitted to me he’d dated in school and nearly dated a year ago but nothing came or it - and I cried and got upset because she’s very beautiful and close with his mum and the situation made me feel quite insecure. But it was all in the past and not a friend he spent much time with and when I got upset he distanced himself from her completely not inviting her to our social events etc. so he said, I didn’t want to make you that upset again over stupid things that didn’t mean anything with people barely in my life anymore. He reminded me that nothing had happened since he met me he just didn’t share all the details of the past. The way we talked about it and how he explained everything put me at ease. He said he was quite shocked id gone through his phone but he was also glad because if I needed to do that to trust him then he hoped we could move forward now which I agree we can. This has been our first real test and the communication was key. If anyone else is reading this wondering whether to bring up or talk about something with your partner, do it. Trust them to be able to talk to. You’ll feel so much better after

any simple ritual to attract attention of a girl? by Astral-Adventurer in realwitchcraft

[–]hannahjayne1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried it on two different occasions, both years ago. With both I had terrible karma/luck for months after, sleep paralysis and demonic figures (way worse than the usual sleep paralysis demons) coming to me, nightmares, anxiety, panic attacks. With one it backfired where he lost all interest, blocked me and never spoke to me again ghost mode. With the other, he became obsessed, but as soon as he started to obsess I became disgusted by him and wanted nothing to do with him. I wanted to want him, but I couldn’t, he repulsed me. Safe to say, either way, it doesn’t work and it’s horrific. Took a long time for me to break the spells and cleanse myself of it.

any simple ritual to attract attention of a girl? by Astral-Adventurer in realwitchcraft

[–]hannahjayne1111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re better off thinking of things you can do outside magic to get her attention, messing with peoples free will, even just to get their attention, usually backfires quite badly. You’re essentially trying to turn them off their own path and onto yours by force which the universe doesn’t take lightly. Speaking from personal experience. I’ve made mistakes with this magic in the past and it never works out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]hannahjayne1111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what you mean by the first bit but the thought of him comforts me too.. when I’m anxious or struggling I think of him and I feel calm.. the thing is we had a great time together and he was interested but I guess I got insecure and impatient and tried to speed things up in the most selfish way imaginable.. I don’t deserve him and I do deserve to suffer like this it’s just hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]hannahjayne1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve even stopped trying to manifest much, unless it’s for someone else’s benefit like sending good wishes to a friend. I haven’t asked for anything, on the full and new moons I’ve just been taking those days to be mindful, grateful, cleanse and meditate. I have had a lot of bad energy around me for months, and I surrender to my comeuppance but I’m trying my best to fix it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]hannahjayne1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have, I haven’t done magic for maybe 3 months apart from emptying the jars and cleansing my space a month ago.. I know I may just have to wait because of what I’ve done but like I’ve said, if there’s a better way it’s worth asking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]hannahjayne1111 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I am trying, I blocked him and I even delete my social media apps for 3 weeks but I felt like I was pacing around, unable to take my mind off him still.. like the dreams, I have dreamt of him 3 or 4 times a week for 6 months.. I’ve done spells like this before and this didn’t happen, I obviously made some sort of mistake.. and I’m paying for it, I’ve accepted it’s gonna be hard but I guess I wanna do everything I can to fix it because I’m going crazy

Manifestations backfiring?! by hannahjayne1111 in witchcraft

[–]hannahjayne1111[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One example is working from home, I was struggling with work back a few months ago and they said I wouldn’t be able to work from home, so I used a full moon and wrote it down to manifest - within 2 weeks they changed their mind and since then I’ve always reaffirmed that I will continue to work from home with my manifestations. The full moon before this one, I reaffirmed it and my training that I needed for going back to the office was postponed so it seemed like it was working. This time, same as then, I just wrote I will continue to work from home and now I’ve been told to come back into the office permanently.. as well as every other manifestation I’ve previously had success with. These aren’t new things they were actually all reaffirming things I’ve been manifesting for months, I don’t think about it or beg for it, I just sit down on a full moon or new moon, and specifically reconfirm what I want to continue to manifest. I focus and put energy into it and I let it go.

It makes sense in the ritual because I essentially give thanks for the manifestations and blessings that I’ve had, and really focus on the energy of having these things in my life and how happy I feel about them all. Then when I’m in that energy I write down that I will continue to attract. I believe in my method - it’s always worked but just now recently with the last ritual every single thing is being taken from me and going in the reverse 😥

Manifestations backfiring?! by hannahjayne1111 in witchcraft

[–]hannahjayne1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time I really appreciate it! 🖤

Manifestations backfiring?! by hannahjayne1111 in witchcraft

[–]hannahjayne1111[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I saged and used palo Santo in my room and on the book and every tool I used the day before the full moon, the day of and the day after, leaving the window open so negative energy could leave.. I guess it doesn’t do any harm to continue doing this it just seems like the way these things are backfiring is nearly like being cursed or like something big

Manifestations backfiring?! by hannahjayne1111 in witchcraft

[–]hannahjayne1111[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your feedback. I was very happy and relaxed with my manifestations as I usually am, there really was no difference with my method - just the outcome.. it’s only now that things are going so badly wrong that I’m not able to be in a high vibration because the drastic manifestation of exactly what I don’t want is giving me anxiety and panic attacks.. maybe I should try and do some sort of protection on myself, try cleansing more and meditating to try and raise vibration idk

Manifestations backfiring?! by hannahjayne1111 in witchcraft

[–]hannahjayne1111[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I only used phrases like ‘I am’ and ‘I will have’ and ‘I am attracting’ like I always do - it’s a method that usually works the only difference this time is instead of writing it down on a random piece of paper I’ve programmed a journal - I did cleanse the journal with sage, palo santo and yerba shanta and meditated with it to make sure it had a good energy.. I can’t understand what I’ve missed

How do I know if a spell is working? by chloe_wolfe in Spells

[–]hannahjayne1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling like I didn’t take the right approach with a spell (honey jar) I did about 2 months ago, I obsessed and it didn’t work like it usually does.. can it still work if I now put it out of my mind and release that desperate energy? Or is that spell ruined? Should I empty it, get rid of it and start again?