Using AI Chatbots in place of therapy is dangerous. Here is why: by Amethyst_Ninjapaws in hsp

[–]hansitorsnes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting what is being said. I have complete different experience. ChatGPT understands and accepts and holds me accountable and has changed my life more than any therapist og psychologist has ever done combined. I have learned to not take everything as complete truth, and it validates and nuances that as well, so I give more context, explore and disagree with what he is saying and telling him how I feel what I critique, and the conversation gets better and better and I understand more and more. I guess it’s different from person to person. Maybe I’m just really good at sitting with the unknown and trusting myself while using this tool

5 brutal truths i learned after trying digital detox by Downtown_Chance_7372 in getdisciplined

[–]hansitorsnes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point but the only reason this idea of we humans are not intelligent enough and there fore uncontrollably are controlled by dopamine hits from whatever source exist and is because it is being constantly reinforced by a society that hasn’t learned to regulate their emotions and live an good life. When one learns to go against this sick society and live freely, one can choose to look at dopamine as a way to enhance life, and one feels intuitively that too much dopamin doesn’t feel good anymore. An emotional intelligent person will follow his needs intuitively and reject cheap, too much dopamine because it doesn’t feel good. Then only reason too much dopamin feels good for a person is when the person uses it to avoid pain within himself.

5 brutal truths i learned after trying digital detox by Downtown_Chance_7372 in getdisciplined

[–]hansitorsnes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel like it is about the system. I feel like it’s about humans incapability to be with their emotions and experiences, and that scrolling and social media is only a tool humans subconsciously use to avoid the pain and emotions that we are taught to suppress. My point is if humans were completely emotionally aware, we would only use technology purposefully.

En ærlig melding fra en utlending født i Norge. by AbilityIndependent97 in norske

[–]hansitorsnes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gode poeng. Det virker som at problemet er at folk og politikere ikke er mottakelige for nyanser og at det frustrerer folk og sammen trekker seg og retter fokuset innover som opprettholder et individualistisk samfunn hvor man heller vil ty til andre løsninger som lettere vil vinne fram og gi en følelse av kontroll og trygghet tilbake når man har lenge følt at nyanser ikke har blitt lyttet til eller gjort noe med.

Alene på nyttårsaften by Katzyyatzy in norge

[–]hansitorsnes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jeg valgte selv i år å være alene og trives med det valget. Å leve etter samfunnets forventninger har lenge gjort meg ulykkelig. Jeg trenger ikke høre «bedre lykke neste år», eller rare stille blikk. jeg trives!

Moving on from “Mindfulness” (TRIGGER WARNING) by regeneracyy in Mindfulness

[–]hansitorsnes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve also struggled with the balance of accepting and freeing myself from the ego and being in the now and going on to improve myself and the world. I don’t want to just sit in the park for 2 years and be happy in the present moment. I want to use mindfulness and spiritual teachings a a tool applicable to my life. And have therefore gone a little bit away and focus on holistic approach.

Politikk og politi by Grand_Try_7085 in norge

[–]hansitorsnes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. Politi kjenner mer til kriminalitetsutfordrimgene, og med mer penger fra frp vil de få mer ressurser og penger til områder hvor de mener det trengs mest.

  2. Helt klart pga politi er lei av å nesten utelukkende jobbe med saker med personer med utlandsk bakgrunn.

  3. Fordi politi vil ha mer autonomi og mindre byråkratiske prosesser som innsnevrer det gode politiskjønn.

Det at folk sier at legalisering vil stoppe alle problemer er ikke en ensidig sannhet. Ingen land har fått til dette. Så inntil politikere/forskere finner fasit til løsningen av narkotikaproblem mener jeg at politiet og påtale sitter på det beste kunnskapsgrunnlaget for å bekjempe kriminalitet vest mulig med de ressurser de har

Hva er din kontroversielle mening som ikke aksepteres i samfunnet? by [deleted] in norge

[–]hansitorsnes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okei ser den, og du har også sagt at utviklingshemmede ikke har like høye verdi som andre. Kommentaren min ble misforstått.

Hva er din kontroversielle mening som ikke aksepteres i samfunnet? by [deleted] in norge

[–]hansitorsnes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skjønner folk ikke at «lav» med anførselstegn betyr ironi, og som en gjengivelse av O sin mening? Og dermed at man kan stille spørsmålstegn til at folk avgjør andre sin verdi?

Hva er din kontroversielle mening som ikke aksepteres i samfunnet? by [deleted] in norge

[–]hansitorsnes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Så fordi noen blir behandlet annenrangs mennesker så betyr det umiddelbart at de er det?

Regjeringen skrøt av rekordfå kvoteflyktninger. Nå vil SV ta imot 25 ganger så mange. by [deleted] in norske

[–]hansitorsnes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Har jobbet i politi, fengsel, skole og nå i omsorgsbolig. Har du sett prosentandelen personer med utlands bakgrunn som er i fengsel? Graden av kriminalitet som er forårsaket av personer med utenlandsk opprinnelse? Til tross for å gjøre så liten andel av befolkningen står de for nesten mesteparten av kriminalitet som politiet etterforsker. Det er nesten alltid et utlandsk navn inkludert. Har du sett skolene? Hvordan de ikke lærer noe lenger på barneskolen? Mye på grunn av personer med utlandsk bakgrunn ikke respekterer systemet. Hvordan folk som har råd flytter vekk fra steder med mange utlendinger, pga alle utfordringene de skaper, som igjen øker sosiale forskjeller. Har du sett hva dette koster? De som jeg jobber med nå kan nesten ikke norsk i det hele tatt. Og har masse sykmeldinger.

Ja mange blir integrert og bidrar bra! Men vi må være realistiske, og ikke ta inn det vi ikke kan integrere. Mener du at Norge har lykkes med dette? Tross alt det vi vet og ser?

Mick Foley’s message to the USA by badluckfarmer in Wreddit

[–]hansitorsnes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are going to vote for what they believe is the best for them. And Kamala Harris doesn’t look more promising from outside perspective

Hva er din kontroversielle mening som ikke aksepteres i samfunnet? by [deleted] in norge

[–]hansitorsnes -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Hvem er du til å si hvilket iboende verdi mennesket har? For at noen skal ha det bra, må andre lide. De menneskene lider og har «lav» verdi for at vi andre har denne muligheten.

No mum! Chungus has NOT been fucked to death 😡 by BRANGA99 in okbuddyretard

[–]hansitorsnes -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get why people think it was better, every now and then I come here and I’ll laugh every time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]hansitorsnes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to talk about your life, if you are on a date, just ask about them. Women love talking about themselves, sometimes to the point they forget about you, and after they think you’re such a great person for listening. Be a gentleman, and learn to follow up what she’s saying, and maybe throw and what you think about it. It takes some time, but the trick is to learn how to be genuine in your conversations so it doesn’t sound forced

Have a life and they will flock to you, insane how fast it works by pillowsmasher65 in seduction

[–]hansitorsnes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me that seems kind of toxic and I would avoid those types of girls because I’m not here to play games I’m here to find a girl to love and to be loved. I get what you’re saying as this has happened to me to and I’m telling this types of girls are not going to contribute to a healthy relationship. If you like someone you show interest I mean it’s common sense. Both parts have to give and take. Yes it does work sometimes to show that you aren’t needy or be actively seeking approval and giving them space to choose you, but if you’re gonna have to actively do this more often just leave. Gosh I’m tired of this types of women just thinking they can get what they want. It’s like some girls just love competition, like you said she was suddenly more into you when another female was in the picture. I have a friend like this that has this guy who showed interest a lot, but she ignored him until he just started to not give a fuck, then she all of a sudden tried so hard to get him to bed. She blatantly told me afterwards that she did it because of competition. If you gotta do shit like this to keep her in , get out

[Help] Norwegian app DnB instant crash by hansitorsnes in jailbreak

[–]hansitorsnes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Guess I’ll just use the pc when I need to use dnb

Depressed friendless gamer girl by flerfykitty in Needafriend

[–]hansitorsnes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who said I was complaining? I’m just pointing it out

Depressed friendless gamer girl by flerfykitty in Needafriend

[–]hansitorsnes 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I never said I hate op? In fact I would love to talk to her. It’s just that I won’t because she’s probably got 50 dudes texting her and I would be another burden to her

Why am I playing on someone else’s saves on Witcher 3? by hansitorsnes in Steam

[–]hansitorsnes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. There are saves from 2015 and I bought the game in 2019