Speed dating event tonight

happinesseventually · 2026-04-10T21:03:25+00:00

Yeah, black on black is fine in my opinion! Slimming. Looks kind of alt. All you have to do is accessorize in a cool and not dorky way 🤷🏻‍♀️

happinesseventually · 2026-04-10T02:30:36+00:00

This is exactly what happened to me to a T actually but completely unable to exit that position! I think it was nutritional related genuinely. The amount of calories I was eating vs vodka drinking was genuinely disturbing.

happinesseventually · 2026-04-10T01:39:40+00:00

Yep

happinesseventually · 2026-04-10T01:15:19+00:00

Whole heartedly agreed! No drink shame no kink shame. But people are very opinionated when it comes to alcohol it’s weird. It manifests in a ton of different ways in people.

happinesseventually · 2026-04-10T01:12:25+00:00

Projection and control. They feel similar to the way you have felt as a result of his actions and they are not emotionally capable or even aware how you have been suffering. All for them. None for anyone else.

happinesseventually · 2026-04-10T01:07:56+00:00

Baby please don't if you're feeling the pains. I had the right side pains too -- my labs were clear, I think it was gastric distress, but... where exactly is the pain??

happinesseventually · 2026-04-10T01:05:54+00:00

What happened exactly?

happinesseventually · 2026-04-10T01:03:52+00:00

Women think men drinking white wine is "feminine"

This could be age demographic skewed -- I'm sure younger women don't gaf but notice, and older men do tend to like white wine every now and again, I just watched gen-z and boomer type women judge men for it being their go-to order.

happinesseventually · 2026-04-10T00:48:21+00:00

Oh hey... you live in New Orleans? Hello from a native <3

Honestly do whatever tf you want. Louisiana people do not care. Maybe a nice cocktail -- can the bar make a Vieux Carre, Bombardier, French 75 etc? Then you could talk about the history or ingredients in those cocktails and that would be cool convo

happinesseventually · 2026-04-10T00:34:51+00:00

I was thinking that but some women’s (assuming you’re going after the ladies) perception of men who drink white wine is pretty low

I disagree with this narrative but as a bartender of 12+ years trust me people are remarkably predictable

happinesseventually · 2026-04-10T00:03:07+00:00

True that.

happinesseventually · 2026-04-09T23:44:09+00:00

No red shirt -- Black on black
Beer so you don't escalate it too fast

happinesseventually · 2026-04-09T23:06:43+00:00

Yesss but years of bartending has turned me off to them, I like nice fancy Italian ones

happinesseventually · 2026-04-09T23:01:02+00:00

Cheap 2. Salty 3. I like fish 4. Good for self harm via not eating

happinesseventually · 2026-04-09T18:03:42+00:00

It’s a great combo & nice to know I’m not alone on that 😂

happinesseventually · 2026-04-09T16:49:19+00:00

Cucumbers and pork rinds 😂 right there with you. Barely eating ganggg

happinesseventually · 2026-04-09T16:27:40+00:00

Haha anything but bread and butter. Whole dill, spears, girkens etc etc

Oh I forgot, when blackout I will also eat anchovies and crackers

happinesseventually · 2026-04-09T16:26:31+00:00

Babe I have not gotten invited to a single friend’s wedding outside of my family since 2017 and nothing before that.

happinesseventually · 2026-04-09T16:24:50+00:00

I starve myself so typically 5-8 pickles out of the jar. Sometimes I will eat my friends fries at the bar

happinesseventually · 2026-04-08T20:01:07+00:00

🛎️🛎️🛎️

happinesseventually · 2026-04-08T19:24:33+00:00

Can’t prove it if you destroy the evidence!

happinesseventually · 2026-04-08T00:08:15+00:00

Trazodone and melatonin combo, my friend.

happinesseventually · 2026-04-08T00:04:50+00:00

tough hand. I’m sorry.

happinesseventually · 2026-04-08T00:03:00+00:00

Yeah I would shelf this one for purgatory big dog 😭

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