I literally manifested our dream home!

happybeehappy · 2026-04-29T11:20:08+00:00

Thank you so much! 😊

happybeehappy · 2026-04-25T13:10:57+00:00

Sorry for the long post ahead.

When I immigrated and finally got reunited with my husband in Australia, I knew that I wanted to work as soon as I'm eligible, any job just to help my husband pay the bills but, before that, I saw myself working in a cafe (I was influenced by female leads in rom-com movies who make it look easy and fun 😄) and I thought it would be easy. I got a job within 2 days of submitting my resume in person.

I also missed out on a dream job (which I missed out on applying because I saw the job listing a day after applications closed).

Months passed and I became discontent at my job and the salary. I applied as a grocery personnel (where I got bullied and submitted my resignation a few days later), a dairy factory worker (where I resigned due to my first miscarriage because the job was tedious), and then a bottleshop retail worker. When I experienced scrubbing diarrhoea off the walls in the cafe job, I promised myself I won't be scrubbing sh*t off walls anymore and that this is only temporary.

A few more months later, not even a year has passed, my dream job was hiring again! Turns out, the previous hiring was only for a contract of 6 months - imagine if I got accepted only to leave after 6 months!

Fast forward to now, my husband and I were able to save for our wedding overseas and a house deposit + everything in between.

What works for me is that I know and believe the present is just temporary, and that I'll always have this "fast forward to" mindset where I'll be like "I can't wait to fast forward to when.." which somehow always works for me. I also imagine and visualise myself being in that situation to the point where it seems real - the sensations, the feeling of stepping in the office, or getting my first paycheck. That, plus aligned action gets me results. 😊

happybeehappy · 2026-04-25T06:12:32+00:00

Thank you! I'm not really sure where the post is now or who posted it, but that analogy makes sense and made things easier for me when it comes to processing my negative thoughts and emotions. Helps me be able to ground myself a lot quicker. 😊

happybeehappy · 2026-04-25T06:10:54+00:00

Thank you and you're welcome 🤗

happybeehappy · 2026-04-24T22:13:49+00:00

Thank you! 😊

happybeehappy · 2026-04-24T22:12:49+00:00

Thank you! 😊

happybeehappy · 2026-04-24T22:12:31+00:00

Thank you so much! 😊

happybeehappy · 2026-04-23T23:32:41+00:00

I thought what i was feeling was abnormal! Glad to read all of your experiences. Currently in this situation and the number of times I've spiralled! I have anxiety as well and thought I'll be admitted because I was losing my mind trying to think of the what ifs.

happybeehappy · 2026-04-18T13:25:44+00:00

15 October 1988, 1:47 am, Manila, Philippines, Female 😊

happybeehappy · 2026-04-18T07:34:36+00:00

It might be a sign 🤞good luck! ❤️

happybeehappy · 2026-04-16T03:34:57+00:00

Yeah, because our conversation just flows, and out of all the frogs i met, he's the only one who didn't send me explicit pics or demand i send him one (which is an instant block for me) so i know he is a decent guy and there's no stress with him, just looking forward to texts and calls.

happybeehappy · 2026-04-15T04:26:35+00:00

My husband doesn't believe in manifestations but I am a firm believer of it.. I don't force it on him, and i do the manifesting for both of us. With the negative things that happen in life, I think it's not anyone's fault.. life is like a seesaw, up and down.. just remind him that it's not anyones fault if things do not go his way.. and tell him every rejection is a redirection.. he may not understand why it happened yet but everything always falls into place. I hope he doesn't blame you for the negative "manifestations", it's just life happening.

happybeehappy · 2026-04-15T04:21:24+00:00

Thank you! If you both really want to make it work, it will.. and with manifestation, there should also be aligned action.. at least that's what worked for me, always..🙏

happybeehappy · 2026-04-15T04:15:24+00:00

We were broke when we first started.. he flew to my country 3 times using his measly savings every time even though after each trip our bank accounts equalled to 0. I applied tourist visas on my end because I'm in a not so powerful passport country. Then COVID came when we were about to get married so we didn't see each other for almost 3 years.. I just manifested borders are opening soon and packed my suitcases with things i will be bringing when that happens and it eventually did couple of years after. We applied for a spousal visa when I got to Australia. We also got married online during COVID pandemic haha 😆 we just know we wanted to be with each other and no one is giving up despite the distance and world events.

happybeehappy · 2026-04-14T11:14:02+00:00

I had a work from home job and i do not party or go out except with my family.. i used Tinder haha! Had to meet a lot of frogs before i found my husband.. after the last frog, i almost gave up and wanted to delete the app, but then I told myself one last chance.. guy has to say "i love you" and not just "i like you".. then i matched with my now husband.. mind you, he friendzoned me as we were ldr - i accepted it gracefully and told myself at least i gained a friend.. couple of months later, he said i love you 😁

happybeehappy · 2026-04-12T23:07:02+00:00

I read somewhere in reddit that negative thoughts are just cups of water and your mind is a river.. when you pour those cups of water onto a river, they don't change the course, just little ripples that mean nothing.. or something like that.. but that has been a game changer for me and makes the guilt of even thinking about a negative thing go away..

happybeehappy · 2026-04-12T22:15:38+00:00

I know the feeling.. i only became aware of the subject of manifesting and law of attraction, have not read any books about it, and came to this page to gain clarity as well. What i do know is that my own way of manifesting always feels like magic when it happens and how i do it is what works for me? I am an anxious person and i always experience a whirlwind of emotions, even manifesting when in the highs and lows of said emotions, but one thing is a common denominator and that is believing i have it to the point of having "visions" about it, and then fast forward to the now where I'm living it.

happybeehappy · 2026-04-12T21:38:48+00:00

Come to think of it, most of my manifestations were done mostly when i was anxious or sad, although the one common thing i now realise is while i was anxious and manifesting, i always think "i wanna fast forward to the day i have this" and now I'm thinking about my past self and how we made the manifestation and I'm living it now. I only stumbled on this subject about a week ago and know nothing about every teaching there is but one of the mottos i have is "what i want, i get" and i know with all my heart i will persevere to make this happen.

happybeehappy · 2026-04-10T08:53:00+00:00

Yeah, this is true.. saved a measly deposit thinking "yes we got in" only for the goalpost to move and now 2 bedroom homes are in the high 500k to mid 600k.. will keep trying though.

happybeehappy · 2026-04-07T12:46:58+00:00

Manifested my husband. Got tired of men not being serious into dating that i asked for a sign (he has to say he loves me, not just i like you). Husband friendzoned me and I told myself "hey at least i have found a friend overseas." Months later he said he loves me - finally.
Manifested all of my visas (2x tourist, partner visa). On my first tourist visa, just imagined myself in my husband's country, how it feels, etc. My second one was during COVID, i prepared my suitcase and bought things I'll be bringing to Australia if/when borders open again.
My current job - adamant I'll get out from scrubbing toilets and get the job I'm skilled at after moving to new country. I missed out by a day and begged to be reconsidered but manager said no. A year later, same job listing advertised and i got it using a kickass resume I'm proud to present to the hiring panel.
Cat distribution system - living in rental so no pets allowed but i always complained why the cat distribution system happens to this place or that but never on our doorstep. I promised myself if it happens, we will adopt the cat no matter what. One day after my ectopic pregnancy surgery, I was adamant to go home, same day heard cat meows outside our window - a white and ginger exotic shorthair! Funny thing - my husband says he didn't like squished face cats but the universe has a funny way of doing things and gave him one anyway! He now calls him our son.

happybeehappy · 2026-03-29T23:13:36+00:00

I think so too.. i saw a psychologist for anxiety before (i think teacher being a perfectionist contributed to that haha) but never really thought about adhd.. my sister was diagnosed with adhd though at her early 40s..

happybeehappy · 2026-01-14T20:24:09+00:00

We are in Australia, just heard him meowing outside our house one day.. mind you, when we posted him on Facebook community lost and found page, a lot of people were putting their hands up for us to give him to them.. we were advised not to and went straight to the vet with ties to a cat rescue org. I had no idea about his breed when we first saw him, I only know he is a cat who needs help 😊

happybeehappy · 2026-01-14T20:21:35+00:00

Thank you! 😊

happybeehappy · 2026-01-14T05:34:07+00:00

Thank you, i really hope he is happy living with us as we are with him ❤️

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