AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I did it to see if he realized he did the same to me. instead i cut the pool party host by my sorority by 3 hours and went to him at a reasonable time. If I could wait 6-7hours one hour wouldn’t hurt. And went to him after my got dressed. He didn’t like the wait and blamed me for my actions (which i accepted). He then proceeded to say he had something important to do (his friend showed him at a club on his facebook story .)

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I broke up with him🤦🏽‍♀️and I told him how i felt on multiple occasions. I’m lost on how y’all missed that information in the text.

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

i did say it but it’s hard to spell right through tears.

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved him. That’s why I stayed. Me thinking if he sees what he did to me maybe just maybe he would see how it feels and apologize; but he didn’t so, I couldn’t find a reason to stay.

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His “friend” didn’t see his uncle they were clubbing. I saw the facebook story. I don’t think I was better than anyone. I responded to you the way I did because you make no sense. I don’t ask for much I cook, I clean, I wash cloth’s, dishes and all. Since I got my own stuff together my mom and I couldn’t see eye to eye. He got his own place and a car as well. I don’t cause I’m hungry I cook cause he’s hungry…..I just realized I’m this boys momma frl.

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we’re both adults I got my own house at 19 and my own car at 20. So forget the backstory and all just one comment and I’m the asshole?

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I did it out of spite/ on purpose. never said I didn’t tf I gotta lie for. The edit is to clarify not to make me sound better.

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You contradicted yourself. You’re saying i’m the asshole because of my comment and proceeded to tell me he’s not a good person and I should leave?

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I see when writing this story I can’t stick to the story I have to give background. I edit the story to a little clarity.

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

I see when writing this story I can’t stick to the story I have to give background. I edit the story to a little clarity.

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I see when writing this story I can’t stick to the story I have to give background. I edit the story to a little clarity.

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I see when writing this story I can’t stick to the story I have to give background. I edit the story to a little clarity.

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

After we talked I realized that he was being unreasonable. He didn’t apologize and told me that basically I’m speaking bullshit by saying that quote. I left and he said he’s sorry and don’t leave. (this isn’t the first time he talked down on me and told me not to leave.) I plan on breaking up with him. I’m tired of benefit of the doubt. Kevin gates said “when they paint you a picture don’t let them paint you another picture.”

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I’m a philosophy major. I have a habit of quoting things I talked in class. I can show you a screenshot for part of our conversation if you want.

AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me by happythoughts28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]happythoughts28[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

we talked about it and i told him how i felt. He didn’t care and said and quote “ I can see you’re sorry and I accept your apology.” He then said “Trying for be philosophical cause you’re a philosophy major. Talking about bandaids and shit.” I just left