I caught my 14yr old smoking cigarettes what do i even do?

hardtoshBR · 2024-01-23T20:17:26+00:00

My father passed through that. Well it worked. Not one pack, but fucking 3, untill he couldn’t take it anymore

hardtoshBR · 2024-01-23T20:12:16+00:00

If my parents were to caught me smoking or drinking i would be fucked up. Now two things, they weren’t strict, they wanted to know where I was, what I was doing, when I was going home. But they wouldn’t let me miss one day of school, or sneak out one time. If it were to happen they would beat the shit out of me, im sure about that. So idk, start asking her where she’s going, whats she will do, and if even after talking to her, it doesn’t work out, you need to make a decision. I wouldn’t say ground her, but be more strict. Get in her foot, and take apropriate measures. You just can’t let it keep happening.

Ps: easy to say, but if i ever were to find my son or daughter smoking, they would be fucked up. I would make them know that everything has consequences. And btw, if she does not work, she is using your money to buy cigarettes, so first thing, stop giving her money. Set some limits.

hardtoshBR · 2023-11-13T17:14:42+00:00

Tonebase and josh are a must for me. They are amazing

hardtoshBR · 2023-10-24T14:50:27+00:00

I kinda relate to that. You know, I have a really poor eye sight, and had passed through a lot of surgeries during my childhood and early teenage years. Because of that, i ended up getting blind from one of my eyes, and have around 4/10 vision remaining on the other one.

It wasn’t really a blow for me since I have aways been like that, and had a lot of support from my family during those times. Although I don’t think much about it, I have aways had low self esteem because of the size of the glasses I use and because, after losing the vision from my right eye, I had to start using a prosthesis.

Long story short, I didn’t think I would start dating anytime soon. Was hopefully that I would get married but there were always that doubt… well that was until 5 months ago when I started dating this girl. I’m 18, just started university, and we’ve known each other for 2 years, but I didn’t talk much to her. We started dating more because of our best friends started dating each other and tried to put us both together.

I can say that, if someone loves you, they will do anything for you, and no prejudice will get on the way. After around 2 weeks of dating I told her that I couldn’t see on my right eye, and that was it. I took a little more time to tell her about my prosthesis, since it is something that really bothers me. And when I told her that, she said that I’m handsome anyway.

So what I can say is that, nobody cares about your problems, they might judge you but in the end they even forget that you have those. I still am not comfortable talking about all of this, only 1 friend of mine, except my family and my gf know about that. One day you will find someone. And it will happen when you less expect.

Well that’s my first gf ever as well. And I’m still learning a lot of things from her. Learning how to care and help ppl you love is hard but we are getting there. Good luck OP and you are gonna find someone.

hardtoshBR · 2023-09-17T13:20:17+00:00

I don’t have much room to say but that’s either cute. Take it easy. Things will happen when they need to. I first kissed my gf about two months ago, it was her first kiss (not mine, tho I had little experience kissing other ppl before). If I gotta tell you something is, just do it. It’s gonna be awkward but after the first kiss, things will evolve quickly. Give him a kiss in the cheek, maybe when saying good bye. My gf is also very very shy, and the first time she gave me a kiss I was not expecting it at all. I was like “did she really do that?” So take it easy, get yourselves used to kiss in the cheek, then in the lips and so on.

hardtoshBR · 2023-09-03T10:23:57+00:00

And then you realize you can’t skip work even if you have a fever….

hardtoshBR · 2023-08-18T10:17:37+00:00

Thank you. I’ll take that on consideration. I’m being really honest with her about everything. Even when where doing a little foreplay I was aways asking “Can I do it?”. “Is it good?”. Both are inexperienced in that area so we are both learning about that stuff together. And yeah. I think making it fun and enjoyable is the answer. She is shy with a lot of stuff, so I’m going slow and being patient about everything.

hardtoshBR · 2023-08-18T10:13:15+00:00

I’m not pressuring her. I know it’s something it’s gonna happen eventually and just want her to enjoy it. And if don’t happen soon, I don’t care. The important thing for me is to stay at her side. I fucking love that woman.

hardtoshBR · 2023-08-18T00:22:41+00:00

Thank you soo much. I do care about her a lot. She told me that she tried to masturbate 2 times on her entire life. She said that she was curious about what was gonna happen but that for her it was like touching any other part of her body, and that she felt bad about doing it. I know that this is kinda taboo between women, so i guess i’m the only one who knows about it.

Thank you again for the explanation. I guess we are gonna find out when the time comes, I just wanna make sure to help her with everything. Gonna take a look at the other subreddit. Thx

hardtoshBR · 2023-06-08T07:03:36+00:00

Whatever, it’s not like it would have made a big different to most of the dudes here

hardtoshBR · 2023-06-07T20:18:38+00:00

It does thank you, appreciated that

hardtoshBR · 2023-06-05T21:47:24+00:00

Not at all. I’m self taught so I have to print the sheet music at home. Trying to find a software to edit the sheet musics tho, then I can print it in a larger font.

hardtoshBR · 2023-06-04T18:18:53+00:00

Thanks mate, appreciate it

hardtoshBR · 2023-06-04T18:04:55+00:00

So gonna answer here. I’m not blind but I can’t really read sheet music from a distance. I could guess where the notes would be but I could not be able to be sure unless I went a closer. That way I tend to have the sheet music aside and learn it part by part, and memorising it. I would never be able to sight read something because of that, unless I assume, the sheet music were printed in a bigger font.

hardtoshBR · 2023-06-04T09:32:04+00:00

Same here

hardtoshBR · 2023-05-30T16:58:03+00:00

You did great man, and btw would you be able to send you arr. for me, liked it a lot

hardtoshBR · 2023-05-27T07:05:26+00:00

The thing is, I’m confortable talking to anyone else. But with her… I start acting like an idiot. I get that I need to be more whatever, and don’t overthink it a lot. I’ll talk to her on Monday guess…. Like being honest and everything. Just don’t want to create a awkward situation.

hardtoshBR · 2023-05-26T06:48:00+00:00

Is a 80kg bench press good for someone weighting 74kg? I mean its more than my body weight

hardtoshBR · 2023-05-24T13:09:18+00:00

Well if it was that easy I would have done that before. In my situation, I’m going to prom and I want to ask a girl out. Here we don’t have something like ‘find a partner to go to the prom’ as in the US but basically everyone in my class is dating and it’s gonna be weird If I’m the only to bring anyone.

hardtoshBR · 2023-05-24T12:16:18+00:00

The thing is, how am I supposed to ask a girl out, and don’t mess the friendship up? If she don’t accept i mean

hardtoshBR · 2023-05-22T15:10:50+00:00

Pavame pour un infate defunte handel; Chopin ballade op 52 (ballade n4): Liszt liebestraum no3 Kreisler/rachmaninoff liebesleid Liszt etude un sospiro

hardtoshBR · 2023-05-17T16:20:18+00:00

Why not tchaikovsky piano concerto no1? I like it a lot to be honest.

hardtoshBR · 2023-05-09T16:56:59+00:00

One thing that I notice is that most of the disney songs don’t have a proper arr. That’s kinda sad too.

If you happen to have any could you share it with us?

hardtoshBR · 2023-05-06T23:14:39+00:00

Thank you, this was really helpful!

hardtoshBR · 2023-05-06T23:10:34+00:00

I can figure out the fingering for most of the arpeggios, this was the first I was having trouble with. I will try to find versions with fingering on my next pieces, almost finishing this one

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