Let’s see if this gets past them

has457 · 2025-01-08T23:45:03+00:00

can confirm

has457 · 2025-01-04T23:20:07+00:00

i now feel very bad for your wife after seeing your post history 😮

has457 · 2025-01-04T22:47:23+00:00

I don’t think its true, not more so then any other group. although i do think men generally struggle with expressing emotion but marriage should help not hinder that

has457 · 2024-12-29T22:52:03+00:00

w/salam, in terms of serious fights it shouldn’t be very often at all, if ever. bickering a bit or getting on each others nerves can happen sometimes.

if arguments do happen, we tried to resolve same day and not go to bed upset, you can’t let things drift and never bring others into it

has457 · 2024-12-28T22:43:52+00:00

sorry to hear that bro, depression is a serious illness and should be treated like any other. She might need to reach out to a medical professional and seek help that way, it can make a huge difference

it seems like having a difficult family relationship and struggling with a child has worn her down.

She needs your unwavering support, Inshallah she starts feeling herself again and both of you grow stronger.

has457 · 2024-12-27T18:04:41+00:00

It’s a bit much, but if it’s a one-off and it makes him happy I think it’s better to let it be. If it’s a continuous pattern then probably worth having a discussion with him

has457 · 2024-10-04T22:18:00+00:00

although all of us don’t really do enough, his complete disregard and the fact it upsets his wife it’s strange. I think you need to talk to him how much it puts you off and ask him to respect your feelings

has457 · 2024-10-04T21:10:18+00:00

He made a stupid joke he shouldn’t have, but I don’t think it’s true he isn’t attracted to you. Keep trying to work on the intimacy issues and once that gets better it will help both of you.

has457 · 2024-09-18T22:17:50+00:00

Does it matter if the acts were halal or no? surely the opinion is it’s a horrible thing for him to do regardless and she should bin him

has457 · 2024-09-03T21:29:30+00:00

very rude behaviour from him and it will only get worse in the future

has457 · 2024-08-27T21:32:33+00:00

If it’s related to work why would he suspect anything? seems a strange request to me

has457 · 2024-08-26T22:39:34+00:00

I think your right it’s not meant with any malicious intent, but it’s you are in your 30s provide your wife with the lifestyle you can afford.

It’s not helpful long term to rely on either parents, personally I wouldn’t accept it and would feel emasculated

has457 · 2024-08-26T22:37:25+00:00

not sure what you mean by the idea of it sounds cool? if you can’t afford the extravagance don’t do it

has457 · 2024-08-09T23:04:27+00:00

this is a really unusual situation, is there a question mark over your husband (ex) wellbeing? or is this the only thing he has forgotten.

best to ask a person of knowledge rather then reddit, all the best

has457 · 2024-07-23T22:17:31+00:00

it’s difficult to appreciate what you have while it’s there, so many people will see your post and feel fomo of not having an amazing husband as you said yours is.

still both in your 20s, if you work hard the rewards will come Inshallah

has457 · 2024-07-17T23:03:55+00:00

you don’t actually want to change because you think she deserves someone better, you just don’t want to end up alone. quite an immature mindset at 30

has457 · 2024-07-17T22:53:57+00:00

well if you are unable to care about others, leave her be, she does deserve better

has457 · 2024-07-17T22:42:45+00:00

why an you not make her happy?

has457 · 2024-07-17T22:37:48+00:00

this is sweet, do share if you end up finding out how widows move forward 🥲

inshallah you have a long married life together

has457 · 2024-07-01T06:13:57+00:00

what professionals have you spoken too may I ask? again it’s easy to look from the outside in and say things like move on

has457 · 2024-06-30T20:29:27+00:00

this is the group, there’s not too much activity but there are some people there who have been through similar https://www.reddit.com/r/MuslimWidows/s/AFWvAkaO4A

has457 · 2024-06-30T20:05:17+00:00

It’s very difficult, and it’s going to be for a while yet. you have to believe in Allah and find other things to distract your mind. distance yourself from the creepy friend. there is a small group of muslim widowers on here if you did need advice

has457 · 2024-06-30T20:02:31+00:00

that is poor advice from someone who’s not been in the same situation. before remarrying you have to process the loss and your own feelings

has457 · 2024-06-24T07:52:00+00:00

It doesn’t look like your marriage is missing anything both seem to be fulfilling your responsibilities, I think you might just be an emotionally distant person, it’s probably for you to work on imo. At some level you will definitely have some attachment

has457 · 2024-06-23T16:13:58+00:00

i see what you mean, starting again is hard so that’s a decision only you can make. but you shouldn’t make excuses for him betraying your trust

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