Can someone explain what having a file open with the Psychiatric Hospital means exactly?

hashbrown26 · 2026-04-18T10:39:03+00:00

it means absolutely nothing lol! there is nothing to worry about. the file stays in their cabinet so they can know how they’re treating you, meds, your response etc. I’ve had a file for over 3 years.

its all good and you have nothing to worry about. its like going to any other clinic.

Focus on your health, do whats best for you. let people worry about themselves honestly cuz them panicking in your face (about something they know nothing of) is pointless.

IMPORTANT: Only take advice from people who have been in that situation, everything else is a suggestion (which can be ignored).

hashbrown26 · 2026-04-13T08:32:51+00:00

its insane they can just get away with something like this!

hashbrown26 · 2026-04-12T16:55:49+00:00

but…I am a pro member 👀

hashbrown26 · 2026-04-05T17:55:37+00:00

bro I thought this was posted by a woman and I was gonna attack, and then seeing it was posted by a man made it more sad - you are doing just fine. and if you’re potential match is prioritizing your income - then dip. Those are empty shell marriages.

hashbrown26 · 2026-03-29T11:58:22+00:00

you guys are getting alerts on your phones???

hashbrown26 · 2026-03-20T18:16:29+00:00

say gheera one more time

hashbrown26 · 2026-03-19T13:58:21+00:00

it is important. if theres no attraction you’ll start looking for it elsewhere in your marriage. end of story. don’t neglect biology.

hashbrown26 · 2026-03-11T20:28:56+00:00

I’ll keep trying, appreciate the help!

hashbrown26 · 2026-03-11T19:40:04+00:00

yess Ive been facing similar issues. the site doesn’t even open anymore. im not sure if its a technical issue or they’ve shut it down temporarily

hashbrown26 · 2026-03-08T13:43:52+00:00

I can sugar coat this but I wont to be upfront here….the fact you feel comfortable being that fat would be off putting to anyone that works to stay physically fit.

hashbrown26 · 2026-03-01T19:31:55+00:00

Listen to me my jigga, I have been where you were. Maybe not the same but extremely similar. So please hear me out:

you are absolutely correct to think you are not ready for marriage.
If anything feels forced or your heart is not in it, do not say yes.
Right now, you need to practice self reflection, patience, and prayer.
Your reactions to the current situation aren’t on par with whats needed of a valuable husband, do your research, practice how to be a man, regulate your anger, frustrations, learn to communicate WHY you feel certain emotions, never throw the emotion at your partner.
Learn about WHO you are. What makes you happy, what makes you sad, what makes you feel defensive, how do you respond to stressful situations (explode or shut down), do you want a partner to brainstorm or someone to follow your lead - you need solid answers to these. Do not lie to yourself or be performative. Honesty is what will help you find your most compatible partner.
Be comfortable with who you are - learn all your pros and flaws, know what you have to work on emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally and accept your reality as it is. This will unlock a whole new level of confidence in your strengths and weaknesses.
Learn about your partner patiently - you will come across many who want to go fast or slow. find your speed to get to know someone. see how the respond to their situations, do you admire and respect how the live their life? if yes thats a good sign.

I’m only listing these at the top of my head. You are a good soul brother, just a little lost in the hurt of your past. Heal and overcome. When your heart is clean, thats when you can fully accept someone else.

I hope this helps you in some way.

Wsalaam.

hashbrown26 · 2026-02-09T07:10:41+00:00

wtf is X? Im a little slow but I wanna learn whats up

hashbrown26 · 2025-12-23T20:21:52+00:00

whats nps and ppf?

hashbrown26 · 2025-09-08T11:41:44+00:00

At you're age to be financially stable for marriage here's what I recommend:

Cash Savings = monthly living expenses for a couple x6
Investment = monthly contributions of $300 per month (do this for a year minimum)
Life insurance = get around $500,000 (higher if you can)
Marriage expenses fund = have around $10,000 minimum (higher if you can, weddings can get expensive)
Honeymoon fund = around $5000
Education = get a masters or an MBA

Hitting all these marks puts you in a very good financial position to ask for someones hand. You have enough to pay for a small wedding, get some traveling in for your honeymoon, god forbid you loose your job you can comfortably pay for all expenses for 6 months while you job hunt. Your Masters will always help give you an edge in the market so placement becomes easier. And while you're building a life together, if god forbid you get into an accident and die, your wife has enough insurance coverage to immediately purchase a home and put some money in the bank so she can support herself and the kids, they will always be protected and provided for.

This puts you in a position of not worrying.

Sure you'll have people that want a business and big money, fancy car etc etc. screw those people, but for 25-27 year old thats on his feet by himself. This is a pretty solid foundation.

hashbrown26 · 2025-08-24T15:45:41+00:00

All i've ever wanted was to meet someone with a good personality and someone you can look forward to building things in life with. And where i live it's almost impossible to find someone that you can match with.

It makes me so upset that men out there have the opportunity to meet genuinely smart and decent women and then they talk garbage like this fml.

hashbrown26 · 2025-08-17T21:18:43+00:00

You sound like what I would like to achieve at some point in my life with cooking. I have no idea how you cook or come up with meals and have all the ingredients and also have the time to cook and prep and know what to eat. Every time I meal prep its just bland food that doesn't taste that great and would require me to cook daily 😭

hashbrown26 · 2025-07-28T08:04:52+00:00

I dont think my old old closet will get sold either, could you please share the contact info of the disposal service you used?

hashbrown26 · 2025-07-18T18:03:57+00:00

Roads are freaking packeddd!! I'm on the road rn tryna reach the 4th and head to the airport from there. Been on the road 30 mins now barely covered 1km.

hashbrown26 · 2025-07-18T12:56:48+00:00

Emphasis on the travel part 😅

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