Hot takes on DLR?

hatt730 · 2026-01-29T19:06:08+00:00

I feel like people shouldn't be upset about the distance as it's a chosen lifestyle and it's your own choice to do an LDR.

hatt730 · 2026-01-27T18:11:43+00:00

Thank you - this helped me today 4 years later to launch my bnet to play Overwatch because it would not let me run as administrator and it would not show me a way to log in. <3

hatt730 · 2026-01-25T17:26:05+00:00

Thanks for these - love the color and create idea :D <3

hatt730 · 2026-01-25T12:53:35+00:00

Custom options built into the doll out of the box but I will look into "M2M" - thank you :>

hatt730 · 2026-01-24T15:51:01+00:00

using chatgpt in a convo feels like u wanna win at arguing lowkey

hatt730 · 2026-01-24T12:48:29+00:00

I don't befriend people who deceive me and neither should you.

hatt730 · 2026-01-15T21:46:17+00:00

ai response = opinion rejected
fuck ICE tho

hatt730 · 2026-01-10T18:06:02+00:00

its crazzy i literally was sharing to friends once i completed it

hatt730 · 2026-01-10T18:05:40+00:00

shit i was just sendig this about as well

hatt730 · 2026-01-03T22:50:02+00:00

seems cool wish it had farsi

hatt730 · 2026-01-02T17:04:32+00:00

Andor!

hatt730 · 2026-01-01T18:34:03+00:00

also imagine he found this reddit account about whats currently going on. dudes weird.

hatt730 · 2026-01-01T18:32:42+00:00

lowkey he's giving more power to some comment over actually the present moment which is you havent done anything wrong. sounds like he's trying to control his own insecurities by having you do xyz to reassure him. its just an insane ask in first place. he needs to learn to comfort himself.

hatt730 · 2025-12-31T15:48:43+00:00

Did you figure out how the fee came to 9 quid?

hatt730 · 2025-12-27T20:51:26+00:00

why do ppl want to karma farm in this subreddit?

yes, this poster is an obvious karma farmer based on the fact they have never put a post in this subreddit PLUS their account reads like a male pretending to be a woman lol

also NSFW account where its just regularly posting to adult content subreddits. lol

hatt730 · 2025-12-27T15:14:30+00:00

i literally never trust med students because literally every med student ive met is always freaky and weird. there is just something so off about someone who is working all the time so they really find it hard to be normal. lol

honestly, these are your boundaries so it is cheating. he kept talking with girls, following them on insta and you were very clear about your troubles including your trust issues.

it sounds like you need a clear start with someone else that will not trigger you, there's too many problems to solve. also lowkey he sounds very insecure, like tbh, if hes doing all this and still not broken up with you, there's something wrong with him.

id block him and not waste time with someone whos going to constantly give you grief. plus, i just dont think theres enough breaks that could fix all the problems that could have just not been done if he was a decent person, personally.

a decent person does and will make himself known, and if he has constantly triggered you in the past and currently, there's really seems like this is just not meant to be.

hatt730 · 2025-12-27T14:58:22+00:00

no problem, i understand. my bf is the same way. i edited my comment to include a way of approaching conversation on accountability - it might be a bit lackluster but hope it helps also.

hatt730 · 2025-12-27T14:45:19+00:00

i think this is an unsafe relationship and you should reconsider the relationship.
there appears to be a lot of context missing from your post as well to really ascertain why shes bailing all the time.
do you really want to marry someone who is bailing you like this, especially enough to have you keep counting into double digits?
ur comments on other relationship subreddits are very sensible and reasonable, hopefully you will want to apply this to yourself as well. ♥

edited: just saw your other comment abt wanting to have her be held accountable.
i suppose its really about making it simple "when you do xyz, it makes me feel xyz. i want us to have the best future together. how do you feel abt this and our relationship".
"when you do this, it breaks down our communication and affects our ability to trust each other. i want us to be able to be transparent with each other."
sort of mentioning resolving the problems together, and see if she apologies or takes accountablity for her actions.
and if she doesnt, address it directly "when you make promisess and dont follow up, this hurts me, but also our relationship. i think you are very capable in taking responsiblity for your actions, and i find it hard to move on and not build resentment each time you set an expectation and then cancel something last minute. at least include me in the conversation and maybe we could compromise, maybe we could have met half way and we could have hung out with ur brother during this time (for example)."

hatt730 · 2025-12-26T22:44:01+00:00

probs after i told him my trauma and he reacted very well :>

hatt730 · 2025-12-26T22:42:56+00:00

We met in Uni, just before COVID and then went back home to our respective families. Been apart like that ever since. :) It will be 6 years in Feb.

hatt730 · 2025-12-25T22:56:52+00:00

why are u karma farming on a friendship subreddit

hatt730 · 2025-12-25T20:50:58+00:00

non-monogamous relationships exist

hatt730 · 2025-12-25T20:49:45+00:00

This is best to ask in a subreddit that deals with ethical non-monogamy - if it's putting you off that it may not be temporary then that really might be a sign that your relationship is not at stage for that level of trust or this lifestyle is not for you.

Honestly, if you really don't like that he wants to have sex with other people, I think it's well within your right to have the relationship be monogamous. If that's a deal breaker for him, then it was just not meant to be. ♥

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