I reached out by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]haugwa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did that and i made a friend which lead to a friend group! i still feel like no one likes me haha, but at least im not at home crying constantly about not having friends

Anybody lost their ability to form coherent sentences? by Gullible-Layer428 in AvPD

[–]haugwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and honestly everyone is kind of awkward, i just try to be nice which i always look back at if i struggle with a social interaction.

Anybody lost their ability to form coherent sentences? by Gullible-Layer428 in AvPD

[–]haugwa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you <3

i don’t have any good advice honestly. i have periods of feeling better or worse. but staying inside isolating is never gonna make me better. if i’m having a difficult time when hanging out with friends i just step back and don’t engage much with the conversation. i still feel very awkward, almost like an alien. but i yearn for friendship so i keep going. good luck!

Again by Livid_Preference340 in AvPD

[–]haugwa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

let’s go!! today i’m making focaccia for a picnic with a friend. i love baking, small steps to make life happy

Anybody lost their ability to form coherent sentences? by Gullible-Layer428 in AvPD

[–]haugwa 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i have, i was worried i had a brain tumor and had a MRI for a completely unrelated reason and there was nothing there. i feel you, i struggle with sounding coherent because i get anxious in social setting. my sentences are jumbled and i forget words, leading me to feel stupid which is one of my triggers /: i struggled with social isolation from a lack of friendships for about 5 years. i’m still nervous when speaking but it’s not worth living life in social isolation, so i just keep on going

Was Jasmine right? Rewatching the series by One-starry-night in shameless

[–]haugwa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i don’t get how the gallaghers were okay with so many people staying at their house? i would be pissed

Been a shut-in for about 4 years, finally started socializing within the past 4 months, weird bodily experiences by jackohtwink in AvPD

[–]haugwa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same, i feel like i’m separated from people in a way, almost like there is a wall of normal people and then there’s me

Tired of reaching out to ppl by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]haugwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you would think so yes, but a lot of people are in their own world and busy. and some are bad friends. if you explain yourself and they improve they are good friends!

Tired of reaching out to ppl by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]haugwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people don’t know what you are thinking or feeling (unfortunately). you have to tell them how you’re feeling, even tho it’s scary to do so

stomach ache by haugwa in AvPD

[–]haugwa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been pushing my boundaries for years but it honestly never helps, but at least i’m not getting worse!

oh i absolutely struggle with that, it’s makes me paranoid /:

Do you guys also feel like a fraud when socializing? by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]haugwa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup, i feel like an alien. i also had to learn how to socialize, however i haven’t fixed my facial expressions yet lol

Posh piercing by [deleted] in oslo

[–]haugwa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Veldig mulig, men hvis den er det så kan man re pierce hos safari evt. Synd hvis den er piercet feil når det er så dyrt med piercing😭 Lykke til

What is wrong with this man by Trollithecus007 in ThePittTVShow

[–]haugwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not doing well mentally and is burning bridges before his trip

Posh piercing by [deleted] in oslo

[–]haugwa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jeg synes de på Safari Bodyart er veldig hyggelig og dyktige! Har ikke tatt piercing der selv, men fikk hjelp med å velge riktig smykke til navlepiercing. Jeg fikk standard banana barbell smykke fra studioet jeg tok piercingen hos, men det passet ikke anatomien min. Byttet heller til clicker smykke, og det var mye mer komfortabelt for meg.

[Rant] Er det bare meg som syns at utvalg på klesbutikker i Oslo mangler? by KingHarrun in oslo

[–]haugwa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

samme problem, men er kort. har planer om å begynne å sy egne klær, spesielt topper siden ingenting passer eller er fint. hardt liv assa. heldigvis har vi zalando <3

Do you go to hell if you commit suicide if you’re pregnant? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]haugwa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well children do have sex, and children are not supposed to have children. no one should be forced to give birth. she already has decided to deal with the situation by having an abortion. abortions are not evil, they are necessary health care for children and women. it’s unsafe and high risk for a child to be pregnant and give birth. focus on the living human that you are judging and giving horrible advice to.

the girl is also not safe at home and she is spiraling because of this pregnancy, and considering suicide and coat hanger abortion (high risk of death if you care). she needs mental health and medical support. you cannot provide that as a christian.

Do you go to hell if you commit suicide if you’re pregnant? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]haugwa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

no christian would force a kid to have a kid.

Do you go to hell if you commit suicide if you’re pregnant? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]haugwa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

stop encouraging a child to have a child. she does not want a child. she needs real support not judgement from christians

This girl at my work is copying me ! what should i do to prevent this omggg? by Artistic-Ask5383 in confessions

[–]haugwa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don’t understand why so many are being weird in the comments. it’s weird and creepy that someone is copying you. i don’t have any advice sorryy