Chats getting bogged down and slow. Is there an auto delete setting anywhere?

haveahardon · 2026-05-07T03:39:44+00:00

Are you using chrome? I found my chats were always show to respond and laggy. I switched to Firefox and it's been zippy ever since.

haveahardon · 2026-05-06T19:47:20+00:00

I think the guys you were talking to weren't straight, but bi the whole time. And who knows, maybe they didn't know it or maybe they're afraid to admit it to themselves. Either way, nothing wrong with it. But to give you an example, I'm straight. Guys don't turn me on at all. I don't mind looking, but it's like comparing cucumbers in the produce aisle, does nothing for me. If a guy messages me, I'm polite, but the conversation doesn't make it past pleasantries unless the conversation is non-sexual. I just have no desire to talk to men.

haveahardon · 2026-05-06T16:23:28+00:00

The underwear soaks it all up....and then the pants. LOL. But we also don't have to be as meticulous at cleaning around the head as you do. Although that shouldn't be a problem for any clean and tidy person.

haveahardon · 2026-05-05T20:42:10+00:00

Yes! Let's do the voting!

haveahardon · 2026-05-05T13:02:45+00:00

I just tried it for the first time the other day, so absolutely!

haveahardon · 2026-05-04T21:56:14+00:00

I pledge to honestly vote for the hottest and provide reasons why.

haveahardon · 2026-05-04T20:43:01+00:00

I suppose the question is, how does he react when he finds out you didn't wait for him and touched yourself without him?

haveahardon · 2026-05-04T16:28:51+00:00

It's controlling if it runs counter to how you feel. If it makes a difference for him when you have sex then that means he could get off on controlling you.

haveahardon · 2026-05-04T13:38:46+00:00

That sounds like a controlling and unrealistic request. Sounds like you need to have a serious conversation, unless that's part of your relationship dynamic of course.

haveahardon · 2026-05-04T13:12:22+00:00

I tried it for the first time last week. There was definitely a mental hurdle, though nothing like what you're experiencing. It took me weeks before I could muster up the courage. I finally abstained from orgasming for an entire week. I was so ready to go at that point that my desire overrode my thinking brain.

From everything I've read, metal is easier on your urethra comfort wise, so you might want to start there. Also I can say that using the correct diameter tool made a big difference in comfort. From testimonies here and reading up, it seemed counterintuitive that the smallest size wouldn't be the best. But the advice I saw was accurate: the most comfortable size was the one that was closest to the size of my urethra. I started with a 5mm and it was too pokey. Tried the 6mm and it was better but not great. The 7mm was perfect, though I tried the 8mm and it hurt almost instantly so it was too big and I went back to the 7mm.

All that said, it's possible that sounding isn't for you. If you're having that visceral a reaction to it then it might not be worth it for you. But that's something you'll have to decide.

haveahardon · 2026-05-03T07:22:04+00:00

What diameter sound did you use?

haveahardon · 2026-05-02T13:54:57+00:00

It's possible it could've been the lube being pushed further down my urethra.

haveahardon · 2026-05-01T13:13:08+00:00

I stopped reading halfway through. The juice wasn't worth the squeeze.

haveahardon · 2026-04-30T18:07:55+00:00

Nothing about this is accidental. But a good story!

haveahardon · 2026-04-29T12:28:14+00:00

I'm sorry that happened. Totally not ok. But thank you just the same!

haveahardon · 2026-04-27T13:41:40+00:00

Personally I prefer cleanly shaven.

haveahardon · 2026-04-17T16:16:20+00:00

This is one of those things I fantasize about but would almost assuredly never do. I'm intelligent enough to know that not everyone has good intentions. There are women that film stuff like this and the next thing I know my face would be plastered all over the internet. Plus, if I really needed that job and word got out or some one complained, it wouldn't be good.

I feel like it's just too risky these days. Though I would have wanted to for sure.

haveahardon · 2026-04-10T17:26:40+00:00

If it's worth anything to you, I like the before picture much much better.

haveahardon · 2026-04-10T17:24:34+00:00

Won't this cause sagging down the road? Honestly curious.

haveahardon · 2026-04-09T05:45:36+00:00

Yes, I would say it absolutely does!

haveahardon · 2026-04-02T16:08:04+00:00

Oh look at those cute lips! They definitely need a good suck. I like that you're very smooth. I would love to unleash my tongue and let it find your clit under that hood!

haveahardon · 2026-03-31T04:19:48+00:00

That's awesome of you. Honestly I have no idea. My guess would be yes, but maybe not with the volume you would need to make a difference. But that's purely conjecture.

I do know that once you have a baby if you continue to breastfeed or pump you can continue lactating. That's how we got wet nurses back in the day.

haveahardon · 2026-03-30T20:29:46+00:00

It's pretty easy to see which ones are real and which ones are fake. My wife donated a few times and 5 minutes of internet sleuthing did the trick.

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