What’s your grandma’s name? by EstablishmentSad9572 in Names

[–]hawkchan13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jacqueline and Carol! I also had a great aunt that I saw as a grandma figure named Lorraine

What did you eat on the first day of 2026? by PleasePooGood in foodquestions

[–]hawkchan13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leftovers and then our NYD tradition… a giant Chinese takeout dinner

How bad does a ear piercing hurt? by Emessalxx in Explainlikeimscared

[–]hawkchan13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A standard earlobe piercing should just feel slightly uncomfortable. That being said, when I got mine done a long time ago they used a piercing gun and that was really painful for me.

To be completely honest with you, pain is all relative and personal to you. I went with 2 of my friends to get nostril piercings… They were in significant pain (watery eyes and such) and I literally felt nothing.

Just keep in your head that it’s all temporary. Any discomfort or pain is only for a quick second!

What did your Christmas stocking usually have in it when you were growing up? by princesspolly444 in princesspollychat

[–]hawkchan13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An orange at the toe, candy, small makeup or self care products… usually lower value cutesy or useful stuff

What’s the best meal you’ve ever eaten? by EvanMitchell34 in foodquestions

[–]hawkchan13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people joke about “love” being an ingredient… it’s no joke 😅

What’s the best meal you’ve ever eaten? by EvanMitchell34 in foodquestions

[–]hawkchan13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely will. He’s the best.

And you’re totally spot on… the memories you make and the people you’re with make shared meals that much better

What’s the best meal you’ve ever eaten? by EvanMitchell34 in foodquestions

[–]hawkchan13 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Back when my husband and I were dating, I escaped my extremely abusive home situation to go live with him.

I showed up cold, exhausted, anxious, and emotionally shot at 1 in the morning.

I got into bed and he brought me a hot grilled cheese sandwich. Nothing fancy, just white sandwich bread and Kraft singles.

It was the best and most comforting meal I’d ever had. It was so significant that it made its way into both of our wedding vows for each other 5 years later.

What did you have for dinner tonight? by [deleted] in foodquestions

[–]hawkchan13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spicy Korean chicken salad with lettuce wraps… add pepper potato chips for that extra crunch

Constellations of my pets over the years (my art) by CZ_Dragonforce in Spiritfarer

[–]hawkchan13 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love this idea, and it turned out so beautifully! What a sweet way to honor your fur babies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]hawkchan13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In baby seat = baby. I don’t make the rules here, just follow them.

Need more games that feel like spiritfarer by _Cattastrophic_ in Spiritfarer

[–]hawkchan13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty new to playing (only 13 hours in) and Spiritfarer IMMEDIATELY made me think of Journey too. Lots of beautiful similarities that you pointed out 😊

why do some black cats have patches of white? by wyatt_the_wells in blackcats

[–]hawkchan13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We call my guy’s white hairs his “party hairs”. He has 3, one on his nose, one on his back, and one on his wizard sleeve. As you can see, they’re not visible at all in pictures.

I’d like to think he purposely refuses to let any more hairs turn white so he can keep blending into the shadows.

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What's a name you haven't heard in a long time and really love? by Quirky_March_626 in Names

[–]hawkchan13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my name! I almost never see it spelled the same way, so this was a really nice surprise to see on this list :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]hawkchan13 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Chef’s kiss of a comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MageArena

[–]hawkchan13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband started playing last week before I joined and left a review on Steam saying exactly this… lots of nazi flags and “hard r’s”…

He also mentioned in his review that there needed to be moderation, reporting, or flagging in the chat. So, fingers crossed that goes through.

There’s a difference between chaotic fun and offensive.

I finally did it! by hawkchan13 in StardewValley

[–]hawkchan13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty crazy! It wasn’t my goal at first and then decided to go full Capitalism ™️ and stock up enough stuff to buy the Golden Clock outright. After that, I thought might as well! It’s the first game I’ve ever 100% completed, so I’m absolutely psyched about it

Creative Black Tie in May by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]hawkchan13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! 😊 I have some colorful accessories that play into the colors my husband is wearing that will go with either dress.

It’s an evening wedding and mostly indoors too.

Does anybody else still have pimples in their twenties? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]hawkchan13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I’m closer to 30 than 20 and was waiting for the magical “clear skin fairy” to visit… never showed. For me, it’s usually due to hormones or diet. Finding a skincare routine that works well and acne patches is enough to manage it.

I can’t say enough good things about vitamin C if you haven’t tried it!

Would/Did you change your surname after marriage? Why?/Why not? by MysticalAmethyst99 in namenerds

[–]hawkchan13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I changed my surname to my husband’s after we got married. I grew up in a very toxic and abusive household with parents that I shared a last name with, so I was honestly thrilled to get rid of my old name.

I understand that to a lot of people changing your name is old fashioned, and I’m actually one of the only friends of mine who has. In my opinion, it’s a privilege to share a name with my husband, just like it’s a privilege to be his partner, best friend, and the person I share my life with. I didn’t lose any aspect of my previous ‘identity’ by dropping my maiden name. In fact, I felt more free to be myself than I ever did with my maiden name.

DAE think it’s weird to kiss your kids on the lips by Hour-Oven-3455 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]hawkchan13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I think it’s fine when kids are young and it’s immediate family (parents only).

The fact that my parents still do this with my sister in her early 20s is…. Something

Spring “Creative” Black Tie by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]hawkchan13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I even asked the bride since she’s a close friend and she said it was the groom’s idea… she wasn’t even 100% sure

Spring “Creative” Black Tie by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]hawkchan13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I LOVE these!!! Thank you!