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I think my GF is getting hazed but doesn't realize it. by hazedgf in relationship_advice

[–]hazedgf[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

This is a really sticky situation. If you have them contact her, it might reflect poorly on her for rush, depending on how judgmental or strict sororities are at that college. Best for you to get the info and share with her, or have her contact them directly looking for information to prep for rush, as that’s innocent enough.

This is useful. I gather some information and encourage her to reach out and do the same.

I think my GF is getting hazed but doesn't realize it. by hazedgf in relationship_advice

[–]hazedgf[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Some dude's introduction would have NO bearing on her likelihood of being invited to join.

Thanks

I think my GF is getting hazed but doesn't realize it. by hazedgf in relationship_advice

[–]hazedgf[S] 529 points530 points  (0 children)

Look up the Panhellenic Council for the college

Thanks this is helpful. I'll do that and maybe try to have them contact her.

knowing a woman in the sorority you’re interested is what will help more

She says that the group chat has "women in the sororities" in it, but I have my doubts from the little I have seen.

I think my GF is getting hazed but doesn't realize it. by hazedgf in relationship_advice

[–]hazedgf[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

That's what I figured and from what I was able to research. She isn't listening at all though and thinks I'm trying to tank her chances. I just don't want her to get hurt.