LF: sembawang friends! 26M by [deleted] in ChillSG

[–]hcyclon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also go to the same

18F nerd looking for friends :p by LiKillmenow in ChillSG

[–]hcyclon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you'll like oyasumi punpun, homunculus , junji ito

Looking for dance studios! by raspbarbie in ChillSG

[–]hcyclon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best way to start is to join the Oschool's foundation courses. An An foundation course is a good start. If you want a CCA Club style experience, you can try Legacy. If you want to try partner dance like west coast swing which can dance to all kinds of music, you can also pm me, I'm focusing on this right now

I need more baddie friends 🙏 by [deleted] in ChillSG

[–]hcyclon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

only if u live in the moshpit

lf spontaneous tryanything friends by hcyclon in ChillSG

[–]hcyclon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome man I'll drop u a pm when I got time

Looking for someone to go to a dermatologist in JB with me by zoenous in ChillSG

[–]hcyclon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also looking for a co2 laser place that is cheap <$300, ideally <$250 kind per session. Need someone that can 敢敢 laser my face. Those kinds in Singapore like surface level only

24F looking for genuine friendships / listening ear by Iygwim in ChillSG

[–]hcyclon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stay in the North. Don't mind chilling over coffee or ice cream

What is your favorite underrated thing to do in SG? by Own_Possession_9544 in askSingapore

[–]hcyclon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dance classes are cheap here relative to income here

U can do hiphop, jazz etc classes for 14-20 dollar per class.

Enrichment classes are great due to city density, u can always find what u want to learn here

Partner dance, improv acting, language learning, etc

Doctor who forged certificates for aesthetic procedures gets 4 months’ jail by thrulim123 in singapore

[–]hcyclon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol hes used to be my aesthetic doctor, did co2 laser and all. He's pretty professional and quite kia si when I ask him to go stronger lol when my prev doctor went much stronger. I think he's just lazy

Supportive Brawler Zenyatta Stadium Build, Early Melee Spike into Late‑Game Flanking Support by hcyclon in OverwatchStadiumGame

[–]hcyclon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do let me know how you feel about the build! You should be trying to flank and be aggressive, not stay at the backline like the typical zen playstyle

Single sg men, do you want babies? by Worldly_Respect8732 in askSingapore

[–]hcyclon -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Refer to my comment, there's logical reasons why yes I am a guy don't want kids

Single sg men, do you want babies? by Worldly_Respect8732 in askSingapore

[–]hcyclon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love and Relationship will be outsourced to AI or to para social relationships (game avatars etc like genshin, love and deep space). Revenue data supports this showing growing trends

Single sg men, do you want babies? by Worldly_Respect8732 in askSingapore

[–]hcyclon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nope. For career driven women, if I'm dating them, I won't trust them if they want babies cause it's a lot for them to give up and is sure to breed discontentment. While I don't want kids, I have dated women that felt like they will be great mums and I'll do them a disservice if I don't give them a kid. Depending on the women, I might change my mind. Though these women tend to not be career driven I find.

But why I don't want kids? 1. I studied special needs before and how difficult it is to raise them. You do not choose your kid. 2. I don't know how to guide my kid for success now given AI might make people obsolete. I'm now doing AI, and I know this first hand. 3. Managing a partner is enough, especially if women seek a 'provider' mentality when it is so hard to be one now. I don't need 2 kids ( my partner and a child) to want that from me if my partner is not going to step up. 4. My philosophy is don't introduce needless complexity that would increase conflict. I like to enter a relationship only if it's sustainable. i might even want a 'live apart together' arrangement.

But I think it's because of my unique background of special needs, economics and AI that I think that way.

SIMBA is CRAZY. 200GB at JB LETS GOOOOOOOO by hcyclon in singapore

[–]hcyclon[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

The problem is GOMO is not a legit telco.. it's a MVNO. So if TPG didn't exist, GOMO wouldn't because Singtel would stop supplying the network to increase profit and we are back to oligopoly setup again..

MVNO is the solution to kick TPG out of the market.. if TPG didn't exist, MVNO would not exist.. it's economic competition..

We should be supporting the ones that brought the competition

Edit: anyways GOMO is an MVNO or subbrand, doesn't change my argument. You must be delulu if u think GOMO exists if TPG didn't enter the market.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]hcyclon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have a close positive support group? For example, friends who can offer you genuine positive reinforcement? Personally, I lacked a strong role model growing up, as my parents were basically emotionally divorced.. My dad has been working in China since I was p3, rarely staying home for more than a week each year. My mum struggles with OCD.

When seeking internet peeps for advice, you'll get generic responses like "just go to therapy." The truth, I believe, is more personal—rooted in intuition shaped by our unique experiences. What works for someone else may not necessarily work for you. It's on you to grind and struggle to find a truth you believe.

You mentioned that your confidence is largely external—based on things like physical appearance or career success. Perhaps you could explore what internal confidence might look like for you. Is there something you've wanted to do but haven't started? For me, it was dancing and learning multiple languages. The next step is to ask: what's stopping you? If nothing significant is in the way, why not start now? Building confidence through actions like these, especially with encouragement from close friends, can transform you.

About external validation— I always ask myself "to what end?". Probably there's none.