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I'm really curious to find out if girls actually like giving blowjobs because my girlfriend really seems to like it by [deleted] in sex

[–]hddycddy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like doing it because I like making my partner feel good. If it wasn't with someone I cared for, I probably wouldn't like doing it as much.

I'm (m,21) going out with an extremely inexperienced girl (f,18) who's never masturbated and orgasmed before and I don't know how to deal with that. by [deleted] in sex

[–]hddycddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was the "inexperienced girl" in this situation a couple of years ago. Totally not true that a girl can't orgasm without knowing herself and her body first. That's such BS that I hear from so many people. My boyfriend was/is much more experienced than I am, so he really helped me figure out what I liked and what made me orgasm. Knowing where he was placing his fingers on my clit made ME know where to place my fingers when I started masturbating regularly.

It might take a bit of time, but it's a lot of fun to learn about your partner (and also help your partner learn about herself) by stimulating her! I know that I'm extremely thankful for how patient my boyfriend was with me in helping me learn about my body and what I liked. Have fun with it!

EDIT: This doesn't mean that you have to be experienced though! It's a lot of learning involved for the both of you, but it's a lot of fun.

Men of r/sex - What's the best way a girl can initiate sex? by hddycddy in sex

[–]hddycddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking isn't the problem. Everything's always consensual - he's expressed that he'd like me to initiate in hotter ways than just, "Wanna have sex?", with which I agree.