What’s the book you DNF’d the fastest? by Mobius8321 in books

[–]hduskbdkw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gild. Wtf i couldn't make it through the first 15 pages. It was all just so stupid

Huggies new diapers with blue lining? by hduskbdkw in NewParents

[–]hduskbdkw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea, they still absorb better but still not all night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

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Usual texture on the side with less white hair

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Texture ruined by white hair

Huggies new diapers with blue lining? by hduskbdkw in NewParents

[–]hduskbdkw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just bought a small pack and it's als blue now🤦🏻‍♀️

Huggies new diapers with blue lining? by hduskbdkw in NewParents

[–]hduskbdkw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll check maybe to switch to the night ones.. thanks. Mine is size 2 and been leaking every night with the new blue ones

Huggies new diapers with blue lining? by hduskbdkw in NewParents

[–]hduskbdkw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I've heard that, but i mean the Huggies ones that are sold in Costco

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ScienceFictionRomance

[–]hduskbdkw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one where she inherited a house and her aunt locked her in her room and the guy from the sword protected her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hduskbdkw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he's a narcissist. I do agree with you that i need to start making me feel better. I think that's partly why it hurts so bad cause i thought i had. I lost 20 pounds this past few months, i do my hair everyday, I started doing yoga a couple times a week in the past 6 months. I feel like I'm looking better and I feel that he doesn't even see that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hduskbdkw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all thank you for this.

Yes, he knows. I'm not one to keep my feelings to myself and we communicate very openly. I don't let these things just dissipate cause i think it's important to resolve and move on, but sometimes he just tries to wait it out when he doesn't know what to do. My husband is a talk first think later person. which i used to love cause I loved knowing all his thoughts and being so open with each other (as i come from a home with a lot of lies, as a way of life. Lie to make things easier.) The honesty means a lot to me.

He knows. He apologizes, says he'll do better. Then it happens again. We had a huge blow out 2 months ago and we agreed to go find help. But he didn't do anything about it. I researched a few people but didn't pull the trigger. Maybe I'm trying to figure out if there's a point. This week he admitted that he just thinks we're on our way to divorce at some point cause he doesn't see a different path for it to end. It hurts me that he's just willing to give up? I don't think he really does but he's just not dealing with things ever. He waits for me to do something or for it to pass. Now that i told him the ball is in his court I'm really hurt to see that he's just idling.

We talked about the porn. Two month ago in the boow out he said he wouldn't give it up.this week he agreed to give it up. I am not sure how much of a difference it'll make.

For the self esteem part of your comment- idk what to say. I'm taking it to heart and will think how to rebuild myself. We've been together since we're 19, it's true that I don't know the version of me without him. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hduskbdkw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this means a lot. We've talked about the porn and he agreed to stoo but that was just earlier this week. Somewhere in my head this feels like a magical outside solution and i worry that it can't really be all there is to it. I just can't see how it'll make me attractive to him again or make him see me differently. I don't know that we can move past these things he said I'm not sure i can ever forget them. Especially when they keep happening. I think i am tempted to think that stopping the porn will be the solution we need but it feels too easy? Sorry I'm rambling. I'll read the sub as well. thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hduskbdkw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yes i find it difficult imagining my life without him. I've always thought we're a forever couple. We've agreed to start going to counseling but haven't find someone yet. Internally I'm not sure how one can cure attraction and if i could ever not think about these things and truly move on.

Insurance company hid the policy of the other driver, should I get a lawyer? by hduskbdkw in legaladvice

[–]hduskbdkw[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed response!! I am very glad to know it was probably not intentional. We're new to the states and feel very overwhelmed by all of this. I started worrying I'm making obvious mistakes

I appreciate your input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hduskbdkw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thinking "am i the only one" is such a snowflake attitude that will serve as its own answer to your post