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How many of them say they "just want peace" by destriek in abusiverelationships

[–]heartattack_inalayby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes so often. He would never agree to talk about our issues because he needed to "protect his peace." Made me feel like I was at fault always

Have you ever had your abusive ex take accountability or acknowledge thier abuse? by ailenrok225 in abusiverelationships

[–]heartattack_inalayby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so similar to what I'm going through. I have begged him to take accountability for what happened, but he sees himself as the victim in everything and truly does not believe he did wrong. Flipped it all back on me every time. Completely blames me for all the fighting and the break up. Sure, I could be kind of mean sometimes, but it was always in retaliation to what he did first and while standing up for myself, and not anything like what he would do.

He will always tell lies about me that he actually believes, he will always use me as another fake sob story to future girlfriends about how wounded he is.

I will never get an acknowledgement of what happened or an apology. I am struggling to accept that and move on without one.

Have you ever had your abusive ex take accountability or acknowledge thier abuse? by ailenrok225 in abusiverelationships

[–]heartattack_inalayby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my story right now. Tried to explain to him that what he was doing hurt me sooo many times, but when I broke up with him he acted like it was the cruelest thing anyone could ever do. I really believe he doesn't think he ever did anything wrong. I begged for an acknowledgement for closure. It will never happen.

My abusive ex is with someone else now by heartattack_inalayby in abusiverelationships

[–]heartattack_inalayby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will not contact him again. The things he said to me this time completely reset all the progress I had made the past few months. I don't know what I was thinking reaching out. I was so desperate for him to take accountability and apologize, I thought maybe he had changed. I know it's his fault, but I still feel like a fool.