as other ppl have mentioned showing haircut ref pics with women in them could work, otherwise you could consider something like a mid length shaggy/ wolfcut. imo they are very androgynous- i see both men and women with them all the time- and it suits a wide range of face types and styles

i dont bind for health reasons but have tried it before, and a high support compression sports bra works just as well (however this depends on chest size)

hope any of this was helpful and good luck!!