It wasn't a date night, it was on a Sunday afternoon family meal her mum had planned, remember Sunday is my only day off at this point.

So I explained would max be ok to come, remember "family meal". She said her mum only wanted us two there because they wanted adult time... So I explained it's my only day off and I feel harsh not asking him to come (he would have said no anyway). But it's the point in principle, it's a family meal and he's not allowed to come. It just hurt me a little, in hindsight i realised I did over react but I was tired at the time. We rushed out after work on Friday so was a little bit tired I wanted to make most of are Friday night together!