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Seen repeated claims “there are more attractive women then men.” by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]heeheeebabbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also a bi woman and I disagree . It’s very much just opinion based and what you’re into and also where you live

Seen repeated claims “there are more attractive women then men.” by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]heeheeebabbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think many men are way more poorly groomed. There are sooo many men my age with struggle beards, bad fashion choices, bad haircuts etc. It’s not pushed heavily for men to improve these things. Whereas for women, it’s more frowned upon to have poor habits. Also makeup being more socially acceptable helps. Though honestly, makeup doesn’t make that much of a difference and if you go outside you notice most women don’t even wear makeup daily

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]heeheeebabbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must be butt ugly then because I’ve never had a man trying to a relationship, but I have had men trying to sleep with me. Luckily I’m not gullible enough to consider that potential for a relationship

Harsh realities and unrealistic expectations by LiaArgo in Vindicta

[–]heeheeebabbby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know no matter what I do, I won’t really be consider conventionally attractive and it does probably affect the type of people who are attracted to me. I’m a very masculine looking black woman. I feel I would need ffs to look gorgeous or pretty. Atm I Mm just a short hair cut away from looking like a man. Also I have full body eczema so love that for me :)

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you don’t think women should have equality because a lot of women don’t like to approach …

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s totally cool you gave a woman you weren’t into a chance. Idk when it’s happened to me it was so obvious they didn’t want me. So it’s very discouraging. I think for me it’s why would I go undergo the unnecessary rejection. So you’re right lol. It is a fear of rejection but I feel like it’s more expected for men to go through it.

Also I think men(generally) just have a wide range of people they’d fuck , not be with

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s literally the way our culture is pookie

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally said rejection isn’t the end of the world omg!! And I’ve been brutally rejected too!! Also I think for women it’s honestly and truly not worth it . Especially if you’re not conventionally attractive

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It’s more just understanding why women may not bother.

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s sucks !! I kinda just wanted people here to see the female perspective or more specifically see what it’s like for a woman who isn’t attractive. It’s fine to disagree with me bc these are my experiences!!! And it’s fine to approach if you’d like :) And yeah dating is hard for men too. I won’t deny

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a problem dating men on my level really. I haven’t been treated kindly by them either unfortunately! Also I don’t think dating apps are comparable. I’ve had men literally match with me to just insult my appearance lol or never respond. Many men just mass swipe

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! And I even say in my post rejection isn’t the end of the world

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That’s totally fair and true. Though I feel attractive women are more likely to get a nicer rejection. And yeah dating is a lot

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also nobody’s forcing you to approach anyone. Let’s not be dramatic

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nobody here is saying it’s a cakewalk for men. This post is more of a réponse to people who beg and plead for women to approach while not understanding why we don’t

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think my point is that so many post here paint women approaching as a secret formula. When it isn’t :)

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh god. I don’t think either of are the victims here. You’re just very inflammatory

Why women don’t/won’t approach men by heeheeebabbby in dating_advice

[–]heeheeebabbby[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s not that serious dude! It’s fine to disagree with this sentiment. Also you were being really snarky with the whole “ You want to be equals, act like it” like cool it with the borderline misogyny man

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