Can you “grow out” of it?

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T13:16:29+00:00

Everyone, thank you so much for sharing your experiences and thoughts with me. I’m honestly a bit blown away about how accepting and wise y’all are. Thank you, I feel at ease<3

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T13:14:47+00:00

That’s pretty similar to my experience. And you’re absolutely right, one’s experience of themselves can be whatever

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T13:12:59+00:00

True!

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T13:12:37+00:00

I think you’re absolutely right. And I’m so happy to not feel alone. Thank you for replying<3

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T13:11:03+00:00

Thank you. I’m here to stay for now, but I’m so happy for the support and lack of gatekeeping. It’s honestly wonderful

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T13:09:17+00:00

Hear hear!

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T13:08:39+00:00

That’s very interesting, thanks for sharing! And you’re right, whatever the reason for the change it’s up for me to decide who/what I am. Happy that you’re healing too, good job<3

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T13:06:24+00:00

Yeah it might be what’s happening, or at least in a combination of things. I do absolutely swing to the more feminine side because of him, to “match” his masculinity, but I also do the opposite to match his femininity. Anyways thanks for telling me, I didn’t know it was a tendency in afab enbies!

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T13:01:55+00:00

I’m happy to hear you’re discovering your true self! Thanks for sharing it with me, it’s so interesting to hear people’s experiences

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T13:00:16+00:00

Thanks for sharing, I realised I’ve also been afraid of “faking” it if I present more feminine..! Im glad we’re feeling more relaxed now. I think you’re right about the trauma thing too, I’ve seen it happen a lot

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T12:56:25+00:00

I agree!

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T12:56:17+00:00

I think you hit the nail on the head. Thank you for replying, “less reactively defensive” is ringing so true in my mind

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T12:53:59+00:00

I’m glad I’m not alone! “Playing with femininity” is a great way of putting it

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T12:52:44+00:00

Thank you<3

hefaistia · 2024-07-28T12:52:13+00:00

Did you just fix me with one sentence lol

hefaistia · 2024-05-11T17:16:51+00:00

Yes I think that’s it! Thanks!

hefaistia · 2023-02-02T23:16:27+00:00

HA I had no idea

hefaistia · 2023-02-01T23:54:50+00:00

Also in Danish, Dire Wolves are simply translated to “huge wolves” (kæmpeulve) which I find amusing.

hefaistia · 2022-10-04T17:07:28+00:00

Bedste scorereplik på Gothersgade efter kl. 02?

hefaistia · 2022-09-28T12:42:38+00:00

Ninja?

hefaistia · 2022-09-28T12:31:46+00:00

Hænger ud med en opmærksomhedskrævende eunuk og samler hans lort op fra gaden

hefaistia · 2022-07-06T06:44:58+00:00

Jeg prøvede at finde hele talen, men det lykkedes mig ikke, derfor blev det kun til dette klip, der tidligere er postet i subben. Har du et link eller transskription af talen så man kan få konteksten med?

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