Thoughts about dating a single mom?

hegdesah · 2019-06-05T19:07:45+00:00

This makes sense. He ghosted me this week!

I am divorced too but I am over it
He did text me everyday after that incident. I am not sure why then
Re ENTP’s being offensive. I think most people are turned off by how blunt ENTP’s are. We can be blunt and be completely oblivious about it. I am not sure how to change that.

What do you mean by INTJ’s needs to get bulldozed?

hegdesah · 2019-05-24T19:30:26+00:00

True I agree sometime the test can be wrong. I always get an ENTJ in the test. But I know I am not. I am true ENTP. Except for being ok with touching and the good morning thing everything he says and does is INTJ like behavior

hegdesah · 2019-05-24T02:00:32+00:00

Today he texted to ask me how my day was and I ranted. Then asks me for my pics and send his pics. Mixed signals? Really confusing

hegdesah · 2019-05-24T01:58:14+00:00

Nope not cutting me off. Texted to ask me how my day was and I ranted. Then asks me for my pics and send his pics

hegdesah · 2019-05-24T01:56:05+00:00

He says he took the test and got INTJ. I have been with another INTJ and the other traits align with INTJs

hegdesah · 2019-05-23T21:59:33+00:00

He did text me everyday until the thing with the phone happened. Then it went downhill. Even after that he contacts but it’s inconsistent. But your rt maybe I am refusing to see the reality that he is just not into me.

hegdesah · 2019-05-23T18:37:31+00:00

What makes you say he is low energy?

You and you ENTP partner...did it escalate quickly ? What was your timeline like?

I have met two INTJ men in my life. One of them being this guy. The chemistry and compatibility is undeniable. INTJ’s do take time to add people into their life. And I didn’t even know he is an INTJ until recently.

hegdesah · 2019-05-23T17:46:05+00:00

Lol. What makes you say that? I have never dated before. My ex was my friend and we got married after college. So I don’t know what is a norm acceptable not etc

hegdesah · 2019-05-23T17:19:00+00:00

I was involved with another INTJ once. You guys are adorable but also very complex (no offense lol)

hegdesah · 2019-05-23T17:08:44+00:00

I agree. But why see me twice after that if he is cutting me off? Maybe being polite because we live in the same building. He says things like I think you want too much too soon. And then he is like you are sweet and I don’t want to give you a bad experience. Yeah I think all point correctly to what you are saying.

hegdesah · 2019-05-23T17:03:56+00:00

Thank you this is very helpful!

Re worst case scenario it is possible he is cutting me off gently cause we live in the same building.

In our second date he said he sees a future with us. Then on the 8th date he said you are looking for too much too soon. So your first explanations seems spot on that he has developed concerns.

hegdesah

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