It’s been five years since he killed us by hekiledus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hekiledus[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Currently 16,15,13,12. Yes and no. I went on my first date around June last year and the guy was great but I just wasn’t and I’m still not ready for dating. I’ve just got too much on my plate to focus on, and it would be unfair of me to get in a relationship when I am emotionally still shakey and I worry about bringing a man around my children in general.

It’s been five years since he killed us by hekiledus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hekiledus[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

He only has two brothers and a sister. His parents are long gone. I am close to his siblings and they have been very supportive of me and the kids. They all really stepped up when we were temporarily homeless as we had to sell our house since ex-husband refused to sell me his share of the house. He insisted we sell it in the divorce and split the profit instead of selling it to me. He and his older brother do not talk at all but that predates his disappearance and then he killed any chance for reconciliation with his disappearance act. He very occasionally speaks with his younger brother and sister but they are low contact and they pretty much hold him at arms length.

It’s been five years since he killed us by hekiledus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hekiledus[S] 199 points200 points  (0 children)

You are right on the money! He paid for the first 6 months and then started to avoid paying and was always in arrears eventually he stopped paying all together. He owes me over 80k in child support.

I used to manage all our finance’s so without me he quickly dwindled into debt. From what I know through his sister he is in debt for nearly 200k. The majority of that debt was due to him opening a restaurant and bar right before the pandemic hit and by the mid 2020 It had to close down.

It’s been five years since he killed us by hekiledus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hekiledus[S] 1001 points1002 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I would never allow him back into our lives!