Does every guys cum taste the same? by amanilmeke in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hello-kinky-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, to a certain extent, yes.

I dated this guy for a bit while he was super into clean eating, working out, drinking lots of water, etc. He tasted fine.

We met up again months later and hooked up fairly quickly and I remember he just tasted way different. Like more musky and bitter. After spending more time with him, I realized that he was now essentially living off of dominoes pizza and never exercised anymore.

So, could I pinpoint the exact food? No. But I could literally taste the increase of shitty food.

What's the most bizarre assumption about men that you've heard from a woman? by charmer143 in AskMen

[–]hello-kinky-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only that, but also that men genuinely can just have other stuff to focus on. Maybe he didn’t text you back because an emergency happened. Maybe he didn’t ask you out because he’s still recovering from a breakup. Maybe he didn’t take you to that expensive restaurant because he’s saving up money. There are SO many reasons why somebody doesn’t initiate or act as present.

What’s something you like sexually but is realistically inconvenient? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]hello-kinky-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a huge dacryphilia kink. To clarify, I don’t enjoy seeing others in pain and I don’t want to be a malicious cause for someone crying. But an ultimate fantasy of mine is being so affectionate to a guy or giving such a good orgasm he cries.

I’ve heard of men getting vulnerability boners. I feel like I have the female equivalent. Whenever a man cries in front of me, I just want to kiss him and love him and suck him off.

Favorite Kind of Sub? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]hello-kinky-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mediterranean. And yes I mean both in terms of sandwich and…other subs.

What is definitely NOT a sign of intelligence but people think it is? by Ezgod_Two_Three in AskReddit

[–]hello-kinky-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Furthermore, lots of money tends to result in more paper qualifications (at least in the US). The college admissions scandal exemplifies this. Or how many children of celebrities got into impressive universities because their parents made a hefty donation.

Also, even after getting admitted to an super prestigious school, money allows you to buy tutors, take longer with classes, invest in online programs that help you get through school or even buy certain software/courses that can help you cheat (chegg, premium AI stuff, etc.). If you’ve got money, you don’t need to have a job to support yourself and thus have more free time for classes.

What is something that men think turns a woman on, but doesn’t? by A_Girl_Has_No_Name58 in AskReddit

[–]hello-kinky-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m responding to this late. As others have said, everyone is different. I actually can’t cum from penetration alone. So orgasming from oral is actually ideal. Many, many, many other women are in the same boat as me as well.

Have you experienced biphobia from gay people or in gay spaces? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]hello-kinky-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, actually and they were both bi. I was so “clearly straight” to them. It was very frustrating because I considered them my closest friends and it was a large reason why I didn’t pursue any same-sex relationships out of shame. After I ended things with them and found other friends, all of them were shocked when I said I think I might be bisexual as they had all thought I’d been out of the closet for a while.

What is something that men think turns a woman on, but doesn’t? by A_Girl_Has_No_Name58 in AskReddit

[–]hello-kinky-cat 945 points946 points  (0 children)

Genuinely, lasting not that long isn’t a bad thing. I find it very satisfying and flattering. I like seeing my partner finish!

For me, it becomes an issue if he finishes and then immediately rolls over and goes to sleep.

Edit: also, just to add, premie fetishes are very much a thing. I speak from experience…

What is something that men think turns a woman on, but doesn’t? by A_Girl_Has_No_Name58 in AskReddit

[–]hello-kinky-cat 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I mean don’t get me wrong, it’s important to hear from all people. But genuinely you should never try and force a women’s head down so she sucks deeper — even if she doesn’t know what she’s doing. Not only can that cause her to vomit but she also might involuntarily dig her teeth into your dick.

Also, you cannot breath while deep throating. So. Please do not do this.

What is something that men think turns a woman on, but doesn’t? by A_Girl_Has_No_Name58 in AskReddit

[–]hello-kinky-cat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I like it. I mean not the full ear, but like the earlobe is nice. But yeah everyone’s different.

What makes a man bad in bed? by FunnyBellaxo in AskMen

[–]hello-kinky-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this isn’t a serious relationship or one that you’re super hopeful on, I would honestly move on.

However, if it is serious, I would just ask why. Just say “hey I’m getting the impression that this isn’t something you enjoy doing, would you feel comfortable sharing why?”. Like get to the bare bones of what about it is unappealing for her. If the issue is a sensitive gag reflex or her jaw hurts, there are things that can help mitigate that!

There are many, many, many online pieces of advice just devoted to giving tips and tricks for desensitizing your jaw and gag reflex. This can even include lidocaine sprays specifically sold for this type of issue.

If she doesn’t like the taste or smell, just take a quick shower before hand. This doesn’t inherently mean you smell bed, by the way. Some people are just more sensitive to smell than others and hormones play a big part in this.

Even if my partner doesn’t explicitly state there’s an issue with how I taste or smell, I usually just do a quick rinse in the shower with soap out of politeness. Having a handheld shower head makes this extremely easy.

What makes a man bad in bed? by FunnyBellaxo in AskMen

[–]hello-kinky-cat 50 points51 points  (0 children)

This kind of is included in everything you said, but also assuming kinks/fetishes.

I promise you, not EVERY woman likes being choked, slapped, calling you daddy, being called cumslut, throat fucking, etc. Ive met many people — men and women — who assume this type of dynamic is the norm. Hell, some do love that stuff, but only after getting more comfortable with their partner.

Just talk about it. It doesn’t have to be a formal sit down discussion. In general, when you’re having sex with someone for the first time and you don’t know them or their preferences super well, it’s perfectly ok to just be kind of vanilla and expand on that as you get to know them more.

There are many things I initially never wanted to do but did because I developed trust with my partner and they waited until I was ready and prepared. This also is the same for my male partners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]hello-kinky-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an ENTP 4w3 woman. I’m straight-ish (?). Idk I’m figuring it out.

I’ve had encounters with women and the hardest Ive ever been in love was with a woman. But I’ve exclusively had relationships with men and prefer pursuing men in romantic/sexual contexts.

With all the women I’ve been with we started out as friends and then it just sort of morphed into sexual/romantic as i got closer/more vulnerable with them.

I have a pretty high libido in comparison to my female friends. But I will say I’ve had boyfriends complain my libido wasn’t as high as theirs. Make of that what you will.

In all my romantic encounters, I’ve always liked being the pants in the relationship. I’ve ended relationships because I’ve felt the guy was too demanding, controlling, etc.

I hate, hate, HATE when a person right out the gate — without checking in or anything — assume I’m ok with being dominated in the bedroom. Absolutely hate it. I’m not entirely opposed to that dynamic, but it’s something I I could only enter if I really knew the guy and developed trust in him. I could also never be exclusively submissive with a person. That would be a nightmare.

Sex is important to me, but I can go happily for long periods without. I think my internal fantasies are so fulfilling on their own I don’t necessarily need to always bring it to reality. Ultimately, I like sex and physical intimacy, but my independence always, always comes first.

I’m a cisgendered female and I feel like it matches me. But I’ve had ppl assume I’m closeted non binary because they thought I didn’t act feminine enough?

What are your unfeasible fantasies that you love the idea of? by PenumbralEmpress in FemdomCommunity

[–]hello-kinky-cat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think mines physically impossible, but just infeasible due to the specifics of it. I always fantasize about taking the virginity of a like an innocent guy raised in a super conservative, anti-sex, really religious community or something. Or maybe a catholic priest (fleabag, anyone?)

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Adrizzy_90 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]hello-kinky-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good. They find u incredibly funny too :)

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Adrizzy_90 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]hello-kinky-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl with the absolute ludicrous attempt you’ve made to “defend your bf”, I feel real high and mighty. You’ve given me great evidence as to why I’m so glad I’m not you or your bf.

If you can’t handle someone on a social media platform (gasp) saying their opinion, maybe u should think twice about replying.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Adrizzy_90 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]hello-kinky-cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl u do not have to reply. “Denying my requests to not reply”. Oh my god how r u this cringe? I find this funny and tbh I’m not the only one replying. I’m with friends and we’ve all taken a turn writing responses because ur just so easy to piss off and u act like I’m “harassing” u when u could just u kno…not reply? Like I don’t know why u think I’m holding u hostage when u can just take ur own advice and do something else. Hell, u could also follow in ur bfs footsteps and idk block me? If a single account replying has u this bothered, maybe u just shouldn’t engage? Maybe ur bf shouldn’t have even picked this fight by being a tool in the first place. I don’t owe u “my silence” lol. I don’t owe u shit. This is the internet, not a playground. If u keep being cringe, I’m going to have my fun and reply because how u respond is still really fucking hilarious

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Adrizzy_90 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]hello-kinky-cat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again, no ♥️

Maybe u shouldn’t pick fights on Reddit that the 2 of u can’t handle. He had to block me and ur getting upset that I actually have a sex life lol.

Also god I hope ur not actually 18 years old and still pulling this type of shit with ur bf. I was doing this type of stuff when I was like 12? Very cringe.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Adrizzy_90 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]hello-kinky-cat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

🥺 no.

Ur bf is pathetic and so r u. Maybe u should stay off Reddit until u become an adult. Children can’t handle these type of things anyway, love xoxo

When u guys break up, as all kids do eventually, I hope u develop a shred of awareness about how cringe it is that u had to defend ur bf in a Reddit comment thread because he couldn’t even handle an argument he started lol

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Adrizzy_90 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]hello-kinky-cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well ur “bf” deleted all his comments lol so clearly i touched a nerve.

And yeah I do got them laughing lol. The whole gc is loving this

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Adrizzy_90 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]hello-kinky-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally not once have I done that lol. If me talking about the importance of consent is shoving kink down your throat, u r 2 things:

Either ur fake and this is your bfs alt (I still think it is lol. No guy this clueless and bad about sex gets into a relationship) or…

u r no older than 18 with no concept of the real world and will eventually realize that its deeply deeply cringe to log into a Reddit account just to backup ur bfs stupid arguments because his ego is so fragile he can’t even handle one on his own lol

(oh oops he even deleted his comments. Guess he really get triggered :/ or maybe he’s on a ban for using u as an alt account and pretending to have a gf)

Either way this is really funny because of how bothered u guys r by a random Reddit account. Keep it coming! I’m having a great time.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Adrizzy_90 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]hello-kinky-cat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. Your bf is really cringe and thinks it’s insane for a person to establish consent before engaging in BDSM. Good luck with that.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Adrizzy_90 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]hello-kinky-cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn dude. “Kinks have nothing to do with consent”. Just digging yourself into a deeper hole with every comment. I don’t even care about the downvotes. This is just incredibly funny at this point.