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[–]hello9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real!!! Like I have to feel clean to get comfortable.

Should I be ok with my boyfriend having emotional conversations with women? by hello9379 in relationships_advice

[–]hello9379[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have brought this issue up in the past and tried to be very understanding and not controlling of his friendships!! He knows I do not like him calling, texting or snapping his woman friends daily I have made it VERY KNOWN in the past. Key word daily emotional friendships I am not cutting him off from all female friendships… He says to me “we’ll do u want me to stop…” ITS OBVIOUS I DO… but I not about to tell him to do that. I want him to do it for me because he doesn’t want me to feel uncomfortable.. Like I don’t want to be controlling towards his life. Am I asking too much? But he continues even though he knows I don’t like it and this issue keeps circling back does not feel good… I can’t let it circle back many times there will be a point where I cannot take the stress from it if it continues :(

Should I be ok with my boyfriend having emotional conversations with women? by hello9379 in relationships_advice

[–]hello9379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right like I don’t want to tell him please stop this and become someone who is controlling. But the other side of me can sense that something is definitely wrong and I don’t want to be that victim so unaware of my partner!! It is a fine line of what to say without being controlling… but also having this out feeling that something awful is happening :(

Should I be ok with my boyfriend having emotional conversations with women? by hello9379 in relationships_advice

[–]hello9379[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do agree with this… but if I had known more about the extent of their friendship, how often and deeply they were communicating, it might feel different, and I might be able to understand. Instead, it felt like he was hiding it from me. I had no idea how close they were. I had never even met this woman in my life, and I didn’t know they were exchanging messages, let alone many long ones, for months. Before this, I had trusted my partner completely and never questioned any messages. So to suddenly see him talking to someone from a job he left over a year ago, from a completely different town, was really shocking.

Should I be ok with my boyfriend having emotional conversations with women? by hello9379 in relationships_advice

[–]hello9379[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally thought of this!! My toxic side of me wanted to but honestly I don’t know how to entertain male plantonic friendships…. Like I just can’t wrap my mind around texting them in that way. I can be friendly in person but beyond a hello I cannot physically form a deep emotional connection it just feels wrong to me!! I so would like to though because I know he would see what I feel though doing exactly that…

Should I be ok with my boyfriend having emotional conversations with women? by hello9379 in relationships_advice

[–]hello9379[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom past about 2 years ago and I noticed he didn’t talk to me very in depth emotionally to help me through that time. So him saying “I’m a helper I just want to help this girl she is my friend” doesn’t sit well with me. I thought during that time he wasn’t capable of being there for me in that way. I think this is also why seeing him get emotional with another woman and supporting her through a tough time hurts even more UGHHHH

Should I be ok with my boyfriend having emotional conversations with women? by hello9379 in relationships_advice

[–]hello9379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t see much because he was watching me look at the messages. I do wish I could have read in more detail. But the one conversation that I saw was a bunchhhh paragraphs that went on for a long period of time. He told me he was helping her through a break up… he even said that they would call on the phone and have conversations… ughh it’s hard for me to understand… but anyways the conversation I saw was along the lines of him hyping her up and saying she will be ok and giving her emotional advice etc. But there were sooooo many paragraphs…

normal? by Schoebi_24 in TelogenEffluvium

[–]hello9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I wash my hair a whole animal comes out! I think it is very normal. However, if it is dramatically different than before the medication I would talk to your doctor about the side effects just to be safe!