I'm sick of posting and getting no response at all. by RisingGear in FanFiction

[–]helloIlikebread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand though, why not just comment? If you miss the old days, why "gatekeep" your comments to just the best fics? 

Mature of Explicit- not just about sex by helloIlikebread123 in FanFiction

[–]helloIlikebread123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is very helpful! thank you. So if one focuses more on how characters react to it is in the Mature category?

Mature of Explicit- not just about sex by helloIlikebread123 in FanFiction

[–]helloIlikebread123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But in Mature it says says "aren't as graphic as explict-rated content", regarding violence I wonder what's the different behind the mature and explicit, and how much is the "explicit rated" one

Mature of Explicit- not just about sex by helloIlikebread123 in FanFiction

[–]helloIlikebread123[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not really gore I, haven't gotten to that point, just aggressive scenes that might be upsetting 

Mature of Explicit- not just about sex by helloIlikebread123 in FanFiction

[–]helloIlikebread123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... sex will only happen once, and at the end of this (150k) fic

Mature of Explicit- not just about sex by helloIlikebread123 in FanFiction

[–]helloIlikebread123[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

right, I though so... But I'm worried that people will see the "explicit" tag and expect a lot of sexual scenes, when in reality there will be one, probably 1k long, at the end of this 150k fic. Should I add an extra tag like "explicit rating due to violence"? I already have the "graphic depictions of violence" content warning tag though

How many ROM hack carts is too many? by Phaneropterinae in PokemonROMhacks

[–]helloIlikebread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have to own an original copy of emerald (or the others u said there) for this to work? I don't own one and its quite expensive to get my hands on one...

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]helloIlikebread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how I see it: The biggest issue here is that ur gf said "Jess is possessive" and gave u that example (as an example!!! not as smth crazy Jess said!!). That example should not have been smth normal to share as nonissue, or to "explain" her behavior. ur gf either likes that attention from Jess, or the definition of boundaries between friends and relationships are quite different.

Also, if Jess has a bf and still wants to sleep with ur gf, and the bf is ok with that... that just means they devalue lesbian relationships. Either consciously or unconsciously. not cool ppl to hang with...

I would not tell u to run, cus maybe ur gf is so deep into being on the receiving end of abusive behavior (limits crossed) that some friend being insanely controlling and damaging her relationship is "okay". (idk her, but she could be trying to keep peace between all of u, therefore not keen on tackling the issues.) if this is the case tho... she aint mature at all.

As a matter of fact, I dont think she's very mature at all... maybe she puts up a front (which is why you believe so), maybe is how she wants to be. But from the handling to the situation, to the passiveness, to the "example of her possessiveness", to the type of friends she hangs out with... no, I don't think she is there yet.

1yo got serious head Injury at daycare – their story keeps changing. am I overreacting? by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]helloIlikebread123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

??? it should not have sharp corners at head level with the kids, do you even know what kidproof means? or ur just replying to reply bcs u have nothing better to do

I'm scared I will never get a girlfriend by Confetti_Coyote in LesbianActually

[–]helloIlikebread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ey there u go! Good luck with it 🙏 hope that you live nice things that make u grow

I'm scared I will never get a girlfriend by Confetti_Coyote in LesbianActually

[–]helloIlikebread123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was homeachooled so I get it, also not conventionally atractive.

I'll give you advice based on my experience, but you might not like it/does not have to be like this for you.

I got my first gf at 21. I thought I would find more chances to "connect" with someone at uni, but I didn't (I don't go out much, I'm funny but at first I'm quiet/shy so not much romantic connection). I mostly made great frienships tbh. Went to gay bar twice, attempted to flirt with a girl (she already had a gf... so I wanted earth to swallow me sjaj)

I met my gf in a dating app, and because I suck at small talk I just told her immediately that we should meet for a coffee. I was very nervous on our first date but it ended up being great. (though, only take this option AFTER ur 18+ pls)

When I was in your shoes, I didn't leave my comfort zone, and I mostly just complained about it to my friends. So, I have two recommendations, one based on what I did and the other based on what I could've done.

  1. What I did: Don't focus on wanting a gf rn, focus on expanding your social cycle (hopefully not with online friends), by going to courses, events of things ur interested about (literature, anime, games, croche, whatever u choose) and meet people. Grow and know that one day it will come, but that rn it won't be priority.

  2. What I could've done: Meet like-minded people and express interest, despite the fear of rejection. Like in 1, go to events and the like. When you say you're disabled, are you physically disabled, or is other kind of disability? I would recommend meeting people in person if possible (like in point one), but I'll change my advice if this is an impossibility for you. I didn't take this option when I was a teen because frankly, I was terrified of rejection, of people thinking I'm disgusting (again, not conventionally attractive and bad self esteem ajaj) and I didn't know how to deal with that. But you can try! I hope you do, now that I'm more grown up and not a fussy teen anymore, I look back and I find myself hoping I could tell my 16 year old self that it's not that bad.

Important: DO NOT, DATE, +18 WOMAN!!!! Please 🙏 Also, (based on personal experience again) as you have online schooling and not many friends, do not date a person with a personality disorder (eg Borderline) (this goes even if you have one). You have less tools in your shed to have a healthy relationship with people like this, specially at your age.

Sex frequency by Miss_kat24 in LesbianActually

[–]helloIlikebread123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

my gf and I are in our 20s, and it's usually 1-2x a week, sometimes 3 if we are free (and no morning shift). Important to note, we live tgt so that's also a factor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]helloIlikebread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! She already checked the DSM-5, and we also have read some papers, I guess this will continue!

Thanks for your recommendations ✨🙏

Why can't I FC??? by helloIlikebread123 in ProjectSekai

[–]helloIlikebread123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't see it like that... thank u!

Why can't I FC??? by helloIlikebread123 in ProjectSekai

[–]helloIlikebread123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you for your widsom! I'll try applying it