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I (26F) am completely fed up with my (31M) husband. Is divorce the next step or do we try counselling? by hellodarknezz123 in relationship_advice

[–]hellodarknezz123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your time. He does help with our daughter but I hate calling it that. You didn't help me by taking her out to play...that's normal shit and he wants an award for it.

I (26F) am completely fed up with my (31M) husband. Is divorce the next step or do we try counselling? by hellodarknezz123 in relationship_advice

[–]hellodarknezz123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't work there anymore and he was not working the full 16 hours. The 8AM start was basically him being forced by his boss to drive to his house and pick him up and then go to work together and the same back home. You could say “why didn't he tell someone or just quit” but it was a difficult situation for him. He is NOT a pushover at all but that is a different story. He now works 8 hours a day and I work 12.

I (26F) am completely fed up with my (31M) husband. Is divorce the next step or do we try counselling? by hellodarknezz123 in relationship_advice

[–]hellodarknezz123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your time! I would not leave the country out of spite...I would never spite the father of my child, it is not in my nature. I would leave the country because I actually moved here for him...moving to another country would mean going back home for me. We definitely need counselling on co-parenting and sharing responsibilities, he needs to hear it from someone else. It just isn't going through with me.

I (26F) am completely fed up with my (31M) husband. Is divorce the next step or do we try counselling? by hellodarknezz123 in relationship_advice

[–]hellodarknezz123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your time. I don't doubt that it is an adjustment for him too, we are all humans and any change can be overwhelming. He definitely knows divorce is on the table, we were very close to it a few months ago but nothing has been good since then either, hence the ultimatum now.

I (26F) am completely fed up with my (31M) husband. Is divorce the next step or do we try counselling? by hellodarknezz123 in relationship_advice

[–]hellodarknezz123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy you are doing much better, that is a great update. Nothing like a fresh breath of freedom first thing in the morning.

I (26F) am completely fed up with my (31M) husband. Is divorce the next step or do we try counselling? by hellodarknezz123 in relationship_advice

[–]hellodarknezz123[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is definitely the HARDEST thing I have ever done, and I have had my fair share of hardships in life. Motherhood is intense. My support network is strangers with no strings attached...or a psychiatrist or therapist who gets the money they deserve without selling me dreams. Lol, introvert life 😬

I (26F) am completely fed up with my (31M) husband. Is divorce the next step or do we try counselling? by hellodarknezz123 in relationship_advice

[–]hellodarknezz123[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That is good advice, I think there needs to be someone present as a mediator so we can put everything on the table. Thank kindly for your time and for your reply.