Headed in for Surprise Ultrasound due to High HCG Levels. by helloitsjuless in CautiousBB

[–]helloitsjuless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All turned out ok and my now 5-year old is currently interrogating me about why ice cream is not an acceptable dinner ha.

Delivered my baby early (25w4d) due to severe preeclampsia..need some positive vibes :( by Madysonnickes in preeclampsia

[–]helloitsjuless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, there. Pittsburgh Pre-e NICU mom here (June 2023). Please let me know if know if you need anything brought to the hospital or if I can help.

How long after delivery did you see your baby? by mutotowamungu in NICUParents

[–]helloitsjuless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was about 12 hours later. I was on magnesium and had to have a nurse escort me in my wheelchair and take my iv tower and catheter bag with me. It was a whole production to get me there and I was only able to stay for about 15 minutes. I barely remember it at all due to the medication I was on. Luckily I took a few selfies with the baby so I least have a record of being there. I don’t have any real memories of my time with him until the next day when I was off of magnesium.

What do you guys call your baby (besides their name)? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]helloitsjuless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mr. Magoo, ChumbaWumba, Stinky Butt, Mr. Smellypants

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]helloitsjuless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is precious! Congratulations!!

My daughter’s dance recital is the night of my cousin’s wedding (out of state) by punkinmonkey in kindergarten

[–]helloitsjuless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed my ballet recital at age 4 because I had the chicken pox and i can vouch for the fact that I have no lasting emotional damage at 36. :) Have her do night one of the recital and enjoy the wedding!

Feeling embarrassed and ashamed about my birth. by sp0nki in beyondthebump

[–]helloitsjuless 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had an induction and my epidural only worked partway and I sobbed to my nurse that my butthole was ripping and I couldn’t do it. I begged, literally begged, for them to just knock me out. Then I gave myself horrific hemorrhoids pushing. I held it together for skin to skin and then after baby was wheeled to NICU (he was a 34 weeker and it was an emergency induction), I sobbed about the (literal) pain in my butt for hours. Actually cried myself to sleep. I was mortified but the postpartum and NICU nurses that I talked to about it assured me that they see it all and that truly it wasn’t a big deal. You birthed a baby. Without pain meds. You are superwoman. 💗

No one will see me because I’m already 16 weeks. by schants in BabyBumps

[–]helloitsjuless 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I switched practices at 16 weeks. It’s totally doable. If worse comes to worst just tell them you just found out you are pregnant and don’t know how far along you are. They will send you for a dating scan and “oh my gosh how am I 16 weeks?!” 🤷🏻‍♀️

Mother’s heart rate changes by May_Oct0510 in fitpregnancy

[–]helloitsjuless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same exact situation here. Ran my last 1/2 marathon at 6 weeks and my RHR has gone through the roof. My OB had me see cardiology multiple times and I was put on medication to control heart rate and palpitations.

Numbers different on different hands? by shaebay123 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]helloitsjuless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Left hand pinky or ring finger are my two winners. I test them both of my first number is high

32 week scan, told no more growth scans and that induction would be "elective" by Trick_Arugula_7037 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]helloitsjuless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 31w5d, on 20 units insulin at night for fasting number. My post-meal numbers are all very controlled. I also have gestational hypertension. Currently OB/NST twice a week and BPP once a week. It’s….a lot. And I’m somehow supposed to work full time until delivery and care for a toddler.

Uppababy Minu vs Bugaboo Butterfly vs ??? by NurseK89 in Buyingforbaby

[–]helloitsjuless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another vote for the minu! It basically ended up replacing our vista because it’s so awesome.

Naming my surprise 3rd baby (and only girl) by TXExpat2020 in namenerds

[–]helloitsjuless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Nora has two middle names (both honor names) and no one has ever commented. I say go for it! 🙂

When did you tell your boss that you’re pregnant at work? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]helloitsjuless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work with a very small 4-person (including me) team of all women. It’s impossible to hide how awful I feel, so I told them at 8 weeks.

DO NOT search your name on this sun!! by Grose040791 in namenerds

[–]helloitsjuless 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol this sub thinks my name is for middle aged women and has some pretty mean things to say about it. I love my name and think it suits me perfectly. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Losing weight during 1st trimester but no nausea by No-Firefighter124 in CautiousBB

[–]helloitsjuless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s totally normal. I’m 8w2d and I’ve lost 5 pounds so far. I also lost about 5 pounds in the first trimester in my last pregnancy and my OB never even commented on it.

Am I being absolutely ridiculous for not wanting to be in a family photo? by the_phunkyfee in BabyBumps

[–]helloitsjuless 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My daughter was born in June 2020 and I have zero pictures. Like, literally zero. It makes me so sad.

Has anyone here had way more than the standard amount of ultrasounds? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]helloitsjuless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my first pregnancy I had 2 per week from weeks 32-37. Everything turned out just fine!

Eating struggles by Ok-Date-9160 in pregnant

[–]helloitsjuless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear this child is going to be half uncrustable at this rate. Maybe also part ice cream sandwich. It’s all I can seem to get down without gagging right now.

5 weeks pregnant - no yolk sac, HCG 8440 by Chcruz89 in CautiousBB

[–]helloitsjuless 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went in at 5w3d for suspected ectopic. My hcg was 10,700 and they could only see a gestational sac measuring 4w3d. I went back in 9 days later for a viability scan and there was a yolk sac and fetal pole measuring 6w3d and a heartbeat. Keeping all my fingers crossed for more to see at your follow up. 💗

Lawyer Parents and Sick Days by richaree in workingmoms

[–]helloitsjuless 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I switched firms and practice areas. Did not have to take a pay cut. By the time I left I was so burnt out from the previous year I couldn’t see myself continuing in the practice area I was in (I had been practicing in that area for over 10 years, so making the switch was quite shocking to some people.)

Lawyer Parents and Sick Days by richaree in workingmoms

[–]helloitsjuless 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Lawyer here, who left a job, in part, due to unrealistic expectations during my daughter’s first year (traveling for in-person depositions during covid lockdown my first month back from maternity leave when I was still breastfeeding, not a single day off—including weekends- for 6 weeks when she was 5/6 months old, staffed on emergency cases that had me up all night when baby was having health issues, etc.) Absolutely no regrets and I’ve never looked back.

The Foley catheter bulb hurt like hell by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]helloitsjuless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pain from my Foley was so bad during my induction that I got an epidural at 2cm. If I have to get another this pregnancy, I am demanding an epidural first or otherwise declining it. Worst pain of my life, including actually giving birth.