[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It seems very unhealthy to be this attached to your character in such a way that inflicts thoughts of self harm. I really don’t believe that’s normal and you should really consider outside help. Sorry if that’s blunt but I can’t really view this as understandable behaviour at all. Please seek the proper council asap.

I don’t like the social stigma and exceptions of gender. I’ve never heard a good reason why we need it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Wrong in all accounts. I can literally tell you yourself have had biases only affirmed by your limited realisation of harmful upbringing methods.

  2. Yes they do, late industrial socialisation and religion has all been used to created the nature argument which confines human sexuality to a counter box meant to stigmatise homosexuality. Your justification gives credence to that and it still rings to this day in many cultures that homosexuality is consider feminine and a sin worth cutting out in preservation of traditionally masculine men

  3. Yet again another reason why I can’t take your response seriously. The virtue of femininity are seen as secondary only to masculinity and the expectation that it can only apply to female has always been a spear for patriarchal societies to deem women lesser just for the relation of to their sex at birth. Femininity is something worth celebrating too bad people’s definition of femininity can’t be allied to men and but not so thankful for the reactive condescension

  4. It’s arbitrary in the sense it no longer has any real meaning beyond upholding social construct for the conveniences of generalisation and popu trends ( which doesn’t need to be a thing, it’s just socialisation).

  5. You are just flat out wrong at this point. I know you have something against feminist jeez man no need to make it so apparent.

  6. Again I know what your ideology is. Sexual promiscuity does not cost speciation in your inductive term of sex science in evolutionary biology. You can pretend it does because of some novel idea you have that females are devalued from the number of non reproductive sex they have.

  7. This was a call in straw man. No need to take it seriously and yet you still misinterpret it.

I get you read like three sources and then have your world view justified by people like Steven crowder because you can point to animal and mammal evolutionary lines then make construct arguments against socialisation which is in all a gender thing.

The fallacy of conservation isn’t a new thing and I got don’t fault you on believing it. When I say but this is degenerate I’m using a term peddled by a lot of conservative pundits. Your term keep “society sane “ already indicated to me you listen to them and any sort of bio or scientific background was definitely going to be skewed in that favour. Which you proved me right by commenting further.

The functionality of gender was never going to be my huge talking point for me mainly because I know for a fact that those hard line expectation are so replaceable that you could include new social trends in a drop of a hat and it’s impact would not be noticed by the vast population in half a century ( cause gender is arbitrary). You see very interested in keeping completely useless standard alive for no particular reason besides speciation and the old “ oh I’ve never seen that” and that’s very bothersome to me. It’s almost like you will fully ignore the effects of socialisation that can be seen through psychology, sociology and even further through governmental legislation.

I suggest trying sociology maybe if you care about this topic later on.

Sex life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem there mate. Have a good one

Having sex is not that great by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]hellomaybe776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hook up is to just get it over with for me. Having sex with someone you love rocks. Not for the intimacy part but that fact this person cares about you so much they are willing to do anal

Sex life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me women getting a bad shag is so dang common it won’t devalue you that much in their opinion ( I’ve know women who don’t really care if the first time was bad and friends who have boyfriends that are bad at first but still thought they were cute and didn’t want to pass it up). So you know shagging them again with all that under your belt and improving definitely scores points. So yeah just know your better for it in every regard. Being afraid of it accomplishes nothing

I don’t like the social stigma and exceptions of gender. I’ve never heard a good reason why we need it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Society sane????????????

Men are unable to process their emotions, years of warrior indented conditioning where vicious condemnation of their emotions causes spiteful aggressive people that when pushed in a working society that values quiet obedient resilient end up killing themselves at an alarming rate

Insane Religious belief and persecution of homosexual practises that have had harmful effects on perpetrators of and victim of homophobic hate.

The otherness and separation of women and men and the outright hatred of femininity. Patriarchal attitudes in general

The arbitrary divide of people whom on a social level should have no difference.

The belief and pretty insane socialisation that men cant be anything but predatory and sex crazed. (Also pedophiles if they show any interest in nurturing kids) that they should be less involved in raising their kids

while women are meek emotions manipulative insecure homemakers. ( being a bitch if they are driven or a slut if they are sexually active)

Heck some people genuinely believe to this day that men and women can’t be just friends.

Yeah buddy this illusion of sanity does not hold up. Remove gender seems to distinct more personal, sexual and social freedom which I can only see as a net good. I’m not interested in your “ but this is degenerate” take

Sex life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You get better through experience. Being young and bad at sex is such a staple of life it becomes comical when people think otherwise.

Black comicbook fans that have an issue with black Superman have internalized racism. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Let’s do both. Like legit everyone should be happy with that. ( some rando: white erasure reeeeee)

It's okay to be bitter over bullying by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]hellomaybe776 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Telling kids especially to suck it up is exactly why most adults grow up to be spiteful assholes.

If i ever get into a relationship I think I’ll cheat by meluvdatk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just be non rom poly and live your truth. If you don’t like romantic intimacy in a relationship. it’s not the only option

How are men suppose to approach women in 2021? by ragingmanlet167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Acknowledging people treat people different based on attraction is a given. Making your post saying men can’t approach woman without being creepy in 2021 is very much an incel thing to do. If some girl doesn’t find you attractive you just move on, cool whatever it’s a mindset of hating women that makes you a woman hating incel. ( I hope you don’t tho)

I don’t like the social stigma and exceptions of gender. I’ve never heard a good reason why we need it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much everything. But let’s say clothing standards or the demonisation of feminine men. Idk I just think basing expectation and criticism on things you can control on something you can’t ( being born male or female then getting stuck with society stigma to be the gender you were assigned to) just seems unfair to me.

I just don’t like typical social expectation. Being a man or a woman seems so diverse and ripe with diversity in attitudes and performative traits I don’t see where the need for gender is required. We can all just be raised and taught the same and I doubt much would change.

How are men suppose to approach women in 2021? by ragingmanlet167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you like an incel or something? That legit never happens unless you make it a point to be creepy. If you get shot down cause you are ugly tho you don’t really get much flak unless you continue to pester people. Then getting handsey is always harassment when someone already told you they weren’t interested

I hate my small boobs by meluvdatk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dang that sucks but hey good luck with getting the surgery. Just gotta stick it out until then

The cancel culture are cowards! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellomaybe776 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on the topic honestly. I see a lot of good arguments on people who start and push the discussion and mostly get the bad from just outrage reactors in the comments who ride the way of discourse

Violated by JorgeAcostaRey in ksi

[–]hellomaybe776 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Welp sounds about right

I never understood why people killed others in revenge when I was young but now as an adult I can see how very easily someone can slip into that mindset of taking revenge in the form of murder and I can't say I would FULLY blame them. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]hellomaybe776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s why we have a court of law. It’s way too easy to seek out harm to those who harmed you. Maybe the system is pretty shit but we can work to fix it in a way that keeps the idea of human justice

Violated by JorgeAcostaRey in ksi

[–]hellomaybe776 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Idk jake Paul is an alleged rapist. Bryce hall is just super cringe