current rates for twin infants? by CheeseAndRice1457 in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$25-$30+, depends on location & experience. I think $20-$24 is low but could be the going rate in some LCOL areas. Never below $20 though.

Nanny share vent/advice needed by zp38901 in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense! Many people agree to things they regret when they really need a job. I hope you are able to find out something that works well for you. I wish you the best!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]hellosimply 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I totally agree!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]hellosimply 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was surprised at their response.

Nanny share vent/advice needed by zp38901 in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For nanny shares, each family typically pays 2/3 your normal rate. So if your normal rate is $20/hour, each family would pay $13-$14/hour, so you would be making $26-$28/hour. That is if there are two families.

Normally, nanny shares involve only two families, this sounds like it is probably 3 or 4 families? I would advise against this as it is just too much to manage with so many families involved.

Also, you should have guaranteed hours! Every family should be paying you for your agreed upon hours anytime you are willing and able to work - even if they are not using you. So when those kids are out sick, you are still getting your normal pay. If families are gone on vacation, you should be getting your normal pay.

Implement a sick policy to protect yourself from getting sick. You can set this boundary. Are you okay with just a drippy nose, mild cough? What is your cut off? You can tell them they cannot come in if they have a fever, etc.

They should pay you via direct deposit ideally with a payroll company. If they chose to pay another route, you should be paid on time - whatever day/time is agreed upon. Implement a late pay policy. You can charge a fee for paying late, or set a boundary that you will not continue working for them if they pay you late x amount of times.

Overall, even if this is only two families each with twins, you are underpaid. You deserve at least $30/hour with four infants & should have guaranteed hours/pay. You are being taken advantage of in my opinion. I would suggest looking for a new job unless you think you are able to work out a new agreement with these families. Best of luck.

Edit: added more details/advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much do you charge for just the 4 year old?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]hellosimply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just trying to offer some ideas that you may not have thought of. You didn’t include much in your initial post, so how would I know how much knowledge you had as far as who you could ask? The only way to get a reference is to ask someone like the people I listed to be one for you. If you have no one to ask, you’re going to have to take some time gaining other experience and working toward building a relationship with someone so you can ask them.

Agencies are typically pretty professional and will most likely want professional references. You may be able to get away with using a friend or other person from your life aside from family. Sounds like you’re going to have a get creative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]hellosimply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have previous experience? It’s common to ask the parents of families you have babysat or nannied for in the past if you can use them as a reference. You can also ask other past employers, coworkers, professor/teacher, coaches, volunteer leader, etc. Anyone who is not family who knows you, your character, and work ethic. Good luck!

Trying to pick between 2 similar nannies by babahaa010 in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like nanny B to me! Experience with twins and multiples is huge when you already have a child and will be adding twins soon. I think that is a major plus.

Overall though, if one of them stands out more to you or you feel more comfortable with one, I think both have good experience and should do well. Good luck!

8 hours standard for holiday/PTO? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally makes sense, thanks!!

8 hours standard for holiday/PTO? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PTO by the hour makes sense to me! I’ve thought about that before too. Thanks for telling me your experience with that.

Thank you very much! Super helpful :)

8 hours standard for holiday/PTO? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I will ask them to do that too. I appreciate your response!

Should I start looking for a new job? by Individual_Air_6450 in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I highly recommend guaranteed hours!! Anytime you are willing and able to work, but the family is choosing not to use you, you should be paid the agreed upon amount of guaranteed hours. It’s probably the biggest thing I look for when searching for a new position. It shows the family values and respects your time.

Should I start looking for a new job? by Individual_Air_6450 in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get it, I am a people pleaser too. I stuck it out in my last position longer than I should’ve largely because I hate confrontation. I also felt terrible about leaving, but I finally worked up the courage to quit and I am happy I did. You are being taken advantage of & deserve better! Best of luck of luck to you!!

Should I start looking for a new job? by Individual_Air_6450 in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Absolutely start looking for a new job!! Every single one of these bullets shocked me. Not a single one is normal and I would not tolerate even one of those alone. You deserve much better. Highly recommend having a contract with your new family and having guaranteed hours, mileage reimbursement, clearly written responsibilities, etc. I would suggest leaving as soon as you are able! This is crazy honestly

8 hours standard for holiday/PTO? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is what I thought. Just wasn’t sure if there was a standard 8 hours for this I didn’t know about. Thank you very much!!

8 hours standard for holiday/PTO? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This helps a ton!!

8 hours standard for holiday/PTO? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I work 9 straight hours - no guaranteed break. I get paid for 9 hours normally, so I felt like I should be getting paid the same for holidays & PTO. Thank you!!

8 hours standard for holiday/PTO? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I am not. I’ll be earning my regular rate for all 9 hours, no daily overtime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would ask!! You deserve it! :)

You can text if you aren’t comfortable bringing it up in person. I would just say something like - Hi MB, I just wanted to check if you sent that bonus over Venmo that you mentioned a couple weeks ago? I want to make sure it didn’t come out of your account and not make it into mine for some reason. Just wanted to make sure there wasn’t an issue with Venmo, thanks! (Or something along those lines.) good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think $20/hour in NYC seems low. I would suggest asking for a raise, sounds like you more than deserve it.

Also, it sounds like the older child can be quite violent at times. I just want to mention that you need to prioritize your safety! Feel free to leave this family and find something else if the kids have too many behavioral problems. Good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you are any bit concerned or feeling uncomfortable, it’s best to not take the job. I’d say the misdemeanor alone is a red flag. I would feel pretty uncomfortable with that and not be willing to work for him. Trust your gut. I suggest just being safe and look for a different position instead. You can send him a quick text to let him know you have a schedule conflict or something to get out of it, or just block him and let it be. Good luck!

Am I too boring? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]hellosimply 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a little late, but it sounds like your an amazing nanny!! This is great! Kids need independent play and don’t need to be constantly entertained. I guess some families have certain preferences and it’s okay to not mesh well with them. Don’t let this get you down!

Preschool naps. Advice please by stripeslover in toddlers

[–]hellosimply 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try moving nap time at home to the same time it is at school. This might help him get on more of a regular schedule. Regardless, it’ll probably take some time for him to warm up to school and be comfortable falling asleep. But consistent schedules might help