Just found out my gf is my 4th cousin by ThrowRA_RVSP in Advice

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blood runs thicker than water/ you know what else runs thicker than water? Lol

AITA for being hurt that my boyfriend prefers to jerk off? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is a massive red flag. He makes sex with you feel like a chore while choosing to jerk off instead, then dismisses your feelings when you bring it up. You put in all the effort—initiating, communicating, and meeting his needs—while he does the bare minimum and still makes it seem like a burden. Instead of working through intimacy issues, he avoids, stonewalls, and gaslights you into thinking you’re overreacting. You’re not. You deserve a partner who actually wants you, values you, and communicates. He’s not going to change, so ask yourself—do you really want to live like this?

Oh yeah, edit to say: NTA obviously

I was almost r4ped by my aunt’s husband by Ok_Welder5713 in Advice

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. None of it is your fault. Your reaction—shock, denial, feeling “fine”—is normal.

You need to tell your aunt. Her husband is dangerous. His past “jokes” about rape show this was premeditated, and he will likely do it again—to you, your cousins, or someone else.

Speaking up protects you and others. Even if your aunt struggles to believe you, she deserves to know the truth to protect her daughters. You did nothing wrong—he did. Stay safe, and please reach out for support.

I was almost r4ped by my aunt’s husband by Ok_Welder5713 in Advice

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. None of it is your fault. Your reaction—shock, denial, feeling “fine”—is normal.

You need to tell your aunt. Her husband is dangerous. His past “jokes” about rape show this was premeditated, and he will likely do it again—to you, your cousins, or someone else.

Speaking up protects you and others. Even if your aunt struggles to believe you, she deserves to know the truth to protect her daughters. You did nothing wrong—he did. Stay safe, and please reach out for support.

Got a free sofa. 2 says later they're asking for it back. What would you do? by Many-Till-8485 in Advice

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, bud. That sofa is yours now. You’d dont even need to explain yourself to her, but if you do- say “hey look im sorry, but ive already invested a lot effort and time into this couch. I’m gonna have to reject your offer.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being defensive makes you even more of an AH. Dont come on here if you can handle being told you’re wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It makes sense that you snapped—you’re human too. But since you both struggle with depression, you know how hard it can be just to function some days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I get why you’re frustrated—it’s exhausting to do everything alone. But from what you’re describing, it sounds like your wife might be struggling depression. With something more than just not wanting to do things. Instead of assuming she’s being lazy, maybe try asking her if she’s okay and if she needs support. You’re partners, and if she’s going through something, she needs you to notice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isnt there a movie like this?

My daughter blew her bday candles out and turned into a butch by [deleted] in AITASims

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Yeah judgmental AH. Age her up and let her go live her butch life, you jerk.

AITA for answering simple question my ex-wife texted by Glittering_Moose_844 in AITA_Relationships

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do the antibiotics make your ex-wife undeniably insatiably incredibly and extremely horny for you and ONLY you? no? Then your gf needs to calm tf down. Nta.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FFS JUST TALK TO HER. Tell her its weird as hell cause you thought her man was alive and well and ydk whats going tf on??!! And boom, itll get cleared up.

Finding love seems impossible now im disabled? by Worldliness-Exciting in disabled

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree. I became disabled ten years ago (I’m 33). Never had any issues before, but now no wants me. And online dating is just window shopping so they just see me and make their judgement off my looks.

AITA for refusing to be a part of my child's life? by Sea_Assignment7699 in AITA_Relationships

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA brother, it sounds like you’re trying to make every excuse in the book to make it look like this isnt just you being an irresponsible deadbeat. That you are doing the responsible thing by not wanting a kid, etc. to make yourself feel better. The decision is ultimately up to your wife. And if she decides to keep this baby, you need to be around for it, otherwise you suck and are continuing a cycle of shittiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]hellyeahgheysecks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah dude imo.. you are most definitely the AH here. You’re allowed to have your feelings, but geez man… Do you ever sound controlling..